Kodi Zojambula Zotani Zimanena Zenizeni?
Mu gawo limodzi la "womasulira wamalonda," tinayang'ana njira zomwe makasitomala amatenga nthawi zambiri malingaliro awo ndi mawu osasangalatsa. Lero, ndiko kutembenuka kwa deta yolenga.
Kwa inu a dera lamakono mukuganiza kuti "palibe njira, osowa okha amalankhula chinthu chimodzi ndikutanthauza wina," simuli oona mtima. Ndipotu, ndizosamvetsetseka mukazindikira kuti mu makampani oyankhulana, pafupifupi aliyense akulankhula mosiyana ndi zomwe akuganiza.
Pogwiritsa ntchito kulenga poyamba kulowetsa malonda ndi mapangidwe, alibe fyuluta. Posakhalitsa, amaphunzira kuti kuwona mtima kwathunthu, makamaka pamaso pa kasitomala, ndi khalidwe labwino.
Pogwiritsa ntchito ntchito zawo, komanso ndi zolemba zambiri kuchokera kwa wotsogolera ndi kampani ya chidziwitso, okhulupirira amapeza njira zoyankhulirana ndi makasitomala ndi ogwira ntchito ku akaunti zomwe zimasokoneza malingaliro awo ndi zolinga zawo.
Pano pali mawu khumi ndi awiri omwe amawamasulira, komanso zomwe amatanthauza.
1: "Ndilo lingaliro lochititsa chidwi, ine ndikulumphira izo."
Kutembenuza: "Ndimadana ndi lingaliro limenelo. Kudana nazo! Sindidzachita zimenezi. Koma, kuti ndikhale wabwino, ndikudziyerekezera kuti ndaganizira kwambiri, ndikukuuzani kuti sizinagwire ntchito. "
2: "Ndikufunika masabata awiri kuti ndichite zimenezo."
Kutembenuzidwa: "Ine ndikhoza kutembenuza izo mu sabata, kapena osachepera. Koma ndili ndi zinthu zina patebulo langa, ndipo ndikutha kuwoneka ngati wamunthu ngati ndikupereka patsogolo panthawi. "
3: "Ndikuganiza kuti mukufunadi lingaliro ili."
Kutembenuzidwa: "Iwe udzadana lingaliro ili, ndilo kunja kwa malo anu otonthoza. Koma, poika izi mwanjira iyi, ndikuwongolera kuwomba. "
4: "Tsopano, lingaliro ili likhoza kukhala pang'ono kunja kwa malo anu otonthoza."
Kutembenuza: "Iwe udzadana lingaliro ili, iwe sali olimba mtima mokwanira kuti uchite izo.
Koma, poika izi mwanjira iyi, ndikuyembekeza kuti psychology idzakuyenderani kuti muigule. "
5: "Ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito masabata."
Kutembenuzidwa: "Ndinavulaza izi patsiku lomaliza, ndikuganiza kuti mukuganiza kuti zili bwino."
6: "Tikukuthokozani chifukwa cha zonse zomwe munatiuza polemba."
Kutembenuzidwa: "Zomwe mumazindikira zinali zopanda phindu. Sitinaphunzire kanthu kalikonse kuchokera kwa iwo, ndipo tinawaponyera mumsana wachiwiri womwe munachoka. "
7: "Ndimakonda kwambiri mankhwalawa."
Kutembenuza: "Sindingagulepo izi."
8: "Sindikuganiza kuti gulu lotsogolera lidzakuthandizani panthawi ino."
Kutembenuzidwa: " Magulu otsogolera amawononga malingaliro abwino, ndipo iwo adzawononga kwathunthu. Nchifukwa chiyani mukuganiza zopanda pake? "
9: "Ndimayamikira kwambiri zomwe mumapereka."
Kutembenuza: "Ndikulakalaka mutangondilola kuti ndichite ntchito yanga, ndipo musayese kusinthasintha minofu yanu yopanda mphamvu pa malingaliro anga."
10: "Iyi ndi nkhani yosangalatsa."
Kutembenuzidwa: "Ndamva mawu omaliza achinsinsi kuchokera kwa wandende mu mpando wamagetsi."
11: "Ndinayang'ana mosamala zimene munanena pamsonkhano wathu womaliza."
Kutembenuzidwa: "Zambiri mwa zomwe munanena zinali zopanda pake, ndipo zina zonse ndinapotoza kuti ndizitha kukwaniritsa zolinga zanga."
12: "Ndili ndi funso lachidule ."
Kutembenuza: "Ndilibe chilichonse chatsopano choti ndiwonjezere, ndimangofuna kumva ngati ndikukumvetsera."
13: "Kodi tikhoza kukankhira pati?"
Kutembenuzidwa: "Tikufuna chilolezo chololedwa tsopano kuti tiphimbe bulu wathu pamene tipanga malingaliro omwe mungakane chifukwa chakuti ndi aakulu kwambiri, owopsa, kapena osiyana kwambiri."
14: "Ndikuyembekeza kukuwonetsani zomwe tikubwera nazo."
Kutembenuza: "Sindingakhoze kuyembekezera kuti ndikuwonekere maonekedwe anu pazomwe mukuwona zinthu zomwe ndikuzipereka nthawi ina."
15: "Ndikuwona zambiri zomwe ndikuchita kuti ndichite chinachake apa."
Kutembenuzidwa: "Ndichita zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti ndipindule mphoto pa izi, ngakhale zitanthauza kuti ndikupita mwachidule kapena ndikunyalanyaza pempholi."