Kukula kwa Makhalidwe Okhwima mu Fiction

Mkhalidwe wamphamvu, kapena wozungulira, ndi khalidwe lalikulu mu ntchito yachinyengo yomwe imakumana ndi mkangano ndipo imasinthidwa ndi izo. Olemba amphamvu amatha kukhala okonzeka bwino ndi ofotokozedwa kuposa otchulidwapo, kapena otchulidwa. Ngati mukuganiza za anthu omwe mumawakonda kwambiri m'nthano, mwina amawoneka ngati enieni kwa inu monga anthu omwe mumadziwira. Izi ndi zizindikiro zodabwitsa; izi nthawi zina zimatchedwanso kuti akuya kwambiri.

Zambiri mwazinthu zamatsenga zimasonyeza umunthu, zomwe zimachititsa kuti khalidweli likhale lolimba. Izi zimaphatikizapo kufotokoza za khalidwe, chiyankhulo cha chikhalidwe cha munthu, zomwe zimayankhidwa ndi m "mene zimayambitsa mikangano yomwe imabwera mumalingaliro ndi malingaliro ake.

Kupanga Makhalidwe Amphamvu Kupyolera Mumtendere Wathu

Imodzi mwa njira zosavuta kupanga anthu kukhala okhwima ndi yakuti iwo akhale ndi malingaliro otsutsana kapena dziko lawo la pansi ndi dziko lawo la kunja kuti likhale losiyana, lomwe limapereka mkangano ndi mkangano. Ganizilani zomwe munthu akunena motsutsana ndi zomwe amalingalira ndikuwonetseratu kusiyana kwa nthano zanu.

• Kodi amasankha kuti adziwe za iwo eni?
• Kodi amajambula bwanji malonda awo akunja?
• Kodi ndizowonekera poyera momwe zimadziwira kapena zimakhala zobisika - zowononga komanso zowonongeka pobisa moyo wawo wamkati ndikuwonetsera nokha?
• Kodi amagona kangati?
• Ndipo amatsutsa bwanji khalidwe lawo?
• Kodi iwo amatha kukhala pachibwenzi, ndipo ngati ndi choncho, chiyanjano chomwecho chikuwoneka bwanji kwa iwo?

• Kodi amachitira bwanji anthu omwe amamukonda?
• Kodi amasonyeza bwanji mkwiyo ndi chimwemwe? Kodi amasonyeza bwanji kufooka?

Mayankho a mafunso awa amakuthandizani kuti mujambula khalidwe lozungulira.

Makhalidwe Osoweka

Njira inanso yosonyezera zovuta za khalidwe ndi zolakwa zawo. Chilakolako sichikutanthauza chipsera chachikulu pa nkhope ya munthu; ndi chabe bulangeti yotanthauza chinthu china chosiyana ndi chiwonetsero.

Chitsanzo chosavuta ndi khalidwe lomwe ndi mayi amene amamva kuti sangakwanitse, yemwe si amayi apamwamba, omwe sadziwa nthawi zonse zoyenera kuchita kapena kunena monga kholo. Kawirikawiri kutenga makhalidwe awiri kapena atatu (kuwoneka) osagwirizana ndi makhalidwe ndi kuwayika pamodzi akhoza kugwira ntchitoyi. Mukhoza kulemba makhalidwe angapo pamapepala ndikutenga awiri kapena atatu mwachisawawa. Kenaka lembani za khalidwe lomwe limasonyeza makhalidwe amenewo.

Kuuziridwa Kwaumwini

Njira inanso yoganizira za anthu olemba zamakono ndikudziyang'anitsitsa nokha ndi iwo akuzungulira. Lembani zomwe mumazikonda ndi zomwe simukuzikonda, zilakolako zanu ndi zokondweretsa zanu. Yang'anani zozizwitsa zanu ndi zizolowezi zanu. Khalani owona mtima pa zinthu zomwe zimakuvutitsani. Kodi chinsinsi chanu chachikulu ndi chiyani? Kodi chikhalidwe chanu ndi chiyani? Mwinamwake mudzawona kuti mayankho anu sakugwirizana nawo.

Ngati ndizovuta kwambiri kudziyesa nokha, ganizirani za munthu yemwe mumamudziwa bwino ndipo yesetsani kufotokoza mbali izi za umunthu wawo. Aliyense ndi wovuta kwambiri komanso wodzaza nkhani (zabwino ndi zoipa). Kuti mulembe kuti muwonetsere zenizeni zenizeni, zifaniziro zowonetsera ziyenera kusonyeza izi. Kupanga malemba odalirika kumatenga nthawi ndi kulingalira.