Njira Zogulitsa Zamtima

Kugulitsa maganizo kumatseketsa malonda.

Ambiri amatha kugula pogwiritsa ntchito maganizo, osati malingaliro. Amagula kugula chifukwa "amamva bwino," kenako agwiritsire ntchito logic kuti adzifunse okha. Kotero kuti ndibwino kuti muthe kugwirizana pakati pa chiyembekezo ndi chirichonse chomwe mukugulitsa, ndizosavuta kuti mupeze kuti mutseka malonda.

Ntchito yanu monga wogulitsa ndikuthandizira chiyembekezo ndikuwona ubwino womwe angapindule pokhala nawo malonda anu.

Ubwino wonse uli ndi ndowe yamaganizo; Ndichomwe chimapangitsa iwo kukhala osiyana ndi zinthu zomwe ndi chifukwa chake amagwira ntchito pogulitsa pamene akulemba mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa kuti maso awo ayang'ane. Mukhoza ndipo muyenera kuyambitsa ndondomeko yogwirizanitsa panthawi yoyamba yolumikizana. Izi zimachitika nthawi yozizira kwambiri.

Pakuitana kwanu kozizira, musayambe mwa kukankhira phindu lanu. M'malo mwake, yambani kulankhula za madalitso anu. Panthawi imeneyi chiyembekezo sichikudziwa kapena chisamala za mankhwala anu; Gawo lanu loyamba liyenera kukhala ndikuwonetsa chifukwa chake inu muli chitsimikizo chodalirika cha chidziwitso. Chiyembekezocho chiyenera kukhulupirira mwa inu poyamba asanakhulupirire zomwe mumanena za mankhwala anu. Choncho yambani kuuza zomwe mukuchita, mwanjira yovuta. Musatenge mawu anu oyamba ndi luso lamaganizo. Kumbukirani, cholinga chake ndi kugwirizana pa msinkhu wamaganizo, osati womveka.

Mwachitsanzo, ngati mutagulitsa inshuwalansi, mawu anu oyamba angakhale kuti mumapatsa makasitomala mtendere wamaganizo za tsogolo.

Pali njira ziwiri zomwe zingagwiritsire ntchito kugulitsa malingaliro: njira zabwino komanso zoyipa. Njira yolakwika ndiyo yogwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri ndi ogulitsa. Kwenikweni, zikutanthawuza kupereka mankhwala anu monga machiritso kapena kupeĊµa kupweteka kwakukulu kwa chiyembekezo.

Njira yabwino, yomwe ikuwonetseratu, imapereka mankhwalawa ngati chinthu chomwe chidzapangitse kuti zinthu zabwino zichitike mtsogolomu. Chiyembekezo chachikulu chimawathandiza bwino njira imodzi kapena ina, choncho ndibwino kuti muyambe kufufuza mofulumira kuti mudziwe kuti muli ndi chiyembekezo chotani.

Nthawi yabwino yodziwa njira yomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito ndi oyambirira pa nkhani yanu, monga gawo la mafunso anu oyenerera . Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zotetezeka kuti muyambe ndi mafunso abwino, monga momwe mukuyembekezera kuti zingawathandize kukhala opanda chidwi kuposa mafunso olakwika. Mafunso oyenerera oyenerera angaphatikizepo, "Kodi mumadziona kuti ndinu chaka chotani kuchokera pano? Kodi mukuyembekeza kupindula chiyani kuchokera ku msonkhano uno? Kodi mwakhala mukuganiza za kugula nthawi yayitali bwanji? "Ndi zina zotero. Mafunsowa amakhudza maganizo ake okhudzana ndi mankhwalawa ndikukudziwitsani zomwe akuyembekeza.

Mafunso osayenerera amachititsa kuti mantha aziyankhidwa, kotero zina mwaziyembekezo zingakhale zovuta powayankha. Mafunso awa angaphatikizepo, "Kodi vuto lanu lalikulu ndi liti tsopano? Kodi mwakhala ndi vutoli mpaka liti? Ndikofunika bwanji kuti muthe kuthetsa? "Ndi zina zotero. Mungathe kuona kuti mafunso ena abwino ndi ofanana ndi ofanana. Mwachitsanzo, "Kodi mwakhala mukuganiza kuti mukugula nthawi yayitali bwanji?" Ndi "Kodi mwakhala ndi vuto liti?" Ali pafupi kwambiri.

Kusiyanitsa ndiko kuti woyamba akuika maganizo pa zomwe chiyembekezo chikuyembekezeredwa, pamene chachiwiri chimayang'ana pa nkhani yomwe akufuna kukonza. Woyamba amachititsa chiyembekezo, pamene wachiwiri amachititsa mantha.

Mukatha kufukula zofunikira ndikudziwitsapo za chiyembekezo chanu, mukhoza kupanga malingaliro anu okhudzana ndi maganizo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukumva kuti akuganiza kugula inshuwalansi chifukwa mkazi wake akuda nkhawa kuti adzasiyidwa popanda thandizo la ndalama, mukhoza kufunsa ngati, "Mukuganiza kuti Marie angamve bwanji potsata ndondomekoyi?" Pogwiritsa ntchito dzina la mkazi wake kulumikizana ndi mankhwala, mumamupangitsa kukhala weniweni ndipo amayamba kufotokoza zomwe zidzachitike atagula kuchokera kwa inu - zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zitheke kugula.