Mmene Mungapambitsire Anzanu ndi Kukopa Anthu Ogwira Ntchito

Muyenera Kuwonetsa Ogwira Mtima Otamandika Ndi Olemekezeka Owona Mtima

Mwinamwake mwamva za buku la Dale Carnegie, "Mmene Mungapambanire Anzanu ndi Kukopa Anthu," koma kodi mwawerenga? Mwinamwake ayi (ngakhale anthu ambiri ali). Ngati mwawerenga, kodi mwagwiritsa ntchito mfundo zomwe zili m'bukuli kuntchito? Ngakhale kuti ubwenzi sikofunikira ku ofesiyi , ndithudi ndi malo abwino ogwirira ntchito pamene aliyense akugwirizana.

Nazi zitatu mwa mfundo za Carnegie zokhudzana ndi momwe mungapambitsire mabwenzi ndikusonkhezera anthu kusinthidwa kuntchito.

Gwiritsani ntchito malingalirowa kotero kuti mutha kudziwa momwe mungapambitsire mabwenzi ndi kukopa anthu kuntchito.

Khalani Ndi Chidwi Kweniyeni kwa Anthu Ena

Madzi otenthawa amathandiza kuti musamangoganizira ngati nthawi zonse mumaziganizira. "Ndinachita izi," kapena "Apa pali zomwe ndikuganiza za izo," nthawi zambiri anthu amalankhula. Anthu amakonda kukamba za iwo okha.

Koma, ngati mungasinthe chidwi chimenecho ndikukhala ndi chidwi chenicheni ndi anthu ena, mudzakhala anthu omwe mukufuna kukhala nawo, ndipo mutha kukakamiza anthu pa zinthu zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri.

Kumbukirani, mukudziwa kale zonse zomwe zikukukhudzani, choncho musataye nthawi yanu ndikuyankhula za inu ndi malingaliro anu. Ngakhale sikuli koyenera kuti mukhale ndiokha muofesi (makamaka anthu omwe mwawalembera / mphamvu / moto / kuwunika), ndi bwino kudziwa za zofuna zawo ndikugwiritsira ntchito chidziwitso kuti mumange maubwenzi.

Mwachitsanzo, "Hey, Karen, ndinaona kuti a Dodgers adagonjetsa usiku watha. Muyenera kusangalala! "Awa ndi mawu osavuta. Sizithunthu, ndipo sizowonongeka. Koma imamuuza Karen kuti mumamukonda kwambiri kuti mudziwe zomwe gulu lake limakonda komanso ndizofunika kuti muzimvetsera masewera a usiku watha.

Muyenera kudziwa momwe anthu alili pabanja , ndi ana angati, komanso zaumoyo. Ayi, simukufunikira kukumba bizinesi yawo, koma kupereka wogwira ntchito kapena wogwira naye ntchito mphatso yaying'ono komanso yotsika mtengo kwa tsiku loyamba la kubadwa kwa mwanayo imamuika iye pa mwezi ndi kulingalira kwake.

Pamene John akukuuzani kuti akugwedezeka chifukwa akuyenera kusuntha agogo ake ku nyumba yosungirako okalamba, ndikufunsa momwe agogo ake alili miyezi yowerengeka angasonyeze kuti mumasamala.

Ngakhale zonse zomwe zili pamwambazi ndi zofunika kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino , muyenera kuikapo ntchito zina zokhudzana ndi ntchito. Inde, mumatsata ntchito zomwe mumapatsa ena kapena anthu amene akufunikira kukupatsani zopereka, koma ngati mukufuna kumanga maubwenzi, muyenera kupita patsogolo.

Pakati pa mndandanda womwewo, funsani mafunso okhudza momwe zinthu zimapitilira ena, koma mu "chidwi", osati "ndikukuuzani zomwe mungachite". Nazi zitsanzo zingapo za zabwino ndi zosonyeza chidwi.

Zitsanzo Zabwino Zowonetsera Chidwi

• Ndinawona kuti munapatsidwa ntchito ya Jones. Zikomo, iwe udzachita ntchito yodabwitsa. Zikuyenda bwanji?
• Eya, kodi mwasankha wogulitsa komabe ntchito ya Jones? Ndinawonanso mafotokozedwe ndikudabwa kuti ndiwe uti womwe umaganiza kuti ndi woyenera kwambiri chifukwa ndikufunikira zofanana ndi chaka chino .

Zitsanzo Zoipa Zowonetsera Chidwi

• Kodi muli ndi chilichonse cholamulidwa pa polojekiti ya Jone?
• Kodi wogulitsa wanu ndi ndani pa ntchito ya Jones?

Mu zitsanzo zabwino, mukusonyeza kuti mukuganiza kuti mnzanuyo ndi wogwira ntchito. Kachiwiri, mumamva ngati mukuyesera kukhala bwana ndikuganiza kuti akutha kugwira ntchitoyi.

Nthawi zonse muwayamikire anthu pa ntchito zomwe mwachita bwino, ndipo perekani thandizo ndi chifundo pamene kuli koyenera . Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kutenga ndi kugwira ntchito yambiri-ntchito yanu akadali ntchito yanu ndipo ntchito zawo akadali ntchito zawo-koma mukufuna kuti anthu adziwe kuti mulipo.

Mulole Munthu Wina Aganize Kuti Cholinga Chake Ndi Chake Kapena Chake

Izi zingawoneke kuti sizikugwirizana ndi kupita patsogolo kuntchito, koma ndizofunikira kwambiri kuti mupambane. Ngati mukufuna kuti malingaliro anu athandizidwe, njira yabwino yochitira zimenezi ndi kukhala ndi akuluakulu akuganiza kuti akuganiza .

Koma ndi phindu lanji kuti anzanu kapena kuwongolera malipoti aganizire kuti akuganiza bwino? Kumbukirani, izi ndi zokhudza kupanga mabwenzi ndi kukopa anthu kuntchito. Mukufuna kuti iwo azisangalala ndi iwo okha , ndipo palibe njira yabwino kuposa kuwayamikirira ndi malingaliro odabwitsa.

Zimapambana ponseponse-mumapindula zonse zomwe mumafuna kuchita (ndikukakamiza) pamene wina aliyense amakukondani (kupambana anzanu).

Njirayi ingakhale yovuta, ndipo simunganene kuti, " Jane anaganiza choncho. " Koma, ngati muli pamsonkhano, mukakambirana za polojekiti, mukhoza kuyambitsa zokambiranazo kuti mupereke ngongole. Pano pali kukambirana kwachitsanzo.

Bwana: Tikulimbana ndi vuto lothandiza gulu la zachuma kuti tipeze zolingalira zoyenera tisanatengere ziwerengero zathu zapadera za chaka chamawa.

Inu: Kugwira ntchito ndi ndalama ndizovuta. Monga momwe mudali kunena dzulo, Kevin ndiye munthu wofunikira kuti ayankhule naye pano. Tiyenera kupitiriza kukonza msonkhano ndi Kevin. Ngati titha kumulandira, ndizotheka kuti gulu lonse lizigwira ntchitoyi.

Tsopano, pempho lanu lisakhale lokonzekera kwathunthu. Bwana wanu mosakayikira adatchula Kevin kale, ndipo mukupita nawo kumtsinje wotsatira. Bwana adzamveketsa ngati atanena kuti ayi ku lingaliro la Kevin popeza iye ndiye yemwe adanena kuti ndiye chinsinsi cha kupambana kumeneku.

Chotsatira chake ndi chakuti, mutenga malingaliro anu, bwana wanu amamva bwino, ndipo ndalama zimapeza nambala yolondola kwa inu panthawi.

Yambani Ndi Kutamanda ndi Kuwona Mtima Kuyamikira

Iyi si sandwich yowonjezera . Ngati simukuyamikira ntchito zomwe ena achita, mudzapeza kuti ndizolakwika komanso zowonongeka. Kutamandidwa kwachinyengo kumakhala kovulaza kwambiri kuposa kutamandidwa.

Choncho, muyenera kusintha ubongo wanu kuti muyambe kuyamikira ntchito imene anthu ena amachita. Ngati mukuganiza za izi, mukhoza kulemba mndandanda wa zinthu zambiri zomwe anthu amachita zomwe zimapangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wosavuta. Mwachitsanzo, munthu yemwe ayambitsa mphika wa khofi musanalowe, woyang'anira yemwe amatsatira kalendala yanu molunjika, ndipo munthu amene amasunga mndandanda wa makasitomala onse amachita ntchito zomwe zimapangitsa ntchito yanu kukhala yosavuta kuposa momwe zingakhalire.

Momwemonso ndi woyang'anira malo amene amatsuka ndi kusungiramo mabafa, ophika mu kampani yodyera, komanso dipatimenti ya malipiro yomwe imakulimbikitsani kuti mulipire nthawi ndi malipiro ake.

Anthu ambiri samaima ndi kuganizira za anthu awo, ndipo motero samawayamikira. Koma, mukangoganizira za izo, mukhoza kusonyeza kuti mumawayamikira . Choncho, yambani kunena "zikomo" kwa woyang'anira nthawi zonse mukamuwona. Gwiritsani ntchito dzina lake. Ngati simukudziwa, funsani nokha kuti, "Eya, ndine Jane. Ndikukuwonani nthawi zonse, ndipo ndikuwopa kuti sindikudziwa dzina lanu. "

Osadandaula ngati munthu yemweyo wayeretsa ofesi kwa zaka zitatu ndipo simunafunsepo. Ino ndiyo nthawi yoti muchitepo.

Palinso mfundo zina 27 m'buku la Carnegie, "Mmene Mungapambitsire Anzanu ndi Kukopa Anthu," koma ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zitatu zidzakupatsani kampeni yomwe mukufuna kuti moyo wanu uzigwira bwino ntchito.