Mtsogoleli Wokhudzana ndi Kuthana ndi Chifuwa cha Amayi Ndi Bwana Wanu

Ngati muli ndi mantha poyandikira abwana anu tsatirani izi

Kukhala ndi mwana ndi nthawi yapadera kwambiri pa moyo wa mkazi. Nthawi yoyembekezeredwayi nthawi zambiri imabwera ndi nthawi yochoka kuntchito. Komabe, kuchoka kwa amayi otha msinkhu nthawi zambiri kumakhala kukambirana. Ngati mukuyamba kugwedezeka pazomwe mungachite, ganizirani kukambirana ndi abwana anu kuti mupite kuntchito kwanu.

Khwerero 1: Kumvetsetsa Komwe Mayi a Maternity Ndizochitika Zonse

Kuchokera kwa amayi otha msinkhu kumatanthauzidwa ngati nthawi yomwe amayi atsopano amachoka kuntchito atakhala ndi mwana.

Azimayi ambiri amatenga nthawi yomweyo atabereka kuti athe kubwezeretsanso ndikusowa zosowa za mwana m'zaka zoyambirira za moyo wake. Makampani ena amapereka lipoti loperekera kubereka kwa nthawi ya masabata asanu ndi limodzi kapena kuposerapo. Mayi wa amuna kapena akazi akhoza kutenga masabata khumi ndi awiri osapatsidwa mwayi kuchokera kuntchito pansi pa Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA) , ngati cholinga chake ndi kusamalira mwana watsopano.

Ngakhale makampani ambiri amapereka lipoti lolipira lakumayi, malo ena ogwira ntchito sakuchita. Pachifukwa ichi, amayi ayenera kuchoka pansi pa Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), komwe abwana ambiri ayenera kulola ma sabata khumi ndi awiri a sabata yopanda malipiro kuchokera kuntchito. Act Family Leave Act Act (FAMLI) ikugwira ntchito yosintha izi popereka mphotho yoperekedwa kwa aliyense.

Gawo 2: Dziwani momwe mungakambirane

Malinga ndi mawonekedwe a ofesi yanu, mosamala musankhe sing'anga yomwe mumalengeza kuti muli ndi mimba. Muyenera kupereka kalatayi yachinyamata , koma ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi maso ndi maso muofesi musanayambe kulemba kalata yanu, yomwe ingafunikirenso kuperekedwa kwa dipatimenti ya kampani.

Mukufuna kukambirana ndi bwana wanu za chisankho chanu chakumayi musanayambe kumaliza ntchito yolemba nkhani. Pachifukwa ichi, ndibwino kupempha kuyankhulana maso ndi maso ndi bwana wanu musanalengeze kwa ogwira nawo ntchito kuti muli ndi pakati.

Kukambitsirana za nthawi yobereka kumachitika mwamsanga mmalo mwa maofesi ambiri. NthaƔi yowonjezerayi imalola abwana anu kupanga ndondomeko pamene muli paulendo wobereka.

Gawo 3: Sungani zomwe Mukufuna Kuti Mayi Wanu Wamayi Akuwoneke

Musanayambe kukumana ndi bwana wanu kuti akambirane zala lakumayi, ganizirani masabata omwe mukufuna kuchoka kuntchito atabadwa. Yang'anani ndi dipatimenti ya azinthu za kampani yanu kapena buku la ogwira ntchito kuti muwone ngati kampani yanu ili ndi ndondomeko yokhudzana ndi kuchoka kwa amayi.

Ngati pali ndondomeko ya kampani pa holide yobereka, sankhani ngati mukuyenera. Mwachitsanzo, mwinamwake kampaniyo imapereka maulendo asanu ndi limodzi a mphotho ya malipiro, koma mumamva kuti mukufuna nthawi yambiri musanabwerere kuntchito mutakhala ndi mwana wanu. Mukhoza kutenga nthawi yomwe munagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi abwana anu (nthawi yanu ya PTO) komanso nthawi yina yochokapo pansi pa FMLA.

Gawo 4: Kambiranani ndi Wotsogolera Wanu ndikupereka Pulogalamu Yanu Yotsalira Mayi

Kamodzi pamsonkhano, fotokozani momveka bwino nthawi yanu yochezera yoyembekezera. Ndiye khalani pansi ndi kumvetsera. Taganizirani zokambiranazi monga chiyambi cha kukambirana, ndipo khalani ndi maganizo omasuka pazofuna za abwana anu kapena zosowa za abwana.

Ngati mukufuna chiwopsezo chokwanira chokwanira kusiyana ndi zomwe zafotokozedwa ndi dipatimenti yanu yothandiza anthu kapena buku lanu, fotokozerani zifukwa zanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati kampani yanu sakupatsani mphotho yapadera, ndipo mutha kutenga masabata khumi osaperekedwa, auzeni akuluakulu anu chifukwa chake mukufunikira nthawiyi kuntchito.

Zingakhale chifukwa chakuti mwamuna kapena bwenzi lanu sangathe kutaya nthawi kuntchito, mulibenso mwana wamwamuna wolimbitsa thupi, komabe mukufuna kukhala kunyumba nthawi ya moyo wa mwana wanu.

Khwerero 5: Yambani Kukambirana

Ngati palibe ndondomeko ya kampani yowunikira, funsani zomwe mukufuna. Ngati bwana wanu akuvomerezeka, ndondomeko yatha.

Ngati mukufuna chilakolako chokwanira chokwanira kuposa momwe ndondomeko yanu yampani ikulolereramo, mwa kulembera, zifukwa zenizeni zomwe mukufunikira nthawi iyi:

Ngati kampani yanu isapereke nthawi yobereka yobereka, ndipo simungakwanitse kutenga nthawi yopanda malipiro yesetsani kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yokhazikika yomwe mungathe kugwira ntchito kunyumba kuchokera masiku angapo pa sabata kwa milungu isanu ndi umodzi itatha kubadwa kwa mwana wanu , kapena mwakufunsani kuti muzigwira ntchito nthawi ina kwa nthawi.

Kusinthidwa ndi Elizabeth McGrory