Kuyankhulana Kwachinsinsi

Kuyankhulana kwapakati pazomwe kulimbikitsana kwa ntchito yopita patsogolo

Aliyense wa ife ndi makina a rada nthawi zonse omwe amayang'ana malo athu. Anthu ali okhutira ndi thupi , nkhope, nkhope, kayendetsedwe, mau a mawu, ndi zina. Kuwonjezera pa kumvetsetsa mawu omwe atchulidwa, anthu mwachibadwa amawoneka ndikumvetsera kwa onse osalankhula omwe ali mbali ya kuyankhulana.

Kufunika kwa Kulankhulana Kwabodza

Kulankhulana kosagwirizana ndi za thupi mwa munthu.

Ngati mumadziwa bwino munthu, mumatha kumva mawu awo pamene mukuwerenga maimelo awo. Koma mukamayankhula ndi munthu amene simukumudziwa bwino, ndi kosavuta kumvetsetsa mawu ake. Sarcasm ingathe kuwonetsedwa ngati mwachindunji ndipo kusamvetsetsana kungachitike. Ngakhale kuti anthu ambiri amatha kunyoza, zikhoza kukhala zovuta kuti muzindikire.

Kuti muyankhulane bwino, malemba anu osagwirizana ayenera kumayenderana ndi mawu anu. Mawu ndi chiyambi choyamba cha phunzilo kwa anthu omwe akufufuza tanthauzo la kulankhulana. Tikudziwa izi mwachibadwa.

Pamene wogwira ntchito akuti, "Ziri zabwino kwambiri!" Ndi kumwetulira kwakukulu pa nkhope yake ndi mawu okwera, mukudziwa kuti akusangalala ndi zotsatira zake. Kumbali inanso, pamene wogwira ntchito akunena, "Ziri zabwino" phokoso lakuphwanyika kapena la pansi, ali ndi grimace pa nkhope yake, mukudziwa kuti zinthu zilibe zabwino.

Pamene simungathe kumva mawu a mawu kapena kuona mawu kapena chilankhulo, mumayika pangozi zambiri za zomwe munthuyo akuyesera kuyankhulana.

Mwayi Wanu Monga Kulankhulana

Ngati mukulankhulana mosamalitsa zonse zomwe omvera anu amamva , mumalephera kugwiritsa ntchito zida zogwirizana. Ganizirani za nthawi yomaliza yomwe mwawona wokamba nkhani pagulu.

Iye sanawerengepo kuchokera pazithunzi za powerpoint ndipo mwina ankawoneka akulamulira gawo lonselo.

Mukawerenga nkhani yake pambuyo pokumva, mwina mumadabwa chifukwa chake zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri. Zonsezi ndi za kalembedwe kawonetsera.

Ngati mukufuna kukonza maluso anu komanso kuyankhulana , yesetsani kuwona zochepa za Ted Talks komanso kuona momwe okamba akugwiritsira ntchito pamanja, agwiritseni ntchito manja, ndikuwonetsa maganizo kudzera mu nkhope ya nkhope yomwe ikugwirizana ndi nkhani zawo.

Chizindikiro cha thupi lanu, mawonekedwe a nkhope, maimidwe, kayendetsedwe ka mawu, ndi liwu la mawu lingakuthandizeni kuti mutsimikizire choonadi, kuwona mtima, ndi kudalirika kwa mawu anu. Nthawi zambiri anthu amaganiza kuti akhoza kunena ngati akunama kapena kunena choonadi chifukwa cha momwe mumayankhulira, osati zomwe mumanena.

Thupi lanu limatha kuchepetsa kuyankhulana kwanu ngati mau omwe mumagwiritsa ntchito sali okhudzana ndi uthenga womwe mumatumizira kudzera mwachinsinsi chanu. Ngati mukudziyesa kukhala wokondwa (kapena wokhumudwa) za chinachake, thupi lanu lingakupatseni.

Mmene Mungayankhulire Mogwira Mtima

Kulankhulana kukugawana chidziwitso pakati pa anthu awiri kapena kuposa. Kulumikizana mogwira mtima kumafuna zonse zigawozikulu za kuyankhulana momasuka kwa tanthawuzo limodzi .

Ngati ntchito yanu ikuyendetsa anthu ndi anthu nthawi zambiri samamvetsa zomwe mukulankhula , zikhoza kukhala kuti thupi lanu silikufanana ndi mawu anu, kusiya anthu kusokonezeka.

Funsani ofesi yanu ya HR kuti ikuthandizeni kupeza maphunziro kapena kuphunzitsa komwe kudzakuphunzitsani kuti mufanane ndi thupi lanu m'mawu anu.

Mungaganize kuti ntchito yanu siimaphatikizapo kuyankhulana, koma mukulakwitsa. Tiyerekeze kuti mukulemba makompyuta tsiku lonse. Pamene simukuyankhula ndi anthu, mukulemba zinthu zomwe zimathandiza ena kulankhulana maganizo kapena deta.