N'chifukwa Chiyani Malamulo Amaloleza Makhalidwe?
Ndagwira ntchito kwa boma kuti ndipitirize zaka 14, ndipo sindinayambe ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito yoipa. Zakhala zoipa kwambiri kuti ndikukonzekera kuti ndikuchotseretu kuchitiridwa nkhanza nthawi zonse. Tili ndi abambo ena awiri omwe amapita kuntchito zosiyanasiyana kuti achoke kuno. Iye wandiopseza kuti andilembe ine, ndi antchito ena chifukwa cha zopusa.
Pamene adapititsa kwa mtsogoleri wathu yemwe adalipo, adalowa m'nyumba ngati moto ndipo pomwepo adayamba kunyalanyaza antchito mpaka pamene mgwirizanowu unalowapo ndipo antchitowo amasaina pempho kuti amuchotse pamalo ake.
Ogwira ntchito onse adasaina, koma kasamalidwe kanyalanyaza antchito ndikumulola kuti apitirizebe kuzunzidwa.
Iye wakhala pano kwa pafupi zaka ziwiri ndipo akupitirizabe kuipa kwambiri. Iye wanyodola mmodzi wa oyang'anira athu omwe ali odwala m'maganizo, ndipo watsutsa ogwira ntchito kuti amubera. Aliyense amayenda kuzungulira iye pazitsulo ndi singano ndipo nthawi zonse amafuula anthu, ndi kuwadzudzula.
Iye sakhulupirira wina aliyense ndipo iye ali wotsogola kwambiri. Mgwirizanowu walemba zodandaula zambiri ndipo akuswa pangano lathu nthawi zonse. Ndakhala ndi zokambirana zambiri ndi iye ndipo akupitirizabe kusamvetsera ine kapena wina aliyense. Ndakhala ndikulemba zochitika zanga zonse, ndipo ndalimbikitsanso antchito ena kuchita chimodzimodzi.
Ndinayankhula ndi bwana wanga ndipo ndinamuuza kuti tili ndi malo ogwira ntchito, ndipo sanagwirepo kanthu. Ndili kumapeto kwa chingwe changa, ndipo kuvomereza kukuwoneka bwinoko ndi bwino tsiku lirilonse. Sindiyenera kutaya malipiro anga owonjezera kuti ndipewe, koma thanzi langa ndilofunika kwambiri kuposa ntchitoyi.
Ndakhala ndikuthamanga kwa magazi chifukwa cha momwe ndiliri tsopano ndipo ndayika mapaundi okwana 15, ndakhala ndikukhumudwa kwambiri pakhomo langa, monga momwe mkazi wanga angayesere. Chonde ndiuzeni zomwe ndichite pa nkhaniyi, ndingathe kugwiritsa ntchito mawu olimbikitsa.
Yankho Lathu:
Tidzasintha yankho limeneli m'magulu atatu osiyana:
- Ufulu wanu,
- n'chifukwa chiyani kasamalidwe amalola izi, ndi
- Njira zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito kuti mupeze izi.
Ufulu wanu.
Inu munatchula izi ndi malo osokoneza ntchito, ndipo ndithudi zimakhala ngati zomvetsa chisoni, zokwiya, zopweteka zomwe zikugwira ntchito. Komabe, mwalamulo, malo odana nawo ali ndi tanthauzo lapadera lomwe limafuna kuti lamulo lisweka.
Nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito pogwiritsa ntchito kugonana kapena kusankhana mitundu . Zimene mwafotokoza zikuwoneka ngati zoopsa, koma ndilamulo. Ndichoncho. Ndizovomerezeka kukhala mfuu, kufuula, pokhapokha mutakhala ndi mwayi wofanana mukufuula kufuula. Popeza ogwira ntchito 100% anapempha kuti achotsedwe, ndizosangalatsa kuti amachitira anthu onse molakwika, choncho palibe tsankho.
Ndikudziwa, ndizodabwitsa kuti ngati bwana ali ndi mphamvu kwa munthu m'modzi, zingakhale zoponderezedwa mwalamulo , koma ngati ali ndi mphamvu kwa aliyense ndizoyenera pansi pa lamulo. Ngati adasankha woyang'anira wodwala m'maganizo mwathu, ndiye kuti n'zosatheka kuti aphwanye malamulo a American Disabled Act , ndipo izi zikhoza kukhala chinthu chomwe mnzanuyo akufuna kuti awone.
Kawirikawiri, mgwirizanowu ndiwothandiza kwambiri pakulimbana ndi kuyendetsa koyipa, koma zimveka ngati wanu watembenuka kapena sakulephera.
Koma, ngati mutha kukweza anthu mu mgwirizano kuti agwirizane ndi chifukwa chanu, zimenezo zingakhale kwinakwake.
Monga wogwira ntchito limodzi, mwinamwake muli ndi chitetezo cha ntchito kuti anthu omwe sali pa mgwirizano alibe, kotero mutha kukwanitsa kukhala wochuluka kwambiri mu zodandaula zanu.
Nchifukwa chiyani kasamalidwe akulola izi?
Nthawi zonse pali woyang'anira pakati, muyenera kudziwa chifukwa chake akuluakulu akutsogolera. Pali njira ziwiri.
- Otsogolera akulu ndi oopsa kapena,
- Otsogolera akulu amafuna abwana anu kuti azichita mwanjira imeneyo.
Ngati otsogolera anu ali okhumudwitsa ndipo sakuyang'ana zinthu zoipa zomwe mnyamata uyu akuchita, chabwino, ndi momwe zidzakhalire mpaka chinachake mwa akuluakulu akusintha. Koma, ngati otsogolera akulu akufuna abwana kuti azichita mwanjira imeneyi, mungathe kuchita nawo.
Nchifukwa chiyani iwo akufuna mtsogoleri yemwe ali mantha? Dzifunseni nokha, kodi pali vuto lina limene iwo akufuna kuthetsa? Kodi iwo ali ndi mavuto a bajeti ndipo chifukwa antchito ali ogwirizana, sangathe kuwotcha aliyense? Koma, kodi iwo akufunikira kwambiri kuchotsa antchito a nthawi yaitali, olipidwa kwambiri?
Zothetsera: awononge ogwira ntchito kuti akhale okhumudwa kwambiri kuti ayambe kusiya ndiyeno m'malo mwawo ndi anthu otsika. Kodi panali khalidwe pansi pa bwana wam'mbuyo omwe sanawakonde? Kodi woyang'anira wapitawo mwamsanga analola antchito kuthawa zinthu? Kodi munthu watsopanoyu wasweka pansi pazinthu?
Palinso mwayi weniweni kuti zomwe mukuona ngati momwe aliyense akuchitiridwa bwino ndizochitika, kwa zaka ndi zaka, antchito akhala akugwira ntchito yochepa ndipo munthu watsopanoyu wapatsidwa ntchito yobweretsa aliyense motsatana. Ngati ndi choncho, palibe zodabwitsa kuti ali ndi udindo wotsogolera.
Njira zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito kudutsa izi.
Choyamba, muyenera kudziwa ngati pali mavuto omwe bwana wanu akuyesera kuwongolera. Khalani pansi ndikulemba mndandanda wa nthawi zomwe mumatsutsidwa komanso zomwe mukukunyozedwa. Ngati mukudandaula chifukwa mwafika mochedwa, yankho lodziwika bwino ndi kusiya kumapeto.
Komabe, ngati mukukankhidwa chifukwa cha Lachiwiri kapena chifukwa bwana sakukonda nyengo, kapena chifukwa chakuti akupeza mawu anu akukhumudwitsa, izi zidzakuthandizani kuti sakufuna kuthetsa vuto.
Mosasamala kanthu, pitirizani kulemba ndi kufunsa anzanu akuntchito kuti alembenso. Icho chikhoza kukupatsani inu chitsanzo kapena kukupatsani inu umboni wovuta wa momwe munthu uyu wavunda. Sungani mndandanda uliwonse womwe mumapanga panyumba, ndipo musawasunge pa makompyuta a ntchito.
Mukufuna kusunga izi ngati zosiyana ndi zikalata za ntchito monga momwe mungathere kuti asatengepo zolembedwazo.
Ngati muzindikira kuti bwanayo, kwenikweni, kuyesera kuthetsa mavuto ena, mukhoza kupita kwa iye ndikumuuza kuti, "Ndikuganiza kuti takhala tikuyenda molakwika. Ndikumva kuti mukuyesera kusintha kuno. Ndi kusintha kotani komwe mukufuna kukuwona? Ndikufuna kugwira ntchito ndi inu kuti ndikuthandizeni kuona kusintha kumeneku kukuchitika. "
Tsopano, munthu yemwe ali wamalingaliro pamtima adzakutengerani inu pa kupereka kwanu. Wina yemwe wangokhala wakufa-in-the-wobooka amazembera pa iwe chifukwa cha izi. Choncho, konzekerani.
Pamene mukugwira ntchito zonsezi, pitirizani kufunafuna ntchito yatsopano. Inu munanena kuti ndinu okonzeka kutenga chidwi kuti mutulukemo. Izi zikusonyeza kuti mukulepheretsa ntchito yanu kufufuza ku malo amkati.
Musati muchite zimenezo. Mukhoza kukonda penshoni ya ntchito ya boma, koma mungapeze kuti chitukuko chimakhala ndi malo abwino ogwira ntchito kwa antchito. Musati mutenge izo ngati mwayi weniweni.
Chinthu china choyenera kuchita ndi kupeĊµa kudziletsa pamene bwana akufuula kwa iwe. Yankhani mwachidule, "pepani. Kodi mungakonde kuti ndichite chiyani? "Izi ndi zovuta ndipo zimafuna kumeza zonyada zambiri.
Koma, taganizirani momwe mavutowa angagwere mwamsanga ngati aliyense ayamba kuyankha mofanana. Ngati aliyense akuchita zomwe akufuna, akafuna, amasiya zifukwa zake zofuula ndi kufuula.
Kugwira ntchito yozembera ndi chinthu chowopsya, koma kumbukirani, si moyo wanu wonse. Ngati mungayesetse kuganizira za moyo wanu kunja kwa ntchito, zingangopangitsanso ntchito kukhala yolekerera.