Mungathe Kugwira Ntchito Mwakhama ndi Ogwira Ntchito Omwe Simumakonda
Chabwino, mwinamwake, ndipo mwina ayi. Anthu ena amakonda kupatukana kwathunthu pakati pa ntchito yawo ndi moyo wawo, koma aliyense akufuna kukhala ndi malo abwino oti apite kuntchito.
Tsoka ilo, simungakhoze kusankha nthawi zonse anthu omwe mumagwira nawo ntchito. Choncho nthawi zina mumagwira ntchito ndi mnzanuyo osati kumangodana nawo koma omwe simukuwakonda, kapena kuganiza kuti mumadana nawo.
Kodi mumapulumuka bwanji? (Zoonadi, mungathe kupeza ntchito yatsopano ndikusiya , koma ndi zopusa kuti musiye ntchito imene mumakonda mu bungwe lomwe silimapindula chifukwa cha mnzanu yemwe simukumukonda kapena akudana naye). Nanga mungatani m'malo mosiya?
Nazi malingaliro asanu ndi limodzi othandizana ndi anthu omwe amakhumudwa kwambiri omwe simukuwakonda.
Lembani khalidwe loipa la Wokondedwa Wosakondedwa
Mia ankagwira ntchito ndi mkazi kuti sangathe kuima. Poyamba, iye ankaganiza kuti anali yekhayokha. Iye anali wokongola ndi wochenjera ndipo mofulumira akukwera makwerero a kampani . Kodi anali wansanje chabe? Mia anatsimikiza kuti ndizo choncho-sanamufune chifukwa anali wochepa chabe komanso wansanje.
Tsopano, ichi ndi chifukwa chokupangitsani kuti musamakonde mnzanu wachangu, koma pakadali pano, sikunali chifukwa chenichenicho. Pamene adanama kwa munthu wamkulu mu dipatimenti ina yokhudza ntchito yomwe Mia adachita, anazindikira kuti wantchito wake anali munthu wonyansa.
Panthawiyi, adatha kuona kuti siye yekhayo amene wantchito wake adamupereka kuti adziwone bwino.
Mia ataphunzira izi za iye, adadziwa kuti malingaliro ake opanda chidziwitso adatengera khalidwe la wochita naye ntchitoyo asanayambe kuwona bwinobwino.
Koma, Mia adayenera kugwira ntchito naye. Iwo anali anzanga, kotero iye analibe mphamvu yopezera / moto pa wothandizana naye . Mia mwinamwake ankakonda ntchito yake ndipo ankafuna kuti akhalebe. Kotero, iye anasintha mwakhama kuyanjana kwake ndi wogwira naye ntchito. Podziwa kuti analibe vuto lililonse pa zokambirana zilizonse, Mia anasiya kulankhula naye maso ndi maso ndi kuyankhulana kudzera pa imelo kuti machitidwe onse atchulidwe .
Pamene adakhalabe wovunda, sanachite kanthu kena kotsutsa ntchito ya Mia kachiwiri. Iye ankadziwa kuti sanalikuthawa ndi izo kachiwiri.
Dziwani Ngati Mukuona Kuti Ndizovuta.
Nthawi zina chifukwa chimene simukukondera mnzanu ndi chifukwa chakuti munthuyo ali ndi zizolowezi zoipa zomwe mumachita. Pamene akukubwezerani mmbuyo, simukuzikonda. Nthawi zina, simumakonda mnzanuyo chifukwa munthu ameneyo akukutsutsani nthawi zonse kapena kukuuzani zoyenera kuchita.
Dzifunseni nokha ngati zodandaula zake ziri zowona . Mwachitsanzo, pamene ofesi yanu imati mdani, "Kodi mutenga kafukufukuyo pa nthawi?" Kodi ndi wosasamala komanso wamaliza kapena mwatsiriza lipotilo mochedwa kwa miyezi itatu yapitayo?
Ngati ndizo zomaliza, mukhoza kukonza ubale wanu mwa kukonza khalidwe lanu. Popeza khalidwe lokha limene muli nalo ndilo lanu, ndibwino kudziwa.
Yesetsani Kuphunzira za Wokondedwa Wokondedwayo
Inu mumapatsa anthu omwe mumawadziwa komanso ngati phindu la kukaikira nthawi zambiri kuposa momwe mumaperekera alendo. Mukaphunzira zomwe zimayambitsa mnzanuyo, mukhoza kumukonda.
Mwachitsanzo, mnzako amene wakhala akuchita chiwembu nthawi zonse angakhale atasudzulidwa kwambiri pomwe adafera ana ake. Ndizomveka kuti sakusangalala panthawiyi. Mwinamwake kasamalidwe kanamuperekeza iye pa kukwezedwa katatu mzere. Mwinamwake iye ali ndi chikondi chakuya ndi chosatha cha amphaka ndipo amafuna kungoyankhula za iwo.
Chirichonse chotheka ndipo sichimamupangitsa munthuyo kukhala womveka bwino, koma zimakupangitsani kuona kumene akuchokera.
Ndipo zimenezo zingakuthandizeni kuphunzira kukonda mnzanu amene simukumukonda.
Khalani wamkulu mu chipinda
Pamene mudali kusukulu ya pulayimale, aphunzitsi ankayembekezera kuti muzigwirizana ndi aliyense, ziribe kanthu. Ngati mutatha kuchita izi mukakhala zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, bwanji simungathe kuchita 37? Yankho ndiloti mungathe.
Simukuyenera kukhala mabwenzi abwino-muyenera kukhala aulemu. Muyenera kuchita ntchito yanu. Thandizani anthu ena. Musayankhe ku khalidwe loipa komanso loipa. Ingochita mwachidwi komanso mwaluso nthawi zonse. Kuchita zamalonda kungapatsirane.
Musayambe Kunena za Wogwira Naye Ntchito Simukumukonda
Pamene muli ndi mnzako yemwe simukumukonda, yesero lakuyankhula za iye ndi ogwira naye ntchito omwe mumamukonda nthawi zina limakhala lovuta. Zimasangalatsa kukhala pansi kuntchito ndi kukamba za zoopsa Helga ndi momwe akudyera chakudya chake kapena amagwiritsira ntchito Comic Sans mu imelo yake.
Dzifunseni nokha, kodi izi zidzakhala zabwino bwanji? Kodi zingathandize ubale wanu ndi Helga? Ayi. Kodi zingakulimbikitseni kuti muthandizidwe ? Ayi. Kodi zingapangitse deta yanu kukhala yopindulitsa kwambiri? Inde sichoncho. Musanamize. Musadandaule. Ingokhalani okoma.
Funani Thandizo kwa Wokondedwa Wanu Wosafuna
Ngati mnzako akuchititsa mavuto enieni ndi ntchito yanu, lankhulani ndi mtsogoleri wanu . Funsani a HR wanu kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza momwe mungagwirizane ndi mnzanuyo. Iwo alidi komweko kuti awathandize ndi nthawi zambiri, ndizotheka kuti abwana akhazikitsenso magawo kuti musamafunike kuyanjana nthawi zonse ndi mnzanu yemwe simukumukonda. Imeneyi ndi malo otsiriza, koma ikhoza kugwira ntchito.
Zonsezi, kumbukirani kuti ntchito ndi ntchito ndipo simukukonda mbali zonse za ntchito yanu sizikutanthauza kuti ndi ntchito yoipa kapena kuti antchito anu ndi anthu oipa. Zimatanthauza kuti moyo wanu ndi wokongola kwambiri.