Ndinakumana ndi bwanamkubwa wamkulu, yemwe adamufotokozera kuti ndi katswiri wodziwika bwino wachinyamata yemwe adachita bwino monga woyang'anira kutsogolo. Anadabwa kwambiri ndi phokoso loyambirira lomwe linachokera ku gulu lake latsopano ndipo anadabwa poyera ngati analakwitsa.
" Iye anachita ntchito yaikulu ndi timu yake yotsiriza, koma izi ndi gulu losiyana. Iwo ndi okalamba okonzekera omwe amafunikira mtsogoleri wothandizira, osati mtsogoleri wa pushy. Kuchokera ku malipoti onse, akuchita mofanana ndi mtsogoleri wa pushy. "
Zomwe ndinaziwona pazinthu zomwe ndinaziwona ndi kuyankhulana ndizinthu zowonongeka zomwe zinkachitidwa ndi munthu yemwe analephera kuwerenga bwino omvera ake ndikusintha njira yake. Mwamwayi, iye adali katswiri wothandizira komanso nthawi yambiri komanso alimbikitsidwa kwambiri ndi mamembala ake, adayankhula ndi akuluakulu olankhula gaffes. Pano pali maphunziro omwe tonsefe tingaphunzire ku zochitika zonsezi.
Njira Zabwino Zowankhulana Zogwiritsira Ntchito ndi Gulu Lanu Latsopano:
1. Yambani kudzifunsa nokha funso ili: "Kutsiriza kwa nthawi yanga kutsogolera gulu lino, kodi mamembala anga ati chiyani?" Funso ili lamphamvu ndi lokhudzidwa limakulimbikitsani kuganizira mozama za udindo wanu komanso za momwe mumakhudzira kukhala nawo pa gulu ili.
Malangizo anga: lembani pansi ndikugawana malingaliro anu ndi gulu lanu latsopano. Afunseni kuti azikuimbani mlandu wanu. Kufunitsitsa kwanu kunena zolinga zanu ndi kudzipereka kwanu pagulu kudzalandira ulemu kwa mamembala anu. Inde, khalani wokonzeka kuchita mogwirizana ndi kudzipereka kwanu.
2. Funsani munthu mmodzi panthawi imodzi. Ngakhale kuti simungapewe kufotokozera timu yanu yatsopano mumagulu a gulu, yesetsani kugawana nawo malingaliro anu a utsogoleli.
M'malo mwake, mwamsanga musunthire kukonza zokambirana payekha ndi membala aliyense. Gwiritsani ntchito magawo oyambirira ngati mwayi wopempha mafunso. Yesani: Kodi Ntchito? Kodi Sikuti? Ndi chiyani chomwe ndikufunikira kuti ndichite kuti ndiwathandize? Tengani zolemba zazikulu, ndipo kumbukirani kuti muli ndizomwe mukutsatira kuchokera ku magawo awa.
3. Sungani mphamvu ya mafunso . Mafunso ndi bwenzi lanu lapamtima pakupeza kukhulupilika ndi gulu lanu latsopano. Mukamapempha wina maganizo awo, mukuwonetsa kuti mumayamikira zomwe akukumana nazo ndi malingaliro awo, mukuwonetsa maonekedwe amphamvu. Inde, samalani kuti musapemphe malingaliro ndiyeno musanyalanyaze zopereka, kapena malingaliro abwino adzasintha mwamsanga.
4. Phunzirani za mbiri ya timu ndi chikhalidwe. Gulu lirilonse limene lakhala limodzi kwa nthawi yaitali lakhala ndi chikhalidwe chosiyana chifukwa cha mbiri yakale. Mvetserani ndipo phunzirani ndikufunsani za kupambana koyambirira kwa timu ndi kuyesayesa. Yesetsani kuti mudziwe momwe aliyense amagwirira ntchito pamodzi ndi zomwe akuwona kuti ndizogwirizana ndi mipata yawo.
Pamene mukuwona kuti pakufunika kusintha kwakukulu, muyenera kulemekeza mbiri. Nthaŵi ina ndinapereka chigamulo changa cha deta kwa mmodzi wa akuluakulu apamwamba. Kuzizira kwake, "Iwe uyenera kuwona malo awa tisanadze madzi," anandiuza mwamsanga kuti ndagwidwa ndi mitsempha.
Ndinadandaula mwamsanga, koma kukambirana kumeneku kunayambitsa chiyanjano pa ubale wathu pa miyezi ingapo yoyamba yomwe ndondomekoyi ikuyang'anira.
5. Pezani ndemanga Mkwatibwi. Munthuyu amavomereza zofanana ndi zomwe zida za Navy zimatanthawuzira "kusambira bwenzi." Kwa SEALs, aliyense pa pulogalamu yawo yophunzitsira BUDS amapatsidwa munthu amene amapita paliponse, amachita zonse ndikupereka thandizo ndipo ali ndi nsana. Udindo wa wovomera mnzanuyo ndi wochepa kwambiri, komabe n'kofunikira. Mthandizi woterewu ukupatsani malingaliro osatsutsika pa zomwe mukuchita zomwe ambiri a mamembala akuwopa kupereka. Panthawi imodzi yoyamba, bwenzi langa loyankha linapereka kuti ndikukakamiza kwambiri komanso ndondomeko yanga. Izi panthawi yake ndi zolembera zinandilepheretsa kuyendetsa pamtunda pa ntchitoyi.
Mfundo Yofunika Kwambiri Panopa:
"Ndili kuno ndipo sindinu wokondwa!" Mtsogoleri watsopano akukhumudwitsa aliyense wogwira ntchitoyo. Mfundo yomwe mumakhala nayo nthawi yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito gulu lanu latsopano, ili ndi mwayi wochuluka wosokoneza. Musalole kuti pakamwa panu mupite patsogolo pa ubongo wanu. M'malo mwake, funsani mafunso, mvetserani mwatcheru ndikuyenda mopepuka musanagawane maganizo anu.