Mafotokozedwe Otsika a Ntchito ndi Kuyankhulana kwa Anthu Osagwirizana
Kodi anthu amalankhulana bwanji mosalekeza?
Wotumizayo amapereka uthenga wosasamala kwa wolandira kudzera mwa njira zotsatirazi.
Chilankhulo: Njira imene munthu amakhala; imayima; kumasuntha manja, manja, ndi mapazi; zochitika zina zobisika.
Kuwonetsa nkhope: Anthu nkhope ndizofotokoza momveka bwino kuphatikizapo maso, ziso, pakamwa, ndi kayendedwe kena kalikonse.
Maganizo monga mkwiyo, chisangalalo, kupweteka, kunyansidwa, kusokonezeka, ndi kukhumudwa zonse zimayesedwa mosavuta ndi kayendedwe ka nkhope.
Makhalidwe: Momwe mumadzikhudzira nokha kuphatikizapo kupirira, kuyimirira, kukhwima, kuongoka. Kaya mukudalira molimba mtima, mutakhala mokhazikika pampando wanu, kapena mutatsamira ndi maso anu, mumapereka uthenga kudzera mumalo anu ndi malo anu.
Kuyanjana kwa diso: Anthu nthawi zambiri amanena kuti anthu okhulupilira amakhala okhulupilika pamene akuyang'anitsitsa maso komanso mosiyana. Kuyankhulana kwa diso kumagwiritsidwanso ntchito kusonyeza chidwi ndi malingaliro, ndi kulimbikitsa ubale ndi wolandira uthengawo. Amagwiritsidwanso ntchito kusonyeza chidwi, kusocheretsa, ndi chidwi chenicheni.
Manja: Manjawa amathandiza kwambiri kulankhulana. Amagwiritsira ntchito mawu omveka ndi kuwonjezera tanthawuzo. Zochita zochepa chabe monga kung'amba mphuno, kudula tsitsi lanu, kugwedeza pa zovala zanu, kuyika manja anu m'chiuno, ndi kukulitsa mauthenga olankhulana mosamala kapena mosadziwika.
Zizindikiro: Zizindikiro ndi zolemba zina ndi mawu, zithunzi kapena zizindikiro zimaonedwa kuti ndi njira yosayankhulana.
Zovala ndi zofuna zina monga zikwangwani, magalasi otetezera, ndi zina zotere: Mitundu ya zovala ndi mawonekedwe anu amatumiza mauthenga amphamvu osalankhula. Ena mwa mauthengawa ndi ofunika ngati pamene wogwira ntchito amavala shati ndi timu yake yomwe amamukonda kwambiri kumbuyo kapena wogwira ntchito amene amanyamula suti yowonongeka, ngati suti tsiku ndi tsiku.
Koma, anthu angatumize mauthenga ena mosazindikira popanda kuzindikira momwe uthenga wawo umakhudzidwira. Wokonda zotetezera zokhazokha angamawoneke ngati wosavomerezeka pamene sichinali cholinga chake. Anangofuna kuwoneka wokonzeka ku bizinesi, odalirika, ndi odalirika . Wodzivala wa blouse wotsika kwambiri angakhale kapena sakufuna antchito anzake kuti amupeze wapamtima. Komabe, bwino, amatumiza uthenga wosiyana.
Zojambula paofesi: Kuntchito, momwe mumakongoletsera ofesi yanu imatumiziranso mauthenga kwa antchito omwe amalowa. Kumene mumaika debulo lanu, mtunda wa pakati pa mpando wanu ndi alendo, kaya mipando ikulekanitsani inu ndi anzanu akuntchito onse amalankhula mwamphamvu komanso mosaganizira.
Mmene mumalankhulira ndi mbali zina za ziganizo: Paralinguistics ndi kuyankhulana kwauyankhulidwe kosiyana ndi mawu enieni omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndipo zimaphatikizapo zinthu monga kusokoneza, kuthamanga, kuyendayenda, kupuma, ndi kupfuula. Ndiwo mawonekedwe osankhulana omwe angakhale othandizira kuyankhulana kwa foni ndi munthu.
Gwirani: Kugwira ndi njira yamphamvu yolankhulirana. Katsitsi kumbuyo, kukukumbatira, munthu amene akugwira dzanja lanu mwachifundo amalumikizana ndi kapena opanda mawu aliwonse.
Mlengalenga: Monga momwe ntchito yanu ikugwirira ntchito muofesi yanu imapereka mauthenga kwa wolandila, komanso malo omwe mumakhala nawo mukamagwira ntchito kapena kulankhulana.
Ambiri a kumpoto kwa America amakonda malo oposa masentimita 18 kuzungulira umunthu wawo pamene akulankhulana ndi ena. Chilichonse choyandikana chikuwoneka ngati chapafupi kwambiri, makamaka kuntchito, kwambiri.
Pachimodzi mwa zosangalatsa kwambiri analephera kuyesa kuyankhulana komwe kunachitika, wophunzira wochokera ku dziko lina akuyesera kufotokozera chinachake kwa wolemba boma wa yunivesite ya US. Ankafuna kuyandikira kwa iye kuti amuthandize kumvetsa chifukwa chake anali wolondola, chizoloŵezi chimene chinachita bwino kudziko lake.
Ankafuna malo ake okwanira 18 ndipo anali atatsimikiza mtima kusunga. Kotero iwo anali akutsatirana kwenikweni ku ofesi. Nthawi iliyonse atasamukira pafupi, anasamuka. Sikuti kuchitika kulikonse kumalankhula izi mokweza, koma chitetezo cha munthu cha malo osungirawo ndichangu.
Chifukwa Chakulankhulana Osagwirizana
Zogwiritsidwa ntchito mogwirizana ndi mawu olankhulana a mawu, kulankhulana kosagwirizana kukuthandizani kutumizirana mauthenga omwe amamvetsetsa bwino ndi omwe mukuwulandira omwe mukufuna.
Mukhoza kulembetsa, kulimbitsa, kutsindika, ndi kukulitsa chiyanjano chanu ndi njira zilizonse zomwe tatchula pamwambazi.
Monga chida chothandiza, muyenera kugwiritsira ntchito mauthenga osagwirizana kuti muwonetsetse kuti mukulankhulana uthenga wanu mwachindunji momwe mungathere. Zomwe mukufuna kuzimva muzitha kulankhulana ndi zowonongeka zimathandizira kulumikizana tanthauzo.
Koma, mukufunikiranso kuzindikira kuti momwe mumayankhulirana mwachindunji kungatanthauzeni chinthu chimodzi koma kupereka uthenga wosiyana kwa wolandila kuyankhulana kwanu. Mwachitsanzo, mnyamata wina wachinyamata anali ndi chizoloŵezi chofika pamsonkhano ndi bwana wake podzifalitsa yekha pa malo aakulu pa tebulo.
Kukhalapoku kuphatikizapo chizoloŵezi chake choyika chikwangwani chake ndi botolo lake la madzi kumbali zonse ziwiri za iye patebulo sizinasokoneze bwana wake. Wogwira ntchitoyo anali kukhala womasuka koma abwana ake ankawona kukhalapo kwake ngati kuukirira kwa malo ake.
Izi zinali zopweteka kuukwati wawo makamaka monga wantchito anali ndi chizoloŵezi chodalira pa tebulo pamene adalankhula momveka bwino. Izi zinamupangitsa bwana wake, ngakhale kuti bwana anali ndi mphamvu zogwirira ntchito, osasangalatsa.
Pamene Osalankhula ndi Olankhula Momasuka Musagwirizane
Pamene kusagwirizana kulipo pakati pa zomwe mukulankhula ndi mawu osalankhula omwe mukuwatumizira, kulankhulana kosagwirizana kukukhulupiliridwa ndi ovomerezeka anu.
Mwachitsanzo, pamene wogwira ntchito akukuuzani kuti zonse zili bwino, koma zonse zokhudza mau ake, mawonekedwe a nkhope, thupi, ndi kulephera kumwetulira ndizosavomerezeka, simukukhulupirira mawuwo.
Chifukwa chake, ngati kulankhulana kwanu kosakayika kukuthandizani ngati chida chothandizira kuyankhulana kwathunthu, muyenera kumvetsetsa za kuyankhulana kwanu kosagwirizana ndi mawu anu.
Pamene Nkhani Zowankhulana Zosamvana
Kwabwino kapena kovuta, kuyankhulana kosagwirizana kungakuthandizeni kapena kukuthandizani. Chofunika koposa, dziwani mphamvu zomwe zimakhudza zotsatira za kuyankhulana kwanu. Kaya mukuyankhula ndi gulu lonse pa msonkhano wa kampani, kukambirana ndi mnzanu pa foni, kapena kulankhula ndi bwana wanu ku ofesi yake, kuyankhulana kosagwirizana kumakhudza kugwirizana.
Kulankhulana kosamvana kumalimbikitsanso pamisonkhano yanu ya tsiku ndi tsiku ndi anzanu akuntchito ndi kuyankhulana kwanu m'mabwalo a malo ogwira ntchito. Ndizofunika pamadyerero anu mwina kapena kunja kwa bungwe lanu.
Pomalizira, dziwani mphamvu yanu yosayankhulana ndi ogwira nawo ntchito, ogula anu kapena makasitomala, ogulitsa anu, ndi osonkhana nawo. Kufananitsa kulankhulana kwanu kosagwirizana ndi mawu anu akuwathandiza kukukhulupirirani .
Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito ndi kusamala mauthenga anu osalankhula kuti muwonetsere mauthenga anu bwino. Kapena, mungalole kuti kulankhulana kwanu kukuwonetseni kuti simukugwira ntchito, wolankhulirana wodekha , kapena wogwira ntchito amene mawu ake osakayikitsa sakudalirika. Bwanji osagwiritsa ntchito mauthenga osagwiritsirana ntchito? Ndipambana kwa onse.