Kuyankhula Zandale Pa Ntchito

Ngati chisankho chotsutsana ndi nyengo yatha, muli pakati pa chimodzi, kapena muli pachiyambi cha chimodzi choyamba, chinthu chomaliza chimene mukuyenera kuchita ndikuyankhula ndale kuntchito. Izi ndi zoyenera ngakhale pamene nyengo yachisawawa siinayambe ndi kutsutsana (mtundu wosawerengeka ndithu!).

N'chifukwa chiyani muyenera kupewa zokambirana za ndale kuntchito?

Mwinamwake mungamve mwamphamvu za wodwala wanu. Chifukwa chiyani simukuyenera?

Munthu amene mumam'thandizira paofesi akugawana malingaliro anu. Iye walonjeza kuti adzaika ndondomeko m'malo momwe mungakhalire ndi maganizo abwino. Aliyense ayenera kukonda zomwe woyimirayo akuyimira, chabwino?

Izi sizili choncho nthawi zonse. Sikuti aliyense amagawana malingaliro anu, ndipo mukhoza kuwononga ubale uliwonse umene mungakhale nawo, osatchula za ubale wanu wa ntchito . Mungapangitsenso ogwira nawo ntchito , ngakhale iwo omwe amavomerezana nanu za ndale, osasangalatsa. Mwina mwakuvulaza kwambiri ntchito yanu, mukhoza kukweza abwana anu .

Kodi bwana wanu angaleke kukambirana za ndale?

Bwana wanu akhoza kuthetsa zokambirana zanu zandale ngati akukulepheretsani inu ndi antchito anu kuti musamapangitse ntchito kapena kukangana pakati panu. Wobwana wanu akhoza ngakhale kuletsa zokambiranazi molunjika. Kawirikawiri, amaloledwa kuchita zimenezi pokhapokha ngati inu ndi anzanu mukukambirana za ntchito zomwe zimatchulidwa kuti "ntchito zotetezedwa" pansi pa National Labor Relations Act.

Nkhanizi zingaphatikizepo mgwirizano, malipiro, ndi ntchito.

Mutha kuyankha zolakwa za lamuloli ku Bungwe la National Labor Relations (NLRB), bungwe la boma lomwe limalimbikitsa. Zina mwazimene zimateteza ogwira ntchito kubwezera kwa abwana awo chifukwa chochita nawo ndale kapena ntchito.

Fufuzani malamulo mu boma lanu ngati abwana anu akuwotcha kuti muwonetsere mfundo yanu.

Nanga bwanji phokoso pazinthu zamalonda?

Inu, mwa njira zonse, mumaloledwa kuti muzikonda kwambiri zamaganizo anu. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti sipadzakhala zofunikira kwa izo. Bwana wanu angakuwoneke ndikusiya ntchito yanu pokhapokha lamulo lanu likuletsa makampani kuchita zimenezo. Ngati ogwira nawo ntchito akutha kuona zomwe mumagawana ndikuzinena pazochitika zamasewera, mumayambitsa chiopsezo pakati pa inu ndi iwo.

Kuyankhula malingaliro anu kungakhale koyenera kumbali zina za moyo wanu, koma ganizirani kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe mumathera ndi ogwira nawo ntchito komanso kuti muzigwira nawo limodzi tsiku ndi tsiku. Ganizirani izi pamene mutumizira chinachake chomwe chingasokoneze mgwirizano wogwira ntchito. Ngati mukufuna kuti muyankhule momasuka, tambani makonzedwe anu otetezera kuti muwaletse antchito anzanu ndi abwana anu kuti awone zolemba zanu.

Zimene Tiyenera Kuyankhula Pankhani Zandale

Wolemba mabuku Cokie Roberts, mu gawo la Good Morning America za momwe angapewere kukambirana za ndale pamisonkhano ya mabanja (November 23, 2016), anandiuza kukamba za agalu. Kulekeranji? Aliyense amakonda agalu kapena anthu ambiri alibe malingaliro oipa omwe amatsutsana nawo.

Amayi athu amtunduwu akhoza kukhala ngati nkhani yopita kuntchito m'malo mwa nkhani za ndale. Pali zinthu zina zomwe mungakambirane. Ingokhalani otsimikiza kupeŵa nkhani zina zomwe siziri pantchito. Mutha:

• Lankhulani za mapulani anu a tchuthi: Kodi mukupita kwinakwake, kapena munangobwerera kuchokera ku ulendo wawukulu? Ogwira nawo ntchito angakonde kumva za izo.
• Gawani maphikidwe: Awuzeni anzanu zonse za chakudya chokoma chomwe munapanga usiku watha, kapena funsani ngati wina ali ndi chophimba cha chinachake chimene mungathe kubweretsa kwa mnzako.
• Limbikitsani mchipinda chodyera: Kuyankhula za kudya, nanga bwanji za kupereka malo odyera atsopano omwe munakumana nawo mzake pa chakudya chamasana.
• Awuzeni zomwe mudachita mlungu watha: Malinga ngati mapulani a sabata lanu sanagwirizane ndi ndondomeko yandale kapena yolojekiti ya wokondedwa wanu, iyi ndi nkhani yosayenerera.

• Lankhulani za buku lalikulu lomwe mwangowerenga kapena filimu kapena TV yomwe mwawonapo : Kodi bukhu lomwe mukuwerenga likukutsutsani usiku, kodi mumakonda tsamba laposachedwa lomwe mwangoona, kapena mwakhala mukuyang'ana TV kusonyeza? Aliyense akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito chinachake kuti azisangalala nazo, choncho pitirizani ndikugawana.

Dos ndi Don'ts za Tsiku Lotsatira

• Osadandaula: Ziribe kanthu momwe mukukondwera kuti wodzitcha wanu wapambana chisankho, palibe chifukwa chokondwera pamaso pa anzanu akuntchito. Zikondweretse chigonjetso chanu pa nthawi yanu. Palibe amene amakonda wopambana.
• Musati mudandaule: Osowa kwambiri samayang'ananso bwino. Ngati wokondedwa wanu ataya chisankho, yesetsani kuyesetsa kumuthandiza iye, kapena phwando lanu, kupambana nthawi yotsatira.
• Chotsani Zovala Zanu Pakhomo: Zovala zanu kapena zipewa zomwe zinapangidwa ndi chilankhulo kapena nkhope yanu ya candidate sizinakhale ndi bizinesi pamalo ogwira ntchito panthawi yachitukuko, ndipo ndithudi sikuyenera kukhalapo tsopano.