Kulankhulana koona bwino komwe kungalembedwe bwino kungapangitse nkhani ndi mnofu waumunthu panthawi yopuma poyera. Kulemba zokambirana zenizeni sizibwera mosavuta kwa aliyense, komabe, ndi zinthu zochepa zomwe zimakoka wowerenga kuchokera m'nkhani mofulumira kusiyana ndi zokambirana zoipa.
Zimatengera nthawi kuti mukhale ndi khutu labwino kuti mukambirane, koma kutsatira malamulo osavuta ndi kupewa zovuta zina zooneka bwino zingapangitse kusiyana kwakukulu.
01 Mvetserani momwe anthu amalankhulira
02 Musayese kukhala 100 peresenti
Anthu amalankhula poyimitsa ndikuyamba, ndipo amasiya ndi mawu opanda pake monga "um" ndi "er." Kawirikawiri amalankhulana. Momwe mukuyesera kutsanzira ndondomeko yolankhulana, chiyankhulo chikufunikiranso kuwerenga. Alfred Hitchcock adati nkhani yabwino ndi "moyo, ndi mbali zowonongeka zomwe zatengedwa." Izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito pazokambirana. Kulemba kwazokambirana kungakhale kotopetsa komanso kosokoneza, choncho perekani owerenga okha zomwe zikufunika. Sinthani mawu odzaza ndi ndemanga yosafunika imene siimapanga chiwembu mwanjira ina.
03 Musapereke zambiri zochuluka kamodzi
Siziyenera kukhala zomveka kwa owerenga kuti akudyetsedwa. Lolani nkhaniyi iwonetsere mwachibadwa. Owerenga angakhale odalirika kuti azikumbukira zambiri kuchokera kumayambiriro kwa nkhaniyo, kotero kuti musamafulumize kuwauza zonse kutsogolo. Anthu omwe amadziwana amachoka kwambiri, choncho kufotokozera kumakhalabe kofunikira kuti ugawane mfundo zina zofunika.
04 Yambani kukambirana ndi zochita
Akumbutseni owerenga kuti malemba anu ndi anthu enieni mwa kukhazikitsa zokambirana zawo padziko lapansi. Mfundo zoterezi zimathandizanso kuthana ndi mawu omwe ali patsamba. Kukambirana kwa nthawi yaitali ndi kosavuta kwa owerenga pamene akusweka ndi ndondomeko . (Ndipo mosiyana, chifukwa cha nkhaniyi.)
05 Musapitirize kuwonjezera ma tags
Kuwombera mopitirira malire "iye anati /" akunena zokhazokha pazilembozo-ndipo mukufuna kuti owerenga aganizire pa zokambirana zanu zogwira mtima, osati kuti mutha kuganiza mofanana ndi "zanenedwa". Komanso, khulupirirani owerenga kuti athe kutsata zokambirana popanda chiganizo pambuyo pa liwu lililonse ngati liri gawo la mmbuyo-ndi-pakati pakati pa zilembo.
06 Zochitika, zonyansa, ndi slang
Onetsetsani kuti mukubwerera kumbuyo, ndikugwiritsa ntchito mwano komanso slang mochepa. Zonsezi zimawopsya kapena kusokoneza owerenga anu. Chirichonse chimene chimatenga owerenga kuchokera mu dziko lamatsenga omwe mukugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti muyambe si mnzanu. Werengani zitsanzo za momwe mungakwaniritsire mauthenga omwe mumawafuna opanda zochitika, zonyansa, ndi slang.
07 Werengani zambiri
Samalirani chifukwa chake zinthu zimagwira ntchito kapena sizigwira ntchito. Tawonani zitsanzo za pamene mukuchotsedwa pachithunzi ndikuyesera kuti mudziwe chifukwa chiyani? Kodi unasiya kuti kukhulupirira chikhalidwe? Kapena kodi khalidweli linalumphira liti pa tsambali, ndipo kodi zokambirana zinathandiza bwanji kukwaniritsa zimenezo? Kachiwiri, zindikirani pamene izi zichitika ndikuyesera kuzindikira zomwe wolembayo akuchita kuti akwaniritse izi. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ayambe kuwerenga monga wolemba .
08 Pambitsani zokambirana moyenera
Malamulo olembera zokambirana akhoza kusokoneza. Olemba ambiri amafuna kuthandizidwa kuti awathandize pomwepo. Tengani nthawi kuti muphunzire zofunikira. Owerenga ayenera kutayika mu chiwonetsero chanu-osadzimva atayika poyesa kutsata zokambirana zanu.