Kulankhulana ndi Zithunzi Zamakono mu Networking

Chithunzi Chanu ndi Inu-Pangani Mpata Wabwino Kwambiri Pulojekiti ya Ntchito

Anthu opambana amakhulupirira kuti kupambana kwawo kumawoneka ndi chikhalidwe cha maubwenzi ogwirizana, pokhapokha chifukwa cha luso laumisiri kapena chidziwitso cha bizinesi. Kulankhulana kwanu ndi fano lomwe mumapereka zimapanga chidwi choyamba-nthawi zambiri chisonkhezero chosatha-pa anthu omwe mumakumana nawo.

Mukufunanso chithunzi chapamwamba? Momwe mukudziwonetsera nokha ndi sitepe yoyamba yopanga makina opindulitsa omwe amalumikizana nawo.

Maphunziro okhudza msonkhano wa anthu amasonyeza kuti anthu ambiri amapanga zosankha zatsopano pa masabata makumi atatu oyambirira mpaka mphindi ziwiri za mgwirizano. Izi sizikupatsani nthawi yambiri kuti mukhale ndi chidwi.

Kuphunzira kwa Dr. Albert Mehrabian ku UCLA kunawonetsa kuti anthu akamayesa kufotokoza tanthauzo mwakulankhulana kwawo ndi ena , uthenga wanu umatumiziridwa mwachindunji komanso kudzera m'maonekedwe ndi nkhope.

Maphunziro ake adawulula kuti mpaka 37 peresenti ya maganizo oyambirira amachokera pa mawu a wokamba nkhani. Pa telefoni, nambala imeneyo imakula kufika pa 80 peresenti kapena kuposa, malinga ndi akatswiri ambiri olankhulana.

Izi ndizigawo zinayi zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri fano lanu ndi momwe mukudziwonetsera nokha:

Kuwonekera kwa Mphunzitsi

Malangizo abwino omwe operekedwa ndi aphungu ndi abwana awo omwe akufuna kupititsa patsogolo ntchito yawo akhala akuvala kaamba ka ntchito yomwe mukufuna, osati ntchito yomwe muli nayo panopa.

Ngakhale masiku ano ovala zovala zosagwira ntchito, chithunzi chanu chitha kukuthandizani mukamapititsa patsogolo , kutsogolo kwasunthira , ntchito zosankhidwa komanso kuwonekera kwadongosolo kulipo.

Kuwoneka mwakhama kumakulekanitsani ndi anzanu akuntchito omwe sakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri pakuwonetsa polojekiti yabwino, yodziwika bwino.

Pano pali ndondomeko ya kavalidwe kavalidwe kazamalonda komanso kavalidwe kosasangalatsa mu malo ogwirira ntchito . Zotsatira za mavalidwe amenewa zidzakuthandizani kumalo aliwonse ogwira ntchito omwe amachititsa kuti pakhale malo osasamala.

Lankhulani ndi Magulu Kuti Muwonjezere Zithunzi Zanu

Kodi mukudziwa kuti kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti anthu ambiri amanena kuti amaopa kulankhula poyera kuposa omwe amafa? Komabe, kulankhula pagulu, kufotokozera pamisonkhano , ndi kuyankhula momveka bwino m'magulu ang'onoang'ono akhoza kuchita zambiri pakuwonekera kwanu kusiyana ndi mwayi uliwonse. Kutsatsa kumabweranso kawirikawiri kwa antchito omwe amatha kulankhulana mogwira mtima mwa munthu.

Pangani Professional Image mu Kulemba

Kugonjera kwanu kudzera m'makalata olembedwa, imelo, makalata, ndi mitundu yonse ya kuyankhulana kolembedwa ndi nkhope yomwe mumakhala nayo nthawi zambiri kuntchito kwanu kapena kumidzi. Ndi ma email, ma IM, kulemberana mameseji, ndi kutumizira ku malo ochezera a pa Intaneti , nthawi zambiri nthawi zambiri amalamulira. Ndi kulakwitsa kwa chithunzi chanu chachinsinsi.

Zida zoyankhulanazi kuntchito ndi zipangizo zamalumikizidwe komanso zamaluso ndipo ziyenera kuwoneka ngati kuyankhulana.

Mu imelo, mwachitsanzo, yambani moni (Wokondedwa Mary), wotseka (Oyang'anira), ndi fayilo yosayina yomwe imanena kuti ndinu ndani, mutu wanu, dipatimenti, maadiresi a ntchito ndi nambala ya foni.

Kuti mudziwe zambiri polemba, onani Babu Yoyamba Kulembetsa Yolemba pa Yunivesite ya Purdue. Ndilofotokozera kwakukulu. Kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza kulembera zamalonda ndi zamalonda, Purdue imabweranso. Mndandandawu ukutsogolerani ku mitu monga Zolemba Zambiri Zolemba Zolemba , Makalata, Memos ndi Malipoti , ndi Zitsanzo ndi Zitsanzo . Zonse zimapindulitsa nthawi yanu.

Kukhulupirira kuti malangizowo m'madera anayi adzakuthandizani kupanga chithunzi chazomwe mukufuna kuti ena adziwone za inu, gwiritsani ntchito malangiziwa kuti mupititse patsogolo ntchito yanu.

Chifaniziro chanu chamaphunziro, chomwe chimagwiritsidwa ntchito pamisonkhano yanu yolankhulana, maso ndi maso, kulankhulana kolembedwa, ndi maonekedwe, kumabweretsa mwayi wambiri wochezera.

Kulumikizana ndikumanga maubwenzi, ogwirizana potumikira pothandizira onse awiri kupeza zolinga. Mawuwo amachokera mukutanthauzira mawu akuti: "dongosolo la zinthu (monga mizera kapena njira) zomwe zimayenda mofanana ndi ulusi muukonde." (Merriam-Webster) Chithunzi chanu ndi kulankhulana ndizofunikira polimbikitsa kupambana kwanu.

Anthu akhala akugwiritsa ntchito machitidwe ovomerezeka mwachinsinsi, koma chidwi cha zaka za posachedwapa chakhala chokhazikika pakupanga maubwenzi ndi anzako amzanga ndi abwenzi a abwenzi.

Mu bukhu lake, The Tipping Point (yerekezerani mitengo), Malcolm Gladwell akulongosola munthu yemwe amadziwa anthu ambiri monga wogwirizanitsa ndipo amalengeza okhudzana ndi kuwathandiza zambiri zomwe zimagwirizana.

Kaya ndi chidziwitso cha ochita bizinesi, ntchito, malonda odyera, kapena mabuku abwino kuti awerenge, ogwirizanitsa amathandiza ena kupeza zomwe akusowa pogwirizanitsa anthu omwe sadziwa. Umu ndi momwe mumakhalira malo ogwirira ntchito.

Zida zimenezi ziyenera kupereka munthu wodziwa bwino ntchito, yemwe akufuna kupeza mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito mauthenga, zowunikira zothandiza.

Ngati mwakonza bwino chifaniziro cha akatswiri kudzera kuyankhulana maso ndi maso, olembedwa, ndi oyankhulidwa; maonekedwe anu ndi kukhalapo kwanu, ntchito yanu idzakwera. Ndimadalira zothandiza izi kukuthandizani kulikonse kumene mukufuna kupita.