Chimene Chimachitika Pamene Wogwira Naye Ntchito Akufa
Mosakayikira, mudzalira maliro a mnzako. Ngati iye anali bwenzi, chisoni chanu chidzakhala chofunika kwambiri.
Chosowacho chingakhale chachikulu kuposa ngati mnzanu wosagwira ntchito adafera, poyerekeza ndi nthawi yomwe mwakhala pamodzi. Ngati inu ndi mnzanu wapamtima simunali abwenzi kunja kwa ntchito, kapena ngakhale pafupi kwambiri, mudzakhalabe wosowa m'moyo wanu. Ngakhale kuti simungamvetse chisoni chakufa kwanu kapena mwakukha, zidzakhudza inu mwakhama, makamaka ngati mudadalira mnzako kuti akuthandizeni kuchita ntchito yanu. N'kutheka kuti simudzakhala ndi nthawi yoti mumve chisoni chanu.
Chifukwa Chake Wogwira Ntchito Wanu Sangakupatseni Nthawi Yokwanira Kukhumudwa
Mosasamala kanthu kuti mukanakhala mabwenzi ndi wogwira naye ntchito kapena iye anali mnzanu wapamtima, mudzafuna nthawi kuti mugwiritse ntchito kutayika kwanu-kukhala paubwenzi weniweni, womwe umatenga nthawi yaitali. Tsoka ilo, pankhani ya ntchito, moyo uyenera kupitirira. Pamene wachibale wamwalira, abwana ambiri amakupatsani masiku angapo. Mnzanu wapamtima akamwalira, mungasankhe kutenga tsiku lanu kuti mumve chisoni.
Ngakhale mabungwe ena angatseke kwa maola angapo kotero abwana ake akhoza kupita ku maliro, ambiri sangathe kupereka nthawi yochuluka kuposa iyo. Wogwira ntchito kulikonse sangathe kusiya ntchito zawo.
Ngakhalenso bwana wanu, yemwe angayesetsenso kupirira ndi imfa yake, ayenera kusiya maganizo ake kuti athane ndi momwe angakhalire pa ntchito yake yonse.
Wogwira ntchitoyo anali ndi udindo wapadera ndipo, tsopano, udzagwa pa bwana kuti akapeze wina kuti adzaze. Sikophweka kukhala pragmatic pakusokonezeka kwakukulu, koma abwana sangathe kuthetsa mkhalidwe chifukwa chakuti munthu amene adadzaza adachoka.
Iye ali ndi zisankho ziwiri. Njira imodzi ndikutenga malo m'malo. Ogwira ntchito omwe akukhala nawo adzakakamizika kuvomereza kuti wina watsopano watenga ntchitoyo mwinamwake debulo la mnzawo wakufa. Angakwiyire ngakhale mnzawo watsopano, ngakhale kuti amamvetsa kuti ndi zopanda nzeru kuchita zimenezo. M'kupita kwanthawi, ndipamwamba kwambiri kuposa kusankha kwina: kuti opulumuka atenge ntchito yowonjezera.
Imfa ya wogwira ntchito Co-Co: Kulemekeza Kumbukirani Wake
Ngakhale kuti ntchito imayenda imodzi, sizikutanthauza kuti chisoni chanu chimatha. Inu ndi anzako mungapeze njira zogawana chisoni chanu chifukwa cha imfa ya wogwira naye ntchito. Pezani nthawi yokhala pamodzi pamasana kapena pambuyo pa ntchito kuti mukambirane malingaliro anu ndi kukumbukira mnzanu wapamtima komanso mnzanu. Ngati mukukhala ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri yothetsera vutoli, funsani ndi dipatimenti yothandiza anthu kuti mukhale ndi katswiri wodzipereka kuti akuthandizeni. Mabungwe ena ali ndi mapulogalamu othandizira ogwira ntchito (EAPs) omwe angapereke uphungu.
Pamene aliyense akumvera, konzani msonkhano wachikumbutso. Izi ndi zofunika makamaka ngati anthu ena sankatha kupita ku maliro. Palinso njira zingapo zothandizira imfa ya wogwira naye ntchito kukhala chinthu chabwino. Njira imodzi yochitira izi ndikugwira ntchito yosungira ndalama kwa ana omwe akugwira nawo ntchito, chikondi chomwe amachikonda, kapena bungwe lomwe limadzutsa chidziwitso cha matenda omwe adayika. Mungathe ngakhale kupempha abwana anu kuti awathandize kuthandizira.
Ngati bungwe lanu likulolera, tchulani chipinda kuntchito pambuyo pa wogwira naye ntchito. Zingakhale zothandiza makamaka ngati ogwira ntchito imodzi amagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zambiri, monga chakudya chamasana kapena chipinda. Njira ina yoperekera msonkho nthawi zonse, ndiyo kumulemekeza pamwambo wapachaka, monga picnic kampani. Zingathetsere anthu chimwemwe kukumbukira wokondedwa wanu pachaka pa nthawi ya chikondwerero m'malo mwachisoni.
Njira yomaliza yolemekezera wokondedwa wanu wogwila ntchito ndikupitiriza kukhala ndi mbiri yake mwa kukhazikitsa maphunziro kuti apindule ophunzira omwe akufuna kuchita ntchito yomweyo.