Ziribe kanthu zomwe zifukwa zenizeni za kudandaula kwake ndizomwe, ogwira nawo ntchito ogwira ntchito ambiri akuwona kukhumudwa ngati zolakwika, kotero manyazi a ogwira ntchitoyo ndi oyenera. Osapambana pa malo apamwamba kumabweretsa lingaliro la kulephera.
Patapita nthawi, wogwira ntchitoyo angaone kuti kuyesedwa ndiko ntchito yabwino kwambiri yomwe iye wapanga, koma pakali pano, ndizovuta. Kupanga chisangalalo chosasinthika ndicho kusintha kwa nthawi yaitali.
Ganizirani Chimene Chimachititsa Kukhumudwa
Zikumbutso zimayambitsidwa ndi zinthu zambiri. Zina mwa izo zimayenderana ndi zochita za wogwira ntchito. Zina sizingatheke kuntchito. Mavuto ena amachitidwa ndi zifukwa zingapo zowonjezera.
Ogwira ntchito nthawi zambiri amachotsedwa chifukwa chosagwira ntchito. Izi zimachitika ngati wogwira ntchito akulimbikitsidwa mkati mwa bungwe. Wogwira ntchitoyo sakanakhala woyenerera kupititsa patsogolo ngati wogwira ntchitoyo sanagwire bwino ntchitoyi. Mukangoganizira za udindo wapamwamba, ntchito ya ogwira ntchitoyo imathamanga. Wogwira ntchitoyo akutembenuka kuchokera kwa wogwira ntchito wogwira ntchito yochepetsetsa kupita kumsinkhu wopamwamba wosabereka. Chikumbumtima chimatsutsa izi, koma kukhumudwa kumakhala kovuta kwa wogwira ntchitoyo.
Chinthu choyambitsitsidwira chisanachitike sichitha kufotokozedwa kwathunthu.
Zikumbutso zingachitenso chifukwa cha zikhalidwe. Kusintha kwa bajeti ndi kuchepa kwa maudindo ofanana a nthawi zonse kumalimbikitsa mabungwe kuti asokoneze antchito awo pozungulira. Mabungwe a mabungwe ali ndi ndondomeko zovuta zogwiritsa ntchito mayankho otsogolera otsogolera.
Olemba ntchito ogwira ntchito komanso owonetsera machitidwe awo nthawi zambiri amayamba.
Kudziwa zomwe zinachitika ndilo gawo loyamba muphunziro. Zinthu zoipa zikachitika, zochepa zomwe mungachite ndi kuphunzira kuchokera kwa iwo. Zomwe taphunzira zikhoza kukhazikitsidwa kuti tipewe zolakwitsa m'tsogolo.
Sungani Maganizo Anu
Mukakhala ndi luntha lozindikira za zomwe zinachitika, chinthu chotsatira choti muchite ndikukonzekera maganizo anu. Malingana ndi momwe mumakhudzidwira, mungayambe kukambiranapo mbali musanayambe kumvetsetsa.
Kusintha malingaliro anu kukulolani kuti mukhale osamala pamene mukulankhulana za zochitika zomwe zikutsogolera kukumbukira kwanu.
Khalani Wanzeru Mwachilungamo Ponena za Kukhumudwa
Nthawi iliyonse anthu atagwiritsidwa ntchito, athamangitsidwa, akulimbikitsidwa, amachotsedwa kapena akusamutsidwa, ena mu bungwe amalingalira za zomwe zinasankhidwa. Monga wogwila ntchito, ndiwe nokha amene angakonze mbiriyo. Mtsogoleri wanu alibe malire pa zomwe anganene, ndipo anthu amakayikira chifukwa woyang'anira ali ndi udindo woteteza chinsinsi. Wogwira ntchito wofunidwa ali ndi nkhanza zoonekeratu, ndipo anthu anzeru amadziwa zimenezo, koma nkhani ya munthu uyu ndi chinthu chotsatira kwambiri pa choonadi chomwe ena angayembekezere kupeza.
Ngakhale kudandaula kunali choipa kwambiri, mukhoza kusewera ndi zinthu zabwino. M'malo moyankhula, mwachitsanzo, kuti mtsogoleri wanu anali ndi chiyembekezo chenicheni choti palibe amene akanakhalapo, munganene kuti mumamva kuti simungakwanitse kukwaniritsa zomwe mukuyembekezera. Mawu omalizawa akutsutsa mlandu wochokera kwa mtsogoleri wanu ndipo amakuwonetsani kuti mukudziwa chifukwa chake chikumbumtima chinachitika.
Kulingalira ndi kuwonetsa kumasonyeza kukhwima. Mukuwonetsa bungwe lomwe mungakhumudwitse koma musapewe kusagwirizana ndi kusokonezeka. Kuwona mtima kumakuthandizani kukhalabe odalirika ndi anzako. Samalani kuti musalowe pansi ndi kuwona mtima. Kuona mtima mwachidwi n'kwachidziŵitso ndipo kumasonyeza kusazindikira.
Khalani ndi Maganizo Oyenera
Simuyenera kukonda, koma muyenera kukhala ndi maganizo abwino.
Palibe amene amafuna kuti wogwira ntchitoyo azidandaula kudzera m'mabwalo tsiku lomwe adzalengeza. Koma, palibe yemwe akufuna Oscar a Grouch kapena Debbie Downer akulowerera chikhalidwe cha ofesi.
Kukhala ndi maganizo abwino pamkhalidwe woipa kumasonyeza chisomo ndi kuyamikira. Monga moona mtima, mukhoza kupita kudutsa. Ena amazindikira kuti chinthu cholakwika ndi chonyansa komanso chosautsa.
Pewani Mphuno
Anthu adzalankhula . Iwo adzaganiza, ndipo malingaliro amenewo adzakhala zabodza. Inu simungamve zabodza kuyambira iwo ali pafupi inu. Kuchita zinthu moona mtima komanso mtima wabwino kumawombera mphekesera. Ngati inu mupeza za mphekesera, yongolerani mutuwu. Simusowa kuti muzilimbana ndi aliyense. Ngati mumayankhula ndi munthu mmodzi, nkhaniyi idzafalikira mofulumira ngati mphekesera.
Kutsirizitsa kusintha
Anthu amayembekeza kusintha pamene wina achotsedwa. Chimene iwo sangayembekezere ndi chifukwa cha ululu ndi zovuta kuti zikhalepo kwamuyaya. Onetsetsani kuti kusintha kumeneku kwatha. Gwiritsani ntchito gawo lanu lakale ndikukumbatira lanu latsopano.