Mmene Mungamvere Mozama
Mwa kuya, kapena kumvetsera mwatcheru, omwe ndi mawu ogwiritsidwa ntchito pofotokoza miyambo yomvetsera yeniyeni, omvetsera amasonyeza makhalidwe ena omvetsera amphamvu. Mukamapereka chidwi chanu kwa munthu wina kapena ntchito, mumamvetsera kwambiri zomwe akuyesera kuti azilankhulana.
Kumvetsera kumamveka ndi munthu wina mwaulemu komanso molemekeza .
Kumvetsera kumvekanso, ndi munthu yemwe mumamvetsera, ngati umboni kuti mumamvetsera komanso kumvetsa chimene munthuyo akuyesera kulankhulana. Phunzirani kumvetsera mwachidwi kuti mukhale wogwirizanitsa bwino malonda . Simungathe kukhala wolankhulirana momveka bwino popanda theka lachiwiri lakumvetsera, kumvetsera mwachidwi, kulandiridwa mwamphamvu.
Mvetserani Zomwe Makonzedwe Amagwira Ntchito kapena Kumvetsera Kwambiri
Kumvetsera mwatcheru, munthu yemwe akumvetsera, amapereka kwa munthu amene amamumvetsera, ulemu wawo waukulu . Izi zimayesedwa mwa kuyesetsa kwakukulu kuti aganizirepo ndi kuziganizira pa mawu ndi tanthauzo la munthu amene akuyankhula nawo, akuyesera kufotokoza.
Kumvetsera kwakukulu kapena mwakhama:
- Omvetsera amamufunsa mafunso omwe amayesa ndikuyang'ana kumvetsetsa ndi kufotokoza tanthauzo la zomwe communicator akuyesera kuziwonetsa. Womvetsera samathera nthawi yopanga yankho kapena yankho kulankhulana kwa wokamba nkhaniyo.
- Womvetsera amamvetsera maganizo ake ndikutanthauzira mozama mawu ndi tanthauzo la munthu amene akulankhula monga momwe amachitira ndi kumva kudzera m'zinthu zoterezi monga mawu awo, kamvekedwe ka mawu, maonekedwe a nkhope ndi thupi , zitsanzo, ndi liwiro la kulankhula.
- Cholinga cha kumvetsera mwachidwi chimagwirizanitsa zomwe omvera ndi munthu amene akulankhulana amavomereza za uthenga womwe unaperekedwa kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake.
- Pokamvetsera mwatcheru, omvera amapatsa munthu kuyesera kulankhulana, kulimbitsa thupi lake, kudandaula mawu ogwirizana, ndi zizindikiro zina ndi zochita zomwe zimathandiza munthuyo kuyankhulana kumva ndi kumvetsera. Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kugwedeza mutu wanu, kumwetulira, kunena "inde, ndimvetsetsa," ndikugwiritsa ntchito njira zina popereka ndemanga pamene mumamvetsera.
Kuthanizani Kumvetsera Zizolowezi Zoipa
Zimakhala zovuta kugwiritsira ntchito zizoloŵezi zoipa zozimvetsera tsiku ndi tsiku lotanganidwa lomwe mumagwira ntchito. Izi ndizofala kumvetsera zizoloŵezi zoipa zomwe zingakulepheretseni kukhala woyankhulana bwino kwambiri.
- Ngati wogwira ntchito mobwerezabwereza akuukitsa nkhani zomwezo kapena malingaliro anu, ngati womvera womvera, vuto lofunika kuganizira ndilo kuti wogwira ntchitoyo akudzibwereza yekha chifukwa samva kuti mumumvetsera. Yang'anirani makhalidwe anu omvetsera kuti muwone ngati mukuwonetsa makhalidwe oyenera omvetsera omwe angayankhule kwa ogwira ntchito omwe mumamvetseradi-ndi kumumvetsera ndi kumumvetsa.
- Musayese kumvetsera mwachidwi mnzanu kapena wogwira ntchito. Mumanyoza munthuyo ndipo simungamvetsetse bwino malo awo kapena zosowa zawo. Pamene wogwira ntchito kapena mnzanu akukufunsani malangizo, kudzoza, ndemanga kapena zokambirana , mvetserani kumvetsa zomwe munthuyo akufuna kuchokera kwa inu.
Ngati simungathe kupezeka kwathunthu kwa munthu wogwira ntchito pa minitiyi pa chifukwa china chilichonse, ndi bwino kuyambiranso zokambiranazo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukupita kumsonkhano, mukulimbana ndi nthawi yomaliza, kuyesa kuchoka msanga, kapena kukumana ndi zododometsa zilizonse, ndi bwino kupanga nthawi yomwe mungamvetsere munthuyo.
Pa zochitika zovuta kwambiri, ngati mutangomvetsera pang'ono, wogwira ntchitoyo akuyenda kutali ndikukumva kuti simusamala za nkhawa zake . Ndi bwino kuyambiranso zokambirana pamene muli ndi nthawi yomvetsera ndi chidwi chanu chozama. Nenani, "Tom, ndasokonezeka kwambiri ndi nthawi yachitatu yomwe ndakhala ndikugwira ntchitoyi. Kodi tikhoza kusonkhana mawa m'ma 9 kuti ndikathe kumvetsera ndikukumvetsa bwino zomwe mukukumana nazo?"
- Mvetserani mwatcheru kumvetsetsa zomwe mnzako kapena wogwira ntchito akufunikira kuchokera kwa inu. Manenjala ambiri, makamaka, amagwiritsidwa ntchito pothandiza anthu kuthana ndi mavuto omwe njira yawo yoyamba ikuyambira ndikuyambilana njira zothetsera mavuto . Mwinamwake wogwira ntchitoyo akungofunikira kumvetsera. Njira yanu yabwino ndikumvetsera mwakhama komanso mozama. Funsani mafunso kuti muwone bwino kuti mutha kumvetsa zomwe antchito akuyesa kulankhulana. Pamene mumakhulupirira kuti mukutero, ndiye, ndipo pokhapokha, funsani munthuyo zomwe akufuna kuchokera kwa inu. Khulupirirani izi. Nthawi zambiri amadziwa, ndipo nthawi zambiri amapuma ndikufuula ndikumanena kuti, "Zikomo kwambiri chifukwa chomvetsera basi, sindikufuna kuti muchite china chilichonse."
Mungathe kukhala omvetsera omvera mwatcheru ngati mutamvetsera zizoloŵezi zitatu zoipa izi.
Kusinthaku katatu kukupangani kukhala wogwirizanitsa malonda .