Chifukwa Chakugwira Ntchito-Moyo Wosamalidwa Umene Umayendera Ambiri Amayi
Azimayi amatha kutamandidwa chifukwa chokhala akazi abwino komanso amayi awo nthawi zambiri asanatchulidwe kuti ndi "operekera bwino."
Amuna nthawi zambiri amayenera kukhala okonda malonda - kukhala othawa komanso osatsutsidwa kwambiri poika ntchito patsogolo pa banja chifukwa, potsirizira pake, akutumikira mabanja awo poonetsetsa kuti zosowa zawo zikugwiridwa ndi ndalama zabwino. Azimayi amaonedwa kukhala opambana komanso osagwira ntchito mu bizinesi - chiwerengerochi chikusonyeza kuti palibe chowonadi.
Mtengo wa Kupambana
Amayi akamayesetsa kuti apambane amawakumbutsa kuti mtengo wa ntchito (kapena kuphunzira) mochedwa umabweretsa mavuto a okwatirana nawo, ana awo, ndi abwenzi awo, komanso ngakhale payekha ndalama zawo (zomwe mwauzidwa kuti mudzadandaula nazo ntchito tsopano chifukwa mukusowa pa miyoyo ya ana anu aang'ono?)
Mfundo yaikulu ndi yakuti m'madera ambiri padziko lonse lapansi, amuna amalephera kuti akazi asapereke ndalama zokhudzana ndi maudindo omwe ayenera kukhala nawo pamoyo wawo.
Ndipo pamene "iye" ali ndi zonsezi, ndi chinthu chabwino kwambiri, pamene "mkazi" ali ndi mkazi aliyense amene angakayikire za zomwe amatsatira ndi zofunika pamoyo wake.
Amuna Amakhala Ogwira Ntchito Powonjezera Zomwe Akufuna
Amuna nthawi zambiri amavomereza ndi kuwonetsa zosowa zawo. Biology, chilengedwe, ndi chikhalidwe bwino zimakonzekeretsa anyamata kuti akhale akuluakulu monga atsogoleri kusiyana ndi atsikana.
Atsikana amapatsidwa zidole kuti azisewera nawo ndipo akhoza kukhumudwa chifukwa chofuna masamu ndi sayansi, ndipo ndithudi, ochepa anganene kuti akazi ali ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri kupita patsogolo kudziko lazinthu kusiyana ndi amuna ambiri.
Kukhala wachiwawa kungakhale khalidwe labwino pamene liri lachikulire; Kukhala okwiya m'njira zabwino kungakhale chithandizo ambiri a ife timapeza zambiri pa moyo - koma amayi ambiri nthawi zambiri amawopa kuti akufunseni zosowa zawo.
Amuna akhoza kukhala ndi nthawi yopita ku golf, kugona, kuwonera masewera, kapena kupita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi kusiyana ndi mkazi chifukwa chakuti pamene mayi akufuna, amatha kuoneka ngati wolowa, wozunguzika, kapena mayi wodzikonda / mkazi.
Amuna Si Oipa Anyamata, Koma Akazi Amakhala Nawo Oipa
Monga amai, abambo angakhalenso othandizira, othandizira-kuthandizira, ndi kuwathandiza moona mtima amayiwa - koma amuna sangathe kuona zomwe abwenzi awo akufuna momveka bwino monga momwe amai amachitira. Ngakhale izi zingamveke ngati zowonjezereka, ngakhale amuna omwe amathandiza kwambiri komanso othandiza angafunike okondedwa awo kuti awauze zomwe akufuna komanso zomwe akufuna. Apa ndi pamene mawu akuti "Amuna ndi ochokera ku Mars ndi Akazi ali ochokera ku Venus" akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito bwino. Amuna ndi amai amaganiza mosiyana za zinthu zambiri, koma nthawi zambiri amuna amathandiza - makamaka ngati pali vuto kuthetsa ngati akudziwa kuti vutoli ndi lotani.
Umboni umene umagwirizira zowonongeka nthawi zonse ndi wowonekera komanso wofala m'dziko lonse lapansi. Akazi amalipidwa ochepa kuposa amuna kuti achite ntchito zomwezo. Iwo amatha kutembenuzidwa kuti apitsidwe patsogolo, ndipo kuuka kwawo kuli kochepa. Amuna samagunda "denga lamaliro" - mawu amenewa adalengedwa kuti afotokoze chokhumudwitsa chomwe chimagwira ntchito kwa amai okha.
Amayi ochepa nthawi zambiri amaonedwa ngati amayi osakwatiwa. Ndipo, zoona zake n'zakuti, amayi ambiri osakwatiwa ndi ang'onoang'ono, koma izi zimakhudza kwambiri kusiyana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso zachuma zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala chifukwa cha tsankho komanso mwayi wochepa kusiyana ndi kukhala ochepa. Mwatsoka kwa anthu ang'onoang'ono - amuna kapena akazi, kusagwirizana kulipo: kugwira ntchito molimbika, kulipidwa pang'ono chifukwa ndinu ochepa. Pankhani ya ndalama, amayi ochepa-dollar-dollar amapanga zochepa kuposa anthu onse.
Nanga amayi omwe angafunikire kugwira ntchito maola ochuluka kuposa momwe angapezere ndalama zokwanira kuti asamalire mabanja awo omwe akuyenera kuti akhale "abwino" pakuyanjanitsa miyoyo yawo?
Kuchokera Nthawi Yanji Kuli ndi Choipa?
Akazi amaonanso kuti ndi ochepa omwe amafunikila kuti azikhala ndi maudindo akuluakulu chifukwa cha "pangozi" kuti athe kutenga mimba ndi kusiya ntchito zawo nthawi iliyonse. Sosaiti imakondabe akazi monga amai ndi amayi poyamba, ndipo kumapeto kwa "mkazi" mndandanda, monga malo ogulitsa chuma. Chifukwa cha lingaliro limeneli, chiyembekezereke kuti mwana akabadwira akazi adzatenga nthawi, kapena kusiya ntchito zawo kuti aberere banja. Amuna sawonedwa ngati mikangano ya banja "ofuna kuika chiopsezo," ndipo makampani ambiri ku United States samalola ngakhale abambo kutenga nthawi yobereka kuti athandize kunyumba ndi ana ang'onoang'ono ngakhale atakufuna.
Vuto sikuti azimayi ayenera kupitiliza kulimbana ndi kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi - chinthu chomwe takhala tikukumenyana (mwina) kuyambira nthawi yoyamba. Vuto ndilokuti zofuna zatsopano ndi chiweruzo cha amayi akuyembekeza kuti azipeza bwino "ntchito ya moyo" zangowonjezera pa mbale zathu.
Vuto ndilo "kulingalira ntchito", pamene mukuganizira zomwe zidafuna kutanthawuza, pafupifupi zowoneka ngati zinapangidwa ndi munthu chifukwa zimasonyeza kuti tikhoza kukhala ndi ntchito, makanda, ndi nyumba yoyera ngati tingoika patsogolo ndi kugwira ntchito zovuta pa "kusinthanitsa" miyoyo yathu. Ndipo, ngati tili okonzeka pa izi, tikhoza kutenga "nthawi yabwino" kuti tidzipange tokha.