Kukonzekera kwa gulu lonse ndi mkwiyo wonse masiku ano, koma mpaka titasunthira zina zazing'ono zomwe timakonda kuti tidziwone kukhala mtsogoleri, zidzakhala zovuta kuti tipange kusintha.
Pano pali zochitika zisanu ndi ziŵiri zowonjezereka zokhudzana ndi utsogoleri zomwe zimatilepheretsa ife.
Atsogoleli Ndi Ochepa Kwambiri Akumwamba
Lingaliro lathu la tsopano la utsogoleri limakhala lokha, limodzi ndi udindo wa utsogoleri wa munthu mmodzi kapena awiri pamwamba pa piramidi ya mphamvu ndi ulamuliro. Zoona, utsogoleri ndi wambiri. Tsiku lililonse, aliyense wa ife amayenda pamitundu yambiri ya utsogoleri. Tonse ndife atsogoleri mwa njira imodzi, ndipo tikakhala ndi lingaliro lokwanira la utsogoleri , timatha kugwira ntchito limodzi pogwiritsa ntchito luso lapadera la aliyense.
Atsogoleri amaikidwa kuchokera ku Kubadwa kapena Mutu
"Iye ndi mtsogoleri wobadwa." Timamva nthawi zonse. Koma kodi zimenezi zikutanthauza chiyani kwenikweni? Tonsefe tingathe kukhala atsogoleri amphamvu mwa kutenga udindo wathunthu ngakhale kuti tingathe kuthandizira kuchita chilichonse, kaya zopereka zathu zimachokera kutsogolo kapena kumbuyo.
Mutu sungapangitse munthu kukhala mtsogoleri. Tili ndi zitsanzo zambiri za anthu omwe ali ndi maudindo odziwika omwe satha kugwirizana, kulimbikitsa, kulimbikitsa ndi kulimbikitsa ena.
Atsogoleri Aakulu Amagwira Ntchito Yokha
Iyi ndi "mbusa wodwala" chiphunzitso cha utsogoleri. Dzisungulumeni nokha ndikusiyana ndi "pakiti." Apo ayi, simungathe kusunga malo a alpha ndi kutsogolera bwino.
Izi zikhoza kukhala zothandiza pamene amphamvu kwambiri adapulumuka chifukwa tinkafunafuna chakudya kapena kuthamanga kuchokera ku zinyama koma takhala tikudalira kwambiri ntchitoyi. Atsogoleri ogwira mtima masiku ano ali odziwa bwino kutsogolera atsogoleri. M'ntchito zamakono zomwe zikuphatikizapo ntchito, coaching imaonedwa kukhala luso lapadera la utsogoleri wabwino.
Atsogoleri akuyenera kuti akhale ndi mayankho onse
M'mbuyomu, tinkakonda kuwonetsa atsogoleri ngati olimba mtima, osokoneza mavuto omwe amapereka njira zothetsera mavuto aakulu panthawi yomweyo. Izi ndizomwe zimagwirizanitsa ndikugwirizanitsa ndipo zimapereka njira zothetsera mavuto omwe nthawi zambiri sakhala osasunthika kapena amodzi chifukwa sanagwirizanepo mozama, pofufuza ndikutsutsana. Chikhumbo ndi mafunso amphamvu ndi mbali yofunikira ya utsogoleri wabwino.
Utsogoleri Ndi Zotsatira, Osati Anthu
Monga momwe moyo wamasiku ano wathamangira, takhala tikuchitapo kanthu ndipo zotsatira zimayendetsedwa. Zikuwoneka kuti ndibwino kuti mutangotenga zinthu zonse "zofewa" ndikuyendetsa movutikira zotsatira. Mwamwayi, pamene tachotsedwa ku zinthu zathu ndi ena, kuchita izi mosalekeza kumabweretsa zochitika zomwe sizingatheke ndipo zimatipangitsa ife kumverera kutayika ndikusowa tanthawuzo komanso tanthauzo.
Utsogoleri umene umalimbikitsa ndi kukhala nawo ndikutchedwa Co-Active Leadership ndi co- (kukhala) ndi - yogwira ntchito (kuchita) mogwirizana pamodzi.
Chirichonse mu dziko lathu lachirengedwe chimatiphunzitsa ife kuti mphamvu ziwiri izi- ndi zogwira ntchito - zimalumikizana pamodzi mphindi iliyonse. Mofanana ndi yin ndi yang ya filosofi yakale ya Chinese Taoist, co- ndi yogwira ntchito- amagwirizanitsa pamodzi kuti apange kugwirizana, kulingalira, ndi umoyo.
Utsogoleri Ndi Wolimba
Timakonda kukhulupirira kuti kamodzi pamene utsogoleri wapatsidwa udindo kapena udindo, zinthu zimakhala choncho mpaka mtsogoleri wotsogoleredwa atasiya, akuchotsedwa kapena kufa. Zoona, utsogoleri ndi wothandiza kwambiri, wamphamvu komanso wamoyo pamene ukuyenda mofulumira mu dongosolo lonse. Mwa njira iyi, aliyense ndi mtsogoleri- nthawi zina amatsogola kutsogolo ndikuwonetsa njira, nthawi zina amatsogolera kumbuyo ndikuthandizira kuyambitsa, nthawi zina amachokera pambali ndi mgwirizano ndipo nthawi zina amachokera kumunda wamphamvu, pogwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso ndi chidziwitso kuti adziwe chomwe chiri osalankhulidwa.
Mu Utsogoleri Wogwira Mtima, Kusalephera Sizochita
Iyi ndi nthano yoopsa kwambiri. Kulephera ndi gawo lofunikira la kufufuza, kutulukira kwatsopano, ndi zatsopano . Ngati sitingakwanitse kulephera, ndiye kuti tiyenera kukhala ndi njira zovomerezeka kuchokera kale. Zomwe timachita sizikusowa chidwi ndi kufufuza chifukwa timachita mantha kwambiri ndi kulephera kotero kuti sitikufuna kuyesa china chatsopano.
Timangophunzira mobwerezabwereza kuti titha kuphunzira, kusintha ndikukula. Ndikofunika kuti atsogoleri adziwe ndikukondwerera kulephera monga mbali yofunikira ya chitukuko ndi kupeza.
Ndikupereka tanthauzo latsopano la utsogoleri: Atsogoleri ndi omwe ali ndi udindo pa dziko lawo. Pamene tili ndi mphamvu zowonetsera mwachidwi m'malo mochita zowonongeka komanso zowonongeka, tikamvetsa kuti ndife olemba miyoyo yathu, tilidi atsogoleri.
Tsatanetsatane wa utsogoleri umalola anthu kupereka zopereka kuchokera ku mphamvu zawo zomwe zimapanga utsogoleri umene uli wolimba komanso wophatikizapo. Tonse ndife ofunikira, ndipo tonsefe timagwira njira yothetsera mavuto omwe akukumana nawo. Ndizoti tikamasula zikhulupiriro izi zokhudzana ndi m'mene utsogoleri umatanthawuzira ndikusanthula malingaliro atsopano kuti tidzatha kugwira ntchito ndi kukhala pamodzi mu dziko lomwe limagwiritsa ntchito bwino kwa aliyense.
Karen Kimsey-House ndi mlembi wa Co-Active Utsogoleri ndi Co-Active Coaching . Kuonjezerapo, iye ndi wothandizira ndi Mtsogoleri wamkulu wa Coaches Training Institute (CTI) ndipo amathandizira nthawi zambiri ku Huffington Post. Dziwani zambiri za ntchito ya Karen pa http://www.coactive.com kapena kulumikizana naye pa Twitter @kkimseyhouse