Malangizo Awa Adzakuthandizani Kupanga Ubale Wofunika Kwambiri Kuli bwino
Mabwana ambiri omwe amagwiritsa ntchito micromanaging si anthu oipa, omwe ali osankhidwa osayenera. Mungagwiritse ntchito malangizowo asanu kuti mukulitsa ubale wanu ndi abwana anu.
Ganizirani ngati kukonzekera nthawi zonse kuli kofunikira.
Ngakhale kuti mukuwongolera nthawi zonse ndikuwongolera mopweteketsa zingatheke kukhala zopusa, nthawi zina mumazifuna. Kodi bwana wanu nthawi zonse amakufunsani zomwe mukuchita chifukwa nthawi zambiri mumagwiritsa ntchito makalata anu ocheza nawo ? Kodi iye akukupemphani kuti mufotokoze zolinga zanu za tsikulo, chifukwa muli ndi chizoloŵezi chocheza ndi ogwira nawo ntchito kuposa momwe muyenera?
Choonadi chowona mtima ndi antchito ena amafunika kuyang'aniridwa mwamphamvu chifukwa samakhala pa ntchito, samachita ntchito yabwino, ndipo samachita momwe angaperekere ndalamazo. Ngati bwana wanu ali ndi inu nthawi zonse, yesani ntchito zathu zomwe mukuchita ndikuwona ngati mukufuna kusintha zina. Ngati simukusowa nthawi yamtunduwu kapena mukuiwala kuyankha maimelo, bwana wanu ali ndi zolinga zabwino.
Tchulani chomwe chili chofunikira kwa bwana wanu.
Kawirikawiri, micromanager imaganizira zinthu zomwe simukuganiza kuti n'zofunikira - ndipo, zenizeni, sizingakhale zofunikira.
Bwana angatsutse kukula kwa mizere pa tsamba lanu, kapena mukufuna kuti mupange zofunikira zanu ku ofesi yanu.
Zinthu izi ndizosafunikira kwenikweni kwa inu, koma ziri zofunika kwambiri kwa bwana wanu. Mungathe kulimbana ndi zinthu izi ndikukhalabe osasangalala, kapena mungathe kunena, "Mukudziwa chiyani?
Ziribe kanthu momwe tebulo ili limapangidwira, kotero ndichita basi momwe abwana akufuna. "
Zingakhale zoipa, koma muzinthu zomwe zilibe kanthu, mumatsutsa kwa bwana. Mabwana ena ali ndi quirks ovuta, ndipo mwamsanga mungathe kuzilingalira, moyo wanu udzakhala wosalira zambiri. Mwina munganyansidwe kuchita izi-pambuyo pa zonse, zimachokera pa umunthu wanu, koma zenizeni ndiye kuti munapatsidwa ntchito kuti muzitha kugwira ntchito, osati kukhala nokha.
Tsopano, chifukwa cha zinthu zofunika kwambiri, kukankhira kumbuyo kumakhala kwanzeru, koma pa zinthu zazing'ono, ingopereka.
Musangopempha "chomwe" koma "momwe."
Nthawi zambiri Micromanagers amasamala za momwe zinthu zimachitikira, osati zokhazokha. Pulumutseni kupweteka kwa ngalawa pofunsa "momwe" pachiyambi cha polojekitiyo. Zingakhale zomveka bwino kwa inu kuti njira yoyenera ndi A, B, C, ndi D, koma ngati mufunsa micromanager yanu, angayankhe kuti, "A, C, D, B."
Tsopano, ndithudi, muyenera kupewera mmbuyo (mofatsa) ngati ndi zopusa, koma ngati ziri zosiyana ndi zomwe mungachite, pitirizani kuchita zomwezo. Mutatsimikizira kuti mukupambana, mukhoza kuyesa njira imodzi pamwambapa kuti mufunse ngati mungathe kusamalira nokha. Funsani ufulu wochulukirapo.
Nthawi zina ma makina oyendetsa magetsi amayang'anila ntchito mwakhama chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti ngati asiya kutsogolera zonse zomwe mumachita, muleka kuntchito.
Kaŵirikaŵiri amatsimikizira izi chifukwa antchito amalefuka kwambiri pamene akugwira ntchito pansi pawo, kuti amangosiya ndikukhala pomwe palibe wina akupereka malangizo ndi sitepe.
Otsogolera angakhale otsimikiza ngati mungathe kusonyeza luso, choncho funsani.
Yambani ndi zina monga izi: "Jane, ndimayamikira kwambiri malangizo omwe mwandipatsa kuyambira nditayamba, koma ndikuganiza kuti ndine wokonzeka kukhala ndi udindo wambiri. Mmalo mokomana nanu tsiku ndi tsiku kuti mukambirane ntchito yanga, kodi tingakhale nawo msonkhano wa mlungu uliwonse? Ngati ndikumana ndi mavuto, ndikubwera kwa inu nthawi yomweyo, koma ndikuganiza kuti ndine wokonzeka kuwuluka ndekha. "
Zindikirani kuti simuli kungonena kuti, "Chokani kumbuyo kwanga, iwe umangokhala wopusa!" Mukuyamika bwana wanu kukupatsani malangizo, zomwe zimapangitsa bwana wanu kuganiza kuti ndizo luso lake lokonzekera bwino lomwe lakufikitsani mpaka pano.
Inde, izi zikuyamwa. Inde, zimagwira ntchito.
Ngati bwana wanu avomereza, muyenera kugwira ntchito mwakhama kuposa momwe munagwirira kale ntchito pamoyo wanu. Musasokoneze; mumangopeza mwayi umodzi. Samalani kwambiri kuzing'ono zovuta zomwe abwana anu akuganiza kuti ndi zofunika.
Khalani owona mtima.
Nthaŵi zina bwana wanu wa micromanaging sakudziwa kuti akunyalanyaza. Izi ndizochitika makamaka kwa mameneja atsopano omwe sakhala omasuka pa udindo woyang'anira. Chinthu chimodzi chomwe mtsogoleri watsopano amadziwa kuti akuyenera kuchita ndi kuwauza antchito zomwe ayenera kuchita ndikutsatirani nawo. Bwana woteroyo akhoza kukhala wosakayika bwino. Choncho lankhulani!
"Jane, ine ndine wogwira ntchito wodziimira yekha. Mwachitsanzo, ndinapambana [polojekiti A] ndipo [ntchito yopambana B] ndinkakhala ndekha. Ndicho chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu zomwe ndinalimbikitsidwira ku gawo ili.
"Ndikuyamba kumangokhalira kumva ngati ndikuyenera kukukopani pa maimelo anga onse ndikukupatseni maulendo atsopano. Ndimagwira bwino kwambiri ndikakhala ndi ufulu."
Bwana wanu akhoza kunena, "O, chabwino. Zikomo kuti mundidziwitse. "Musamangoganizira zofuna zanu kuti musamawonongeke , koma m'malo mwake," ichi ndi chosowa chomwe ndili nacho. "Mabwana amakonda kuchita zomwe zingabweretse zabwino kwambiri. Zotsatira ndi malo awa ndizosiyana.
Zonsezi, musataye mtima mukakumana ndi micromanager. Yesani zochepa zazingaliro izi, yesani mwakhama, ndipo muwone ngati simungathetsere vuto lanu nokha.