Zokuthandizani Kusinthanitsa Moyo ndi Ana Ofunika Kwambiri
Kuyambira koleji yophunzira, ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito zosiyanasiyana zomwe zandichititsa kugwiritsa ntchito maphunziro ndi luso langa ndipo zandichititsa kumva ngati ndapereka thandizo lapadera. Kugwira ntchito kunja kwa nyumba ndi kuyanjana ndi anzanga ndi zomwe ubongo wanga ukufuna ndi zomwe ndikufunika kuti ndizikhala ndi moyo wabwino.
Mwana wanga atapezeka kuti ali ndi autism , malingaliro anga okhutiritsa ndi ovuta adasinthidwa kwathunthu.
Ngati mwana wanga atapita kuchipatala, kodi ndingamvetsetse momwe angatengere mankhwalawa kunyumba? Ngati ndikamapita kuchipatala ndi iye, ndiye kuti ndiyenera kusiya ntchito yanga ndipo ngati ndingatero, ndingathe kupeza chithandizo chamankhwala?
Ana ambiri omwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera amakhala ndi moyo wawo wonse, kufunsa makolo kuti akhale katswiri pazochitikazo komanso momwe angagwirire mavuto a mwanayo ndi makhalidwe ake. Thandizo lothandizidwa kwa ana ambiri okhala ndi autism limayamba maola 25 pa sabata, osatchula ntchito, zakuthupi ndi zolankhula. Kuonjezera apo, makolo akupeza chakudya chimakhudza ana awo, amafunikanso kuphunzira maphikidwe apadera, kugula zakudya zomwe sangathe kuzidziwa - onse akuyesera kugwira ntchito zawo ndi kupezera ana awo.
Ana ambiri omwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera amakhalanso ndi adiresi ambiri omwe amapatsidwa ndi dokotala komanso malo omwe amapita kuchipatala ndipo amafunika kusungidwa kunyumba kusukulu nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi momwe akulerera ana.
Makolo Ofunika Kwambiri Ana amakhala ndi nkhawa
Kafukufuku wa chaka cha 2009 anapeza kuti amayi a achinyamata komanso akuluakulu omwe ali ndi vuto la autism amavutika maganizo kwambiri ndi momwe akumenyera nkhondo. Kuwonjezera apo, amayiwa ankavutika ndi kutopa nthawi zambiri komanso kusokoneza ntchito komanso ankagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochulukirapo kuposa amayi omwe sali olumala.
Kuvutika maganizo kumeneku kumatanthauzira kufupika kwa nthawi ya moyo wawo zaka 9 mpaka 12, ndikusiya amayi ambiri akudandaula kuti ndani adzasamalire mwana wawo wamwamuna wapadera akamapita.
Kafukufuku wasonyeza ngati mwana wanu ali ndi ADHD, izi zimabweretsa mavuto owonjezereka ndi banja ndi ntchito za m'banja, kusokoneza maubwenzi a ana ndi ana, kuchepetsa kubereka kwa ana komanso kuchepetsa nkhawa.
Kuyanjanitsa Moyo ndi Ana Ofunika Kwambiri
- Thandizo / Banja . Ndinali wokondwa kwambiri kuthandizidwa ndi banja langa omwe amathandiza kusamalira mwana wanga pamene ndikugwira ntchito komanso ngati ndikusowa nthawi ndi anzanga. Nthawi zambiri, kholo limodzi liyenera kusiya ntchito kuti lisamalire mwana wawo wokondedwa, kutanthauza kuti wogwira naye ntchito nthawi zambiri amagwira ntchito maola ambiri kuti atsimikizire kuti sakusiya ntchito. Izi zikhoza kupondereza ubwenziwo. Ngati muli kunja kwa boma ndipo mulibe makanema kapena abwenzi anu omwe muli nawo, chonde funsani malo omwe mukukhala nawo m'dera lanu kuti muwone ngati mukuyenera kupeza ndalama (ndalama zomwe zimaperekedwa kuti zithandize makolo kupereka malipiro kwa osamalira) ndi zowonjezereka .
- Fufuzani njira yanu ya ntchito . Ndinasintha njira za ntchito ndipo tsopano ndine kachipatala ka homeopath, katswiri wovomerezeka wa CEASE komanso wathanzi. Zonsezi zinathandiza mwana wanga wamkazi, choncho ndinatenga maphunziro othandizira makolo ena kupeza njira zothetsera mavuto. Ndondomeko yanga imasinthika kuti ikhale ndi makolo omwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera kuti tikwanitse kukumana ndi munthu kapena Skype tsiku lirilonse la sabata. Ntchitoyi imathandizanso kuti mwana wanga apitirire. Zimene ndikuchita zimathandiza aliyense, kuphatikizapo iye.
Lankhulani ndi anthu kuti muwone ngati pali mapindu kapena mapulogalamu apadera omwe amapereka kuti athandize makolo a ana omwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera.
- Kambiranani ntchito zomwe mungachite ndi abwana anu . Kodi n'zotheka kugwira ntchito mwa maola anu pamene mwana wanu ali kuchipatala? Kodi maola anu angasinthe kuti ayambe kumayambiriro kwa tsiku kotero kuti wina kapena wachibale wanu angasamalire mwana wanu pamene mukuyamba ntchito? Kodi mungatengeko pamsonkhano wa usiku womwe ena amawopa ngati mbali ya ntchito yanu? Fufuzani ntchito zomwe zimakhala zovuta komanso kulingalira zogwirizana ndi abwana anu.
- Kusonkhana Pamisonkhano . Izi zingakhale zovuta ndi ana omwe amafunikira zosowa, koma zingakuthandizeni kupeza chithandizo ndi chitonthozo. Pali magulu omwe amakumana mlungu uliwonse kapena mwezi uliwonse ndipo ngati simungapeze, amayamba mosavuta. Izi zikhoza kukuthandizani kupeza ngati pali njira zina zothandizira, opaleshoni yabwino komanso mwinamwake kukhulupirira makolo ena omwe angathe kugulitsa nthawi zokhala ndi ana kwa ana awo.
Chofunika kwambiri ndi kupempha thandizo. Monga zosowa zapadera makolo, timakhala akatswiri odzidalira tokha kuthandiza ana athu, komabe, kudziwa zomwe mukufunikira kuti muthandize mwana wanu kuti apambane ndi zomwe zimatha kukhala mphamvu kuntchito ndi kunyumba.
Zida:
- http://www.abilitypath.org/love-laugh-live/stress-relationships/coping/articles/mothers-of-children-with-special-needs-and-combat-soldiers.html
- http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-is-2020/201310/pity-the-parents-special-needs-children-part-one
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About Sima Ash - Sima Phulusa lachiritsi 4 Soul ndi mankhwala ochizira, omwe ndi a GAPS Ovomerezeka komanso ovomerezeka a zachipatala omwe amagwiritsa ntchito njira yodabwitsa yomwe amachitira upainiya ndi Tinus Smits, MD yotchedwa CEASE therapy. Anayamba kuchita machiritso oonjezera atatha kuona bwino kwambiri mwana wake yemwe anapezeka ali ndi autism ali ndi zaka zitatu. Kuti mudziwe zambiri, chonde pitani ku www.healing4soul.com. Mungathe kutsatira Sima pa Facebook pa 'Cease Therapy California' kapena foni yake pa 949-916-9990.