Chifukwa Chimene Simukuyenera Kupeza Munthu Wanu Pa Ntchito
Simungathe Kukhulupirira Aliyense
Mungafune kuuza anthu omwe mumakhala nawo maola asanu ndi atatu pa tsiku, masiku asanu pa sabata.
Izi ndi zomveka, koma samalani ndi omwe mumagawana zinsinsi zanu. Sikuti aliyense ndi wodalirika. Ngati mumalankhulana ndi munthu wolakwika, mukhoza kuopsezedwa kukhala miseche . Anthu ena ali ndi milomo yosayera ndipo sangathe kuthandiza koma amasonyeza zomwe ena amawauza. Zina ndizoopsa kwambiri. Kwa iwo, kugawanana za ena ndi masewera.
Musati Muzisonyeza Mimba Yanu
Galu amene akufuna kusonyeza galu loposa lomwe likugonjera lidzagwedezeka kuti liwonetse mimba yake. Izi zikhoza kukhala zomwe mukuchita mwadzidzidzi mukagawana chinachake chomwe chimasonyeza zofooka zanu. Otsogolera anu angapindule ndi chidziwitso ichi. Zingasokonezenso abwana anu ngati mukukambirana kuti muthandizidwe kuntchito. Muyenera kukhala mukuwonetsa mphamvu zanu mmalo mwake.
Shhh ... Palibe Kuyankhula Sukulu
Mukuchita chiyani kuntchito? Ntchito yanu mwachiyembekezo. Ngakhale palibe wina akuyembekeza kuti mukhale bizinesi tsiku lirilonse la tsiku, nthawi yambiri yogwiritsira ntchito chitchatting ikutanthauza nthawi yaying'ono yogwira ntchito.
Malingana ndi Susan Heathfield, yemwe analemba za Human Resources for The Balance, "Pamene kusagwira ntchito kuntchito kumakhala kovuta, m'maganizo mwanga, ndi pamene kumakhala kovuta. 'Kodi mwanyengo wanu watha? Wokongola kwambiri. Tinapitilira kwambiri. Zinali bwanji zanu? ' ndizofala. Kutha theka la ora ndikumugwirira mnzako chifukwa chakupweteka kwa sabata lanu, si. "
Kusankha Ndalama Zomwe Mungagawane ndi Ogwira Ntchito Wanu
Kudziwa momwe mungagawire-ndi kuchuluka kwa momwe mungasungire nokha-kungakhale kosokoneza. Simukufuna kuwulula zinthu zomwe anthu oipa amatha kunena. Mukufuna kupeĊµa kuganiza kuti ndinu ofooka, makamaka ngati ntchito yanu yokhumba ikufuna kuti muwonetse mphamvu. Koma ngati simukugawana nawo kanthu pazokha ndi anzanu ogwira nawo ntchito, zidzakupangitsani kuti mukhale osungulumwa kuntchito. Palibe amene angadziwe zochuluka za inu. Izi zingachititse munthu kukhala wosungulumwa kwambiri komanso zomwe zingayambitse kusokonezeka kwa ntchito komanso kusakhutira. Mwinanso mungapeze mbiri ya kukhala snob ngati anzanu akuganiza kuti simukufuna kuchita nawo. Izi zingakhale zochepetsetsa kuposa zolemba zina zomwe mungapeze mwa kugawana zambiri.
Ndi mtundu wanji wa chidziwitso chomwe mungauze ndi anzako? Mwachiwonekere, mungathe kuyankhula nawo zachabechabe, monga momwe mudadyera usiku watha kapena filimu yomwe mwawona pamapeto a sabata. Komabe, sikungatheke kuchepetsa kukambirana kwanu ndi iwo ku nkhanizi ndipo simukuyenera. Amatha kudziwa zinthu zina zokhudza moyo wanu kunja kwa ntchito. Ngati mukufuna kutero, auzeni anzanu ogwira ntchito zazofunika zanu, ngati muli nacho, ndi banja lanu.
Amatha kudziwa komwe mukukhala. Mungathe ngakhale kukambirana za zolinga zanu kuti mupangenso nyumba yanu. Pali nkhani zina zomwe muyenera kuzipewa . Musapereke tsatanetsatane wa nkhondo yomwe munali nayo ndi mnzanu, mwana wanu, kapena kholo lanu. Simuyenera kuwauza momwe mwakhalira nyumba yanu kapena tchuthi. Musalankhule za cholowa chomwe mukuyembekezera. Monga lamulo la thupi, khalani kutali ndi chirichonse chokhudzana ndi ndalama zanu. Musalankhulepo za moyo wanu wa kugonana. Samalani kuti mupite mwatsatanetsatane za nkhani zaumoyo wanu, kaya zakuthupi kapena zamaganizo.
Pamapeto pake, ndizomwe mumasankha zokhudzana ndi kuchuluka kwake, ndi chiyani, zomwe mumawulula kwa anzako ntchito malinga ngati mumvetsetsa malingaliro omwe amabwera chifukwa chogawana zambiri zambiri. Mukatsegula mawindo omwe amalola anzanu kuyang'ana mu moyo wanu, zidzakhala zovuta kuzizimitsa.