Chitsanzo cha zosiyana za amai ndi abambo amakhulupirira kuti ndi ntchito ya mkazi, chifukwa cha kugonana kwake (akazi) kukhala kunyumba ndi kusamalira ana awo.
Zitsanzo zina zimaphatikizapo chikhulupiliro chakuti amai satha kupanga zosankha komanso amuna chifukwa amayi amapeza nthawi yawo ndipo amuna samatero.
Chitsanzo cha kusankhana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi kungakhale ngati mkazi anakanidwa ntchito, kapena analipidwa pang'onopang'ono pomwe munthu angalipidwe, kapena analandira malipiro ochepa komanso phindu pokhapokha ngati ali mkazi. Ku United States, kusankha aliyense chifukwa cha kugonana kapena kugonana ndikoletsedwa, koma kumachitika nthawi zonse (kumakhalanso ndi anthu.)
Kusintha Maonekedwe a Kusankhana kwa Anthu
Kuti pakhale kusintha kwa maudindo omwe amadziwika kuti ndi abambo, zigawo ziwiri zofunika zimagwira ntchito:
- Zogonana Zonse Zimakhala Zokonda Pakati Pakati Pazifukwa: Amuna ndi akazi onse ali ndi maudindo omwe amafotokozedwa ndi mtundu uliwonse, ndipo maudindo a amuna ndi akazi ndi opangidwa ndi, komanso opitirizidwa ndi amuna ndi akazi onse. Mwachiwonetsero chomwecho, amayi si okhawo omwe amafuna kuti anthu akhale ofanana, amuna ambiri amamenyera molimbika ufulu wa amayi. Maganizo aakulu pakati pa anthu si nthawi zonse omwe amawapindula - amangotenga osintha okha kukhala othandizira kuteteza ufulu wa aliyense kaya ali amayi, gulu lachiwerewere, kapena olumala. Mwachitsanzo, olemba ambiri akusankhiratu anthu chifukwa cha zifukwa zowonongeka - momveka, malingaliro awo ali kumbuyo kwa nthawi. Koma akachita zimenezo, akuswa lamuloli.
- Makhalidwe a Anthu Ayenera Kusinthidwa: Udindo wa amuna ndi akazi ndi zosiyana siyana zimabweretsa kuntchito kumenyana ndi amayi ndi amuna - komanso m'madera ambiri. Kuti zisankho zithetsedwe, kusintha kumayambira ndi malingaliro ndi maganizo a anthu, koma ufulu wofanana uyenera kutsatiridwa ndi malamulo chifukwa anthu omwe ali m'madera sangaganizire chimodzimodzi.
Amuna sayenera kuchitidwa ngati mdani
Amuna sayenera kuchitidwa ngati mdani. Akazi ayenera kufunafuna kusintha m'maganizo a anthu - zomwe zikuphatikiza kusintha momwe amuna ena amaganizira, komanso kumasintha momwe angaganizire amai ambiri.
Adani enieni omwe amachititsa kusagwirizana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ndi umbuli, kusagwirizana, ndi anthu omwe akukhalabe ndi moyo omwe amatsutsa kusintha. Ngati tiwatsutsa anthu chifukwa cha tsankho timachita zinthu ziwiri:
- Kumbukirani kuti amayi, omwe amapezeka pafupifupi 50 peresenti ya anthu padziko lonse lapansi (pa amuna khumi ndi anayi okwana 107 omwe anabadwira kumeneko ali ndi akazi 100), amathandizanso kwambiri kutanthauzira kwa amuna ndi akazi.
- Podzudzula amuna poitana ma shoti onse, timanenanso molakwika kuti akazi ndi osowa mphamvu pa anthu, ndipo izi siziri zoona nthawi zonse.
Pali Zoopsa Zenizeni kwa Akazi Amene Amafuna Kusintha
M'mayiko omwe amayi amangidwa, kuzunzidwa, kapena kuphedwa chifukwa chovomereza ufulu wawo, amazunzidwa ndi maboma awo, mabungwe awo, ndi zikhalidwe zawo. M'mayikowa, kusintha kumakhala kovuta kukwaniritsa ndipo nthawi zambiri kumakhala koopsa. M'mayiko kumene kuli makolo okhwima, amayi amachotsedwa ufulu wawo.
Ngakhale kuti mabungwe otsogolera ndi amuna omwe amakhulupirira kuti amuna ndi apamwamba, amalingaliro ambiri amachokera ku zikhulupiliro zachipembedzo, ndi miyambo, miyambo, ndi miyambo ya zaka chikwi zomwe ngakhale amayi akhala akuchedwa kuyambitsa - zomveka, kunja za mantha pa miyoyo yawo, komanso chifukwa cha kulemekeza miyezo ya nthawi yaitali.
Azimayi amamenyedwa kuti azigonjera pamagulu awo, amangovomereza kuti "ndi momwemo."
Koma ku United States akazi samaponyedwa miyala chifukwa chovala akabudula kumtunda kapena kumpsompsona mwamuna pagulu. Akazi ku US ali ndi malamulo otetezera ufulu wawo kuti adziwonetse okha, kuphatikizapo ufulu wovota ndikupereka milandu kwa otsutsa osankha. Zinthu sizimagwira ntchito nthawi zonse (amayi adakali pansi pa galasi komanso salipira malire) koma tilibe ufulu wolankhula, kukana, kutsutsa, ndi kusintha.