Ntchito-Moyo Wosasamala Sindikudziwa Mkazi Wa Masiku Ano ndi Zosowa Zake
Wotopa ndi kumva mawu akuti 'ntchito-moyo'? Amayi ambiri ali. Mawuwa adalumikizidwa kuti adziwe zoyenera kutsutsana ndi amayi. Zikuoneka kuti zinapangidwa ndi amayi, kapena, mkazi yemwe amafuna kupeza uthenga kuti: "Sitingathe kuchita zonsezi."
Pachifukwa chimenechi, mawuwa ndi osiyana chifukwa cha chiwerewere chifukwa sichidawonekere, kapena kuti ndi amuna. Kodi ndi liti pamene munamva munthu akunena kuti akufunikira bwino mu moyo wake kuti atenge ana ku paki?
Ndipo, chifukwa chiyani anthu samafuna kuti azikhala bwino bwino miyoyo yawo? Ngati atapanga zambiri ndi ntchito ndi kulera ana , amayi sangathe kutambasula kwambiri.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti, tikukhala mumtundu wosinthika kumene amuna akuthandiza kwenikweni kuposa momwe anachitira zaka makumi asanu zapitazo. Pali abambo ambiri osakwatiwa lero kuposa zaka makumi awiri zapitazo (abambo osakwatira osati chifukwa chokhala amasiye). Amuna akukhala pang'onopang'ono kukhala osowa komanso ochirikiza akazi omwe akufuna kubwerera ku sukulu. Koma izi zatheka mwakachetechete, anthu a m'banja mwathu - anthu ambiri sakuvomereza kuti amuna akupereka zambiri.
Komabe, amayi akupitirizabe kulimbana ndi zomwe akuyembekezeredwa - kapena zomwe akuganiza kuti zimayembekezeka kwa iwo. Akazi amayesetsa kukhala akazi apamwamba, amayi apamwamba, ndi akazi a ntchito. Nthawi yonseyi, amatsindika za kukalamba, kulemera, ndi kupikisana ndi atsikana achichepere pantchito.
Ntchito Yogwirira Ntchito-Moyo Wosasamala Sindidziwa Chimene Akazi Amafunikiradi
Mawu oti "ntchito-moyo wabwino" amasonyeza chithunzi cha msinkhu (chinachake chomwe akazi nthawi zambiri amamenya nkhondo ndilimonse) ndi ntchito kumbali imodzi ndi banja ndi / kapena maubwenzi ena payekha.
Pakati pali mkazi yemwe ali ndi mikono yonse iwiri akuyesa kuyesa kulinganitsa chirichonse. Mkaziyo akuyimira chikhazikitso chomwe chinagwidwa pakati ndikugawanitsa moyo wake kukhala magawo awiri - kumene amamverera kuti ayenera kukhala ndi kumene anthu akunena kuti ayenera kukhala.
Koma mkazi ndi umunthu wathunthu ndipo cholinga chake chiyenera kukhala pa iye monga umunthu wonse osati pa zinthu ziwiri (zofunikira) pa moyo wake.
'Izi kapena' tanthawuzo la 'ntchito-moyo' likufuna kufotokozera amayi kukhala antchito mu maudindo awiri osiyana: antchito kapena osamalira . Akazi amachita maudindo ena (ndi ena ambiri) koma sayenera kupangidwa kuti ayimirire machitidwe awa.
Kukhazikika kwa moyo wogwira ntchito kwagulitsidwa kwa akazi monga chinsinsi cha chimwemwe mwa kuonetsa kuti zonse zomwe tikuyenera kuchita ndi kupeza njira yowonjezera maudindo athu popanda kupenga. Uthenga wofunika kwambiri (kukhala wosalungama) wogulitsidwa kwa amayi ndikuti ngati tikanangoika patsogolo ntchito yathu kukhala moyo wabwino tikhoza kukhala ndi nthawi yochuluka yocheza ndi abwenzi, abambo, ndi ife enieni. Vuto ndilo, kukwaniritsa nthawi yambiri yaumwini kumafuna ntchito yochuluka kwambiri ndipo mawu akuti 'kulekanitsa' amakhala osasintha. Anthu ochepa okha angathe kapena akufuna kutenga theka la nthawi yawo yogwira ntchito komanso theka la nthawi yawo sagwira ntchito.
Pali amayi ambiri omwe alibe ntchito kunja kwa nyumba omwe amafunikira kuwonjezera miyoyo yawo. Nanga bwanji za akazi omwe amakonda ntchito yawo kuti ayese kuwonjezera nthawi (kuchepetsa) kuphika ma cookie kunyumba angawonongeke?
Zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito poyendetsera moyo zimatanthauza kuti paliyeso yoyenera kukhala yoyamba (palibe) ndipo ngati tilibe cholakwika ndi ife.
Kukhazikika kwa moyo wa ntchito ndi ntchito imodzi yokha kuti akazi ayesetse kupeza nthawi yowonjezera; Chinthu china chokhazikika pa nthawi yathu kuti tilembetse mndandanda ndikulephera komanso kuti tisakwaniritse tsiku.
Kuganiza kuti tikhoza kukwaniritsa bwino moyo wathu wa ntchito pokhapokha kukhala otsogolera kwambiri, kukhala okonzeka bwino, kapena poyesera zovuta, ndi kupusa bwino.