Mwachiwonetsero chomwecho, zolakwika kapena zosavomerezeka bwino zowonongeka ndizo chakudya cha usiku wopanda mavuto komanso zovuta kwambiri pamoyo wa anthu kupatula kuntchito.
Muzochitika zambiri zokopa, makasitomala ambiri amanyalanyaza mphamvu ndi zotsatira za zochitika zawo tsiku ndi tsiku ndi mamembala a gulu. Izi ndizofunikira makamaka kwa abwana ndi atsogoleri omwe ali ndi chizoloŵezi chodzidzimutsa. Mosasamala kanthu, zolinga zopangidwa bwino ndi zoperekedwa zingakhale zowononga komanso nkhanza. Taganizirani nkhani ya John yomwe ili pansipa.
Zotsatira Zabwino Zinasokoneza Makhalidwe Osauka Othandizira Otsogolera ... Kwa kanthawi:
Mmodzi yemwe anali wovuta kwambiri wophunzitsira kasitomala, "John," anali ndi mbiri ngati mtsogoleri wonyenga yemwe anali ndi zotsatira zoyendetsa galimoto. Pamene John adalandira bwana watsopano-wachiwiri wotsatila pulezidenti dzina lake Rick, potsatira mgwirizano, poyamba Rick adayamikira mphamvu ya John yobweretsa ndalama zowonjezera ndi ndalama, komatu patapita kanthawi, zinaonekeratu kuti sizinali zabwino pa gulu la John .
Makhalidwe anali otsika ndipo chiwongoladzanja pa timu chinali mapiritsi awiri ofunika kwambiri a mtsogoleri.
Pa nthawi yopitiliza kuyankhulana ndi nyenyezi yomwe ikukwera pa timu ya John, Rick anakumbukira kuti akudabwa ndi zomwe akunena kuti: "Kugwira ntchito kwa John kumakhala kovuta tsiku ndi tsiku. Iye ndi wochenjera kwambiri ndipo amafunsa ntchito kwa aliyense ndipo ndi zabwino. Kumene amadzipweteka yekha, ali ndi maganizo ake. Nthawi zonse amatsutsa ntchito yathu koma nthawi zambiri amatipatsa ife zokwanira zomwe tingachite pofuna kusintha. Anthu amazindikira kuti ndizosautsa komanso kumangokhalira kunyoza ndipo amatha kutopa. "
Rick atapempha thandizo kuti athetse vutoli, nthawi yambiri idagwiritsidwa ntchito kumayambiriro kwa chiyanjano kumvetsera Yohane ndi anthu ake ndikumuwona akuchita. Apa pali zomwe zinawoneka ndi kumva:
- Mamembala a John adamuopa kwambiri. Iwo amadziwa kuti ngati achita chinachake cholakwika, iwo amamva za izo. Monga wogwira ntchito wina anapereka: "Aliyense amamva za izo-John akugulitsa."
- Nditafunsanso gululi, ndakhala ndikuwonetsa John akugwira ntchito sabata limodzi. Palibe kukayikira kuti anali (ndipo ndi) katswiri wanzeru, wophunzitsidwa kuti apereke zotsatira zabwino chifukwa cha khama lake. Komanso, ndinazindikira kuti adakonda komanso adayamika mamembala a gulu lake, komabe, malingaliro abwinowo adatayika mu zizoloŵezi zowononga zokhumudwitsa .
- John anali wofulumira kutsutsa koma anapereka pang'ono phindu pa momwe angapititsire. Zambiri mwazochita zake zinali zotsutsana, osati zokambirana, ndipo John sanaperekepo yankho lolondola. Antchito ake nthawi zambiri ankagwira ntchito kuti amuteteze, makamaka ngati panali vuto chifukwa sakufuna kuitana imodzi mwa maganizo ake.
Kuzindikiridwa ndi Njira Yoyamba Yothetsera Vuto
John poyamba adadabwa ndi zomwe adayankha ndipo pomaliza pake adapereka chitetezo chofooka: "Ndimavomereza kuti ndine munthu wokhumudwa. Ndinakulira m'banja limene kudandaula ndi momwe tinalankhulira, ndipo makolo anga sanalole kuti ntchito yosagwira bwino kusukulu kapena masewera ena asakhale bwino. Tikadandaula, tinamva za izo. "
Yohane atamvetsetsa kuti kuyankhulana kwake kunakhudza bwanji mamembala ake, iye anadandauladi ndi zizoloŵezi zake zoipa. Muli pangano la khalidwe lake, adagwirizana kuti afunsire mayankho ndi kuyika gulu lake kuti ayang'ane zomwe zikuchitika ndikumupangitsa kuti adziwe kuti ali ndi chidziwitso, kumvetsetsa komanso kuchitapo kanthu. Iye anachotsa ntchitoyi poitana msonkhano wa gulu ndikufotokozera zomwe adaphunzira ndikuchita kusintha. Kenako anakumana ndi mamembala ake onse ndipo adadzipepesa.
Pamene John akupitilizidwa kuti apange zotsatira ndipo akugwira ntchito mofulumira: mwachangu, mamembala ake ndi abwana onse amavomereza kuti luso lake loyankhulana lapambana kwambiri. "Makhalidwe abwino ndi ofunika, chiwonongeko chatsopano ndipo John ayika khama lalikulu kuti akwanitse kuwongolera malingaliro ake ndi kulankhulana kwa tsiku ndi tsiku monga momwe akuchitira popanga zotsatira zabwino kwa kampani yathu," adapatsa bwana wake, Rick, miyezi isanu ndi umodzi mutatha kukambirana.
Zomwe Yohane anaphunzira ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito zimaphunzitsa kwa abwana onse kuyesetsa kuti apindule bwino.
Maphunziro Othandizira Ambiri Ochokera kwa Yohane Kuti Woyang'anira Aliyense Azigwirizana
1, Mvetserani zambiri kuposa momwe mumalankhulira tsiku lililonse.
2. Ngati mukufuna kulankhula, funsani mafunso.
3. Pitirizani kulemba kapena kulembetsa chiwerengero cha nthawi patsiku mumapereka malamulo motsutsana ndi mafunso. Yesetsani kuyendetsa chiŵerengero chokwanira kuti mufunse mafunso.
4. Musadandaule, ziribe kanthu momwe zinthu zikukuvutitsani inu.
5. Pamene mavuto akuchitika-ndipo akuchita tsiku ndi tsiku-funsani zopempha ndikufunseni munthu momwe akufunira kuthetsa vutoli pokhapokha atapereka malamulo.
6. Pamene mwawona khalidwe loyenerera malingaliro olimbikitsa, onetsetsani kugwirizanitsa khalidwe ndi bizinesi mmalo modzipanga kukhala lokha.
7. Nthawi zonse, nthawi zonse, zimakhala zowonjezera kulandira yankho pazokambirana kuti zitsimikizidwe bwino ndi zomwe zikugwirizana ndi kuthetsa vutoli.
8. Kupereka ndemanga zabwino mobwerezabwereza kusiyana ndi mayankho ogwira mtima.
9. Funsani mayankho pazoyankha zanu. Yesani mafunso awa monga oyambira:
- Kodi mumamva kuti mukulemekezeka pa zokambirana zathu ndi zokambirana zathu?
- Kodi mumamva kuti ndikuyamikira malingaliro anu ndi zowonjezera pamene tikugwira ntchito ndi mavuto ndi zothetsera?
- Kodi ndemanga zomwe ndimakupatsani nthawi yake ndi zomwe zingatheke?
- Kodi malingaliro anga olimbikitsa amathandiza kuphunzira kwanu ndi kukula?
- Kodi timakambirana za momwe ntchito ikuyenera kuyendera m'tsogolomu?
- Kodi ndikutsatira zokambirana zathu?
- Kodi nthawi zonse ndimakupatsani malingaliro abwino pazochita zanu?
- Kodi ndingatani kuti ndikuthandizeni kusintha maganizo anga?
Mfundo Yofunika Kwambiri Panopa
N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti sikuti woyang'anira aliyense ali ndi mphamvu ngati John kuti azisintha. Kusintha kwa John kunali pangano la kudzipereka kwa moyo wake waumisiri komanso kulemekeza kwenikweni antchito ake. Poyesetsa mwakhama, anasamukira kukhala mtsogoleri wothandizira kwambiri, yemwe machitidwe ake oyankhulana anali owononga kwambiri kuposa opindulitsa, kutumikira monga mtsogoleri wabwino yemwe anathandizira kukula kwa mamembala ake.
Kodi ndi nthawi yoti mufunse mafunso ofunikira pamwambapa, ndikuwone ngati mukuchita nkhanza kapena muli okoma pazinthu zoyankhulana?