Mukamapanga foni nthawi zonse, posachedwa mumadziŵa bwino zomwe zimachitika kuti mutha kuchitapo kanthu pafoni. Zolinga zingachititse kulenga mwakuya zikubwera ndi njira zoti zikuchotseni inu zomwe sizikufuna iwo kuti asiye ayi ndikukuyimirani. Inde, mumathamangiranso anthu ambiri omwe alibe vuto lililonse, koma nthawi zina, mumadziwa kuti chiyembekezocho sichisangalatsidwa.
Kumbali ina, akuyembekezera omwe akubwerabe ndi kutsutsa koma osatulukamo ndikumanena kuti sakufuna kukusungani kwa masiku kapena masabata popanda kukhala ndi mwayi wogulitsa. Nazi zifukwa zomwe anthu ambiri amatsutsa zomwe mungamve panthawi yozizira komanso ndi mfundo zingapo zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito.
Tumizani Ine Zina Zambiri
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zotsutsana kwambiri zotsutsana ndi foni zomwe mumamva panthawi yozizira. Ngati mutangoyankhula bwino ndikutumizira zomwe mwafunsidwa, mwayi wanu wogulitsa ndi pafupifupi zero. Chidziwitso chilichonse chomwe mungatumize chidzafika nthawi yomweyo mu bin.
M'malo mwake, yesetsani kunena chinachake monga "Chabwino, mutangowerenga, mutha kusankha nthawi yaitali bwanji?" Ndipo pamene chiyembekezo chikupatsani inu nthawi yeniyeni, nenani, "Wokondedwa, ndiye ndikupatsani maitanidwe [nthawi iliyonse yomwe nthawiyo inali]." Mwanjira imeneyo mwalandira chilolezo kuti mukwaniritse zomwe mukuyembekezera pa tsiku lokhazikitsidwa ndipo potsiriza mutenge kugulitsa.
Yankho lamphamvu kwambiri pazotsutsana ndizidziwitso ndi, "Sindikufuna kutaya nthawi yanu, kotero ndisanatumize pakiti yomwe ndikufunsapo mafunso angapo omwe ndiwamsanga." Pitirizani ndi mafunso anu oyenerera nthawi zonse.
Ndiyenera Kuyankhula ndi [Mlengi Wopanga Chigamu] Choyamba
Si zachilendo kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito chotsutsachi kuti muthe kukutsutsani.
Komabe, zingasonyezenso kuti munthu amene mukumuyankhula ndi mlonda wam'zipata ndipo sangaloledwe kupanga chisankho.
Ndibwino kuti mutenge munthuyo pa mawu ake ndikuganiza kuti njira yachiwiriyi ndi yoona. Mungathe kunena chinachake motsatira, "Zikomo, koma ndikuonetsetsa kuti sindikutha nthawi yake ndikufuna kumufunsa mafunso ofulumira. Kodi mungandigwirizanitse tsopano?" Ngati woyang'anira chipata atanena kuti wosankhayo sakupezeka pakalipano, funsani nambala yake yachindunji kapena kutambasula kapena osachepera atenge mlonda wa chipata kuti akugwirizanitseni ndi voicemail yake. Mudzakhala ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri wofika poyankhula ndi wopanga chisankho ngati mungathe kuwayankha m'mawu anuanu m'malo mofotokozera kumasulira kwa mlonda.
Ikani Kulemba Kwawo ndi Kuitumiza Kwa Ine
N'zosavuta kuona izi ngati chizindikiro chogula, koma zambiri zimakhala ngati brushoff. Sitikukayikira kuti chiyembekezocho chidzakhala chododometsa ndi kuitana kwa mphindi ziwiri kuti akuganizira kugula. M'malo mwake, chiyembekezocho chikuyesera kupereka chidwi chake kuti mutenge foni. Mfundo yeniyeni yomwe adafunsidwa kuti apeze chiwongoladzanja choyambirira pachiyanjano ndi mbendera yofiira.
Yesani kunena kuti, "Ndingakhale wosangalala. Mukukhulupirira kuti izi zidzakwaniritsidwe mu bajeti yanu?" Izi zimalimbikitsa chiyembekezo kukhala chochepa kwambiri. Njira ina ndikuti, "Zedi, ndipo mudzakhala okonzeka kupitiliza kugula mukakhala ndi ndondomeko yovomerezeka?" Izi zimapangitsa kuti anthu azikukanikani (ngati mutasunga nthawi) kapena kuganizira mozama kugula.