Kapena, ndithudi, ndi liti pamene ntchito ya amayi apakhomo ingabwere popanda kusamalira ana?
Kaya mukufunikira kusamaliridwa kwa ana kapena sizidzadalira zinthu zambiri, koma zovuta zomwe palibe chisamaliro chapadera cha ana n'chofunika kwambiri monga momwe ana angagwiritsire ntchito chisamaliro cha ana a nthawi yochepa, mosiyana pa digiri. Mwachitsanzo, chisamaliro cha ana a nthawi yochepa kapena ayi sichikugwira ntchito ngati
- ana anu ali kusukulu,
- mumagwira ntchito nthawi yokha
- Mungathe kugwira ntchito maola ambiri pamene ana anu akugona
- muli ndi mnzanu kunyumba kuti athandize ndi kusamalira ana pamene mukugwira ntchito.
Koma, moona, nthawi zambiri zimatenga zinthu zosiyanazi kuti pasamalire mwana aliyense wogwira ntchito kunyumba.
Nthawi zina, kuyesa kugwira ntchito kunyumba popanda kusamalira ana sikofunika. Ndipotu ngati muli telecommunication (mosiyana ndi wodziimira okhaokha kapena mwini nyumba yamalonda), sizingaloledwe ndi abwana anu, omwe ali, pambuyo pake, kulipira nthawi yanu.
Koma kwa iwo omwe ali ndi nthawi yokhazikika, ndizotheka kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse popanda kusamalira ana. Njira yowonekera kwambiri, ndipo mwinamwake yosavuta, ndiyo kugwira ntchito pamene ana ali kusukulu ndikukwaniritsa ntchito yanu pamene ana akukhala pakhomo, okhudzidwa ndi ntchito kapena kugona. (Koma musaiwale, nthawi zonse chilimwe chimakhalapo!
Mabanja omwe ali ndi ana omwe sali kusukulu angathe kusamalira popanda kusamalira ana ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi sagwira ntchito kapena sakugwira ntchito. Ogwira ntchito panyumba zapakhomo ndi zitsanzo za amayi apakhomo ndi ana omwe amagwira ntchito nthawi zonse.
Kumbukirani kuti malamulo a dziko amasiyana mosiyana ndi zaka zingati zomwe ana anu amawerengera pa chiwerengero chanu chololedwa cha ana m'nyumba yosamalira. Kugwiritsira ntchito malingaliro ameneĊµa kwachithandizo chaufulu kwa ana ntchito ya amayi amayi ikhoza kugwirana nthawi yokwanira yopanda ana kuti imuthandize kugwira ntchito popanda kulipira kusamalira ana. Kapena mwinamwake kumaphatikizapo mwanayo kuntchito .
Koma kumbukirani kuti kuyesa kugwira ntchito popanda kusamalira ana kuli ndi ndalama zake. Zimatha kuvala amayi kuti asokoneze pamene akuyesera kuchita zambiri powasamalira ana komanso kugwira ntchito nthawi yomweyo. Ikhoza kuchepetsa ndalama zake. Zingatanthauze malo ochepetsetsa kwambiri kwa ana. Choncho amayi ayenera kusinthana ndi mavuto onsewa posankha ngati akusowa thandizo la ana.