Zimene mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ayenera kudziwa
Kusiya kwa Banja Si Zonse Zokhudza Amayi Atsopano Tsopano
Pali anthu osiyanasiyana, osati amayi atsopano, omwe angapindule ndi kuchoka kwa banja.
Bambo watsopano amakhala ndi osachepera atatu omwe amatha kuchoka pakhomo la banja ndipo ena ogwira ntchito akupita patsogolo amapereka milungu iwiri kapena kuposerapo. Chiwerengero cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akukweza mabanja komanso anthu osakwatira amatenga njira zomwe simungaganize kuti mwana aliyense ali ndi amayi ndi abambo kotero kuti mabanjawa achokapo ndi malamulo awo. Komanso, anthu ena omwe ali ndi makolo okalamba omwe amafunikira kuti asamalire ndi banja lawo amafunika kwambiri kuti athetse udindo wawo.
Pezani Momwe Mungayesere Kulipidwa Banja
Ku US, abambo ena atsopano adzakhala ndi mwayi wopeza malipiro a banja lawo ndipo mwina sangadziwe kapena akuwopa. Ndikofunikira kufufuza ngati abwana anu amapereka zoterezi chifukwa palibe aliyense wogwira ntchito omwe angakhale akukonzekera phindu lawo. Komanso, ena mwa antchito anu atsopano omwe ali oyenera kulandira malipiro a banja angayambe kulandira, kaya poopa kubwezeretsa ntchito zawo kapena vuto la kusamalira mwana 24/7.
Kotero choyimira chanu choyamba chiyenera kukhala buku lanu la ntchito. Lembani chivundikiro kuti muphimbe ndipo onetsetsani kuti mukumvetsa zomwe mungapeze. Mungapemphenso anthu anu kuti muthandize kufotokozera phindu lawo la banja chifukwa nthawi zina makolo amachoka panthawi yochepa yolemala kapena zachipatala.
Tawonani zomwe abambo ena atsopano achita, ngakhale kuti simukumva kuti muyenera kutsatira kutsogolera kwawo.
Ngati muli ku California, New Jersey kapena Rhode Island, muli ndi mwayi pankhani ya banja. Ku California, muli ndi lamulo lochoka panyumba lolipidwa komanso lopanda kulipira. Ogwira ntchito apabanja omwe amalipira omwe amapereka ndalama zothandizira ndalama ku boma amatha kutenga masabata asanu ndi limodzi a kuchoka chaka chimodzi, ndi 55 peresenti ya malipiro awo, kuti asamalire mwana watsopano, mwa zifukwa zina. Ku New Jersey, abambo atsopano angalowe m'malo 66 peresenti ya ndalama zawo pamasabata asanu ndi limodzi, malinga ndi National Center for Children in Poverty. Dipatimenti ya inshuwalansi ya Rhode Island Yopereka Chithandizo Chachidule imapereka maulendo 4 a mphotho yolipira kubereka, kulandiridwa kapena kulimbikitsa mwana watsopano kapena kusamalira wachibale yemwe ali ndi matenda aakulu.
Ngati mukufuna kudziwa ngati dziko lanu likugwira ntchito palamulo lachinsinsi lopanda malipiro a banja lanu, mukhoza kufufuza Malamulo a Bungwe la NCSL la Malamulo Achikhalidwe Achidwi.
Fufuzani Zowonjezera Zina Chotsani Zosankha
Ngati muli ngati abambo ambiri oyembekezera ku US, palibe malipiro a banja omwe mumalandira. Koma musataye mtima. Gawo lotsatira ndiyang'anirani kawirikawiri yanu yolipira yolipidwa , nthawi ya tchuthi ndi masiku anu enieni.
Mungathe kugwiritsa ntchito nthawiyi kuti mukhale pachibwenzi ndi mwana watsopano. (Ndiko kuti mwakhala mukulipira nthawi, poyamba.)
Chofunika chofunika kwambiri ndicho kutenga nthawi ya banja ndi kuchoka kwa amayi nthawi yomweyo, choncho banja latsopano lingasangalale limodzi ndi masabata oyambirirawa. Kapena mwinamwake mungakonde kutenga nthawi yochuluka yobereka ngati n'kotheka, ndipo pambuyo pake mutatha, mutenge banja. Zowonjezereka mwazokonzekera ndikusungira ndalama zothandizira ana.
Monga momwe mukukonzekera kuchoka kwa amayi oyembekezera, muyenera kusinthana nambala ndi banja lanu kuti muwone ngati malipiro anu azigwira ntchito kwa banja lanu. Ndikofunika kuti mukhale owona za nthawi yochuluka yomwe mungakwanitse kutenga popanda kukumba banja lanu kukhala pakhomo lachuma.
Zosankha Zanu Zopeza Imodzi Yopanda Kubanja
Ngati muli mmodzi mwa anthu mamiliyoni ambiri ogwira ntchito ku America popanda kuchoka kulipira kulikonse, kaya ndi matenda kapena tchuthi, sipangakhale chisankho koma kutenga nthawi yopanda malipiro.
Mwina mwakhala mukusungira mwana wanu, ndipo mutha kusunga ndalama zanu kuti mutenge masiku angapo, ngakhale masabata pang'ono, popanda kulipira kuti musamalire mwana wanu.
Pansi pa Pulogalamu ya Zipatala za Zamankhwala ndi Zachipatala , abwana anu ayenera kukupatsani mphotho yopanda malipiro kuti musamalire mwana wakhanda kapena wodwala. Osati onse ogwira ntchito akugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi FMLA, kotero fufuzani zenizeni musanaloĊµe ku HR office mukufuna nthawi yanu.
Apanso, mungafune kuganizira ngati mungatenge banja lopanda malipiro atangobereka kumene mayi watsopano akufunikira thandizo ndi chisamaliro. Kapena ngati mutapatsa amayi ndi amayi awo nthawi yina, kuti muwonjeze nthawi ya mwana ndi kholo. Chofunika kwambiri chikhoza kukhala kaya abwenzi kapena achibale akupezeka kuti athandizidwe panthawi yomwe amatha kubereka.
Ziribe kanthu zomwe mumasankha, kondwerani ndi banja lanu latsopano! Udindo wa bambo ukhoza kukhala watsopano, koma ndi umodzi womwe ungathe kusewera. Posachedwa, mudzaiwala kuti moyo unali wotani mwanayo asanafike.
Kusinthidwa ndi Elizabeth McGrory