Bambo akhoza kupeza zovuta kuti athetse bwino ntchito, banja ndi moyo pamene abwana ake kapena woyang'anira wake ndi wodzipereka kwambiri kapena amayembekezera kuti antchito ake azidzipereka nthawi yomweyo.
Makampani ena ali ndi kudzipereka kwa ogwira ntchito awo ntchito yolimbitsa moyo koma abwana ambiri samatero. Ndipo ndi zofuna zomwe zikuwonjezeka kwambiri kuti achite zambiri ndi zochepa mu dziko la masiku ano, abambo angapeze zovuta kusunga zofuna zawo ndi zosowa za mabanja awo mosamala.
Panthawi ina m'moyo wanga, ndinali ndi bwana yemwe ankafuna kwambiri. Ndinali kuyitana 24/7 m'maganizo mwake ndipo ndinafunikira kuyankha foni yanga nthawi iliyonse yomwe adayitana, usana kapena usiku, ndipo ndinkafuna kufotokoza bwino ngati sindinatero. Ndinalemba pulogalamu yake ya piritsi monga "Tikubwezereni Mtsogoleri" monga chikumbutso kuti ngati atandiitana, ndiyenera kukhala pamenepo.
Choncho, ngati mukupeza kuti mukukhala ndi moyo wathanzi ndipo simukufuna kugwirizanitsa, muyenera kuthandizidwa, kapena kumvetsetsa kwa bwana wanu. Nawa malangizowo a kuyankhula ndi bwana wokhudzana ndi kufunika kokhala ndi moyo wathanzi.
Kumbukirani mphamvu ya malo anu. Pamene mukuganizira momwe mungayandikire abwana, muyenera kukumbukira kuti mumachokera ku mphamvu.
Wobwana wanu ali ndi zochuluka mwa inu mu maphunziro ndi chidziwitso. Iye sakufuna kuti inu muwotche kapena kuti musiye chifukwa inu simukusangalala kapena mukulemedwa. Ngati mumaganizira za izi, moyo wanu wathanzi umakhala wopindulitsa kwa abwana anu, ngakhale kuti alibe. Kotero, pamene mukukonzekera, musaganize za izi pofunsa abwana anu kuti akuthandizeni; ganizirani za ubwino kwa iye pa moyo wanu wamagwira bwino ntchito mukakhala bwino.
Ganizirani zokolola. Bwana wanu amafuna khama lanu mukakhala pa ola lake. Ngati mungapeze njira zowonjezera kuntchito pa nthawi yeniyeni ya ntchito, kudandaula za inu kugwira ntchito "mozungulira koloko" kudzakhala kochepa. Choncho, yambani kupeza njira zowonjezera komanso zopindulitsa kuntchito . Mwachitsanzo, musayang'ane maimelo tsiku lonse; Ikani nthawi zitatu kapena zinayi patsiku lomwe mudzayankha maimelo. Izi zidzasokoneza zochepa ndikulola zokolola zambiri. Ngati muli ndi misonkhano yochuluka, yesetsani kuzipanga kukhala zazifupi komanso zopindulitsa. Ngati muli ndi ntchito zobwerezabwereza, fufuzani njira zoyenera kuzichita mofulumira komanso mwakhama.
Dziwani zoona. Kafukufuku wasonyeza mobwereza bwereza kuti ogwira ntchito zabwino zogwira ntchito ndi opindulitsa kwambiri, ochita bwino komanso ochita bwino kwambiri. Kotero pamene mukonzekera kukambirana ndi bwana, dzikani nokha ndi zizindikiro zina zomwe zikuwonetsa momwe moyo wabwino wathanzi ungagwirizanitsire, bungwe ndi inu.
Khalani okonzeka ndi mayankho. Palibe bwana amakonda kuwonetsedwa ndi vuto. Amafuna kumvetsetsa nkhaniyi kenako amaperekedwa ndi njira zabwino zothetsera vutoli. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukupeza kuti mukupita kunyumba panthawi ina ndikumva kuti mukufunikira kuchoka ku ofesi pafupi ndi nthawi, perekani vuto kwa bwana ndikuuzeni zinthu monga, "Ndikudziwa kuti mwina mukudandaula za ntchito yanga kumaliza nthawi ngati ndikuchokapo kusiyana ndi momwe ndakhalira, koma ndimatha kugwira ntchito kunyumba kuti ndigwire ntchito kwa ola limodzi ana atagona kapena mwina ndingabwere m'mawa kwambiri. " Ngati muli ndi njira yothetsera vutoli, ndiye kuti mukulemekeza mavuto ake ndikuyesera kupeza njira zothetsera mavuto.
Yendani kwa bwana mwaulemu. Kukambirana uku kokhudzana ndi moyo wa moyo kumabweretsanso ubale wanu m'njira zambiri. Onetsetsani kuti muli ndi malingaliro a mgwirizano, wotsutsa komanso malangizo. Palibe kutsutsa kapena mkwiyo; Cholinga chanu ndikutenga njira zowonetsera bwino. Lankhulani ndi zida zofewa ndi kutsutsa ulamuliro wake. Kuvuta kwake kungapangitse zoipa pano m'malo molimbikitsa. Ganizirani izi ngati mukugwirira ntchito limodzi kuthetsa vuto lirilonse lomwe limabwera kuntchito.
Khalani okonzeka kuti mugonane. Mwina simungapeze zonse zomwe mukuyembekeza kuchokera kuzokambirana. Koma muyenera kupeza yankho lomwe limakupangitsani kuti muyandikire kwa zovuta zomwe mukuyesetsa kuti mupeze. Khalani okonzeka kupeza malo apakati - mwinamwake madzulo angapo kunyumba popanda kusokoneza kapena kutha kukhala Loweruka lomwe laperekedwa kwathunthu kwa banja lanu.
Njira yowonjezereka ingatengere nthawi, ndipo zokambiranazi zingakhale zoyamba paulendowu.
Pamene mukupeza mayankho omwe amakufikitsani ku malo omwe mumakhala nawo nthawi yochuluka ya banja lanu, kumbukirani kuti ndi mphatso yanji kuti mukhale ndi mtsogoleri yemwe ali wokonzeka kugwira ntchito ndi inu. Sungani zomwe mumapanga - kwa abwana anu ndi banja lanu - ndipo ngati chikhulupiliro chikukula ndi bwana, mwayi wochulukirapo pa ntchito zapantchito udzabwera.
Kotero khalanibe maso, kudzipereka kuti mupange nthawi yanu kuntchito ndikukhala yopindulitsa kwambiri panyumba, ndipo monga momwe moyo wanu wa moyo ndi moyo wanu umakhalira bwino, mudzapeza mtendere wambiri mwa inu nokha, podziwa kuti mwasankha njira yomwe idzachoka cholowa ndi banja lanu kwamuyaya.