Kuchita ndi Ubale Wachikondi Kuntchito

Kodi chikondi chimakhudza chiyani ndi icho? Zambiri, ndithudi. Pofufuza kafukufuku wamakono pazomwe amagwira ntchito pantchito kuti ayankhe funso la mwambi wa Tina Turner, yankho ndilo, zimadalira. Ngati zili zokhudzana ndi kugonana-chigwirizano, chibwenzi chokhalitsa kapena chibwenzi cholowetsedwa ndi cholinga chosunthira ntchito-antchito anzawo ndi makampani amayamba kukondana ndi maubwenzi achikondi kuntchito. Koma ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi wake ali ndi vuto lalikulu loti azikhala pachibwenzi komanso kuti akhale ndi chibwenzi, malingaliro otchuka ndi abwino kwambiri.

Momwe Ogwira Ntchito Amachitira

Amy Nicole Salvaggio, pulofesa wothandizira wa sayansi yapamwamba ku yunivesite ya Tulsa, anafufuza antchito a nthawi pafupifupi 200 m'malo osiyanasiyana ogwira ntchito. Zomwe anapeza zikusonyeza kuti ambiri omwe afunsidwa sakuzindikira kuti chikondi chimakula pakati pa anthu awiri osakwatirana.

Iwo amatsutsana ndi maubwenzi omwe mmodzi kapena onse ogwira nawo ntchito akwatirana ndi wina, komabe amakana pamene mgwirizano uli pakati pa woyang'anira ndi lipoti lake lolunjika.

Andrea C. Poe, wolemba mabuku wa HR, anapezanso pepala loyera la Society for Human Resource Management kuti zigololo zinali zovuta m'malo ena ogwira ntchito. Kuchokera ku deta yosonkhanitsidwa kuchokera ku kafukufuku wa Vault.com kwa antchito zikwi zingapo ndi ogwira ntchito, iye adatsimikiza kuti khalidwe labwino la kugonana kuntchito ndilofala pa nthawi ya kampani ndi malo a kampani.

Malingaliro a Chikhalidwe Chakugwira Ntchito

Poganizira kuchuluka kwa nthawi imene anthu ambiri amagwira ntchito, kodi angapeze kuti banja lina?

Malo amtundu ngati tchalitchi, zochitika za banja, ndi nthawi yopuma sakhala ndi dziwe lomwelo la omwe akufuna monga momwe anachitira kale.

Malo ogwira ntchito amapereka dziwe losankhidwa la anthu omwe amagawana gawo limodzi lofunika kwambiri. Anthu omwe amagwira ntchito limodzi amakhalanso ndi moyo wokhala pachibwenzi, ndipo amawonana tsiku ndi tsiku.

Kodi chikondi chiyenera kukhumudwa?

Kumayambiriro kafukufuku wa SHRM, 43 peresenti ya antchito a HR adanena kuti adakumana ndi maofesi a ofesi kuntchito kwawo. Mu mafukufuku ena, 55 peresenti ya akatswiri a HR omwe anayankha kuti ukwati ndiwopambana kwambiri kuntchito yomwe amakumana nawo. Kafukufuku wina wasonyeza kuchuluka kwa zokolola kuchokera kwa apabanja ogwirira ntchito.

Ndipo komabe, kafukufuku wa ma CRRM wa malo ogwira ntchito akupezeka mu 2013 kuti 42 peresenti ya makampani adakhazikitsa lamulo lachikondi, lolembedwa, la ntchito. Malingana ndi Dana Wilkie, mkonzi wa SHRM wa pa intaneti, kufufuza nthawi zonse ndi SHRM kumasonyeza kuti 99 peresenti ya abwana omwe ali ndi malamulo okonda chikondi amasonyeza kuti chikondi chikugwirizana pakati pa oyang'anira ndi ogwira ntchito saloledwa.

Izi ndizochokera pa 80 peresenti mu 2005, ndipo kuyambira 64 peresenti mufukufuku wa SHRM wa 2001 Workplace Romance. Pafupifupi theka la ndondomekoyi-45 peresenti-kuletsa kukondana pakati pa antchito omwe ali osiyana kwambiri. Uku ndikulumpha kwakukulu kuyambira 16 peresenti mu 2005.

Mabungwe ambiri amaletsa maubwenzi apamtima ngakhale kunja kwa maubwenzi oyang'anira. Makhumi atatu ndi atatu mwa mabungwe amaletsa kukangana pakati pa antchito omwe amapereka kwa woyang'anira yemweyo, ndipo 12 peresenti salola ngakhale ogwira ntchito m'maofesi osiyanasiyana kuti azikhala nawo.

Amagulu Omwe Ali pakati pa Otsatsa kapena Amalonda

Kafukufuku wa SHRM adawonanso kuti makampani ena amaletsa kukambirana pakati pa antchito awo ndi makasitomala kapena makasitomala, ndipo 11 peresenti amaletsa kukambirana pakati pa antchito awo ndi antchito awo ochita mpikisano.

HR ndi Management Mavuto

Otsutsa ku kafukufuku wa SHRM omwe anakhumudwitsa kapena kuletsa chibwenzi pa malo ogwira ntchito adalongosola zodetsa nkhaŵa zokhudzana ndi kuzunzidwa kwa kugonana, kubwezera , akunena kuti chiyanjano sichinali chigwirizano, chikwati cha anthu ndi malo ogwira ntchito ngati chibwenzi chiyenera kutha.

Malinga ndi kuzindikira kwa anthu okwatiranawo, miseche kuntchito ikhoza kufalikira ndi kusokoneza. Amakhalanso odandaula za kutayika antchito ofunikira omwe angafune ntchito kwina kulikonse ngati chibwenzi chikutha.

Malangizo kwa akatswiri a HR

Kafukufuku wina wa SHRM adapeza kuti 12 peresenti ya mabungwe omwe anafunsidwa amapereka maphunziro kwa abwanamkubwa ndi oyang'anitsitsa za momwe angayendetsere kukondana kwawo.

Chinthu chabwino choyamba chiyenera kukhala kuwalangiza oyang'anira ndi maofesala momwe angagwiritsire ntchito mosamala khalidwe lachiwerewere kuntchito.

Nthawi zambiri maubwenzi aofesi amayang'ana kwambiri miseche , kotero oyang'anira amafunika kudziwa momwe angamvere makutu awo kuti awononge khalidwe lawo lovulaza. Oyang'anitsitsa ayenera kumvetsetsa zoyenera kuchita ngati chikondi chimasokoneza komanso chimasokoneza malo ogwira ntchito. Ngati chikondi chimakhala chizunzo , oyang'anira ayenera kudziwa zomwe angachite kuti atengepo kanthu mwamsanga-izi zikhoza kukhala chikhomo chalamulo, choncho maphunziro ayenera kukhala ofunikira ndikuphimba maziko onse.

Onetsetsani kuti antchito anu amadziwa malamulo onse ndi ndondomeko zokhudzana ndi malo ogwirira ntchito. Lamulo loletsa chibwenzi, kugonana, ndi kukonda kwathunthu sikunakonzedwe. Ndondomeko iliyonse yomwe imawoneka ngati yopanda pake, yowonjezereka kapena yowonongeka ingangolimbikitsa chibwenzi chokwanira.

Ndondomeko zapangidwa kuti zitsogolere antchito pakupanga malo ogwirira ntchito, ovomerezeka, ogwirizana, osayendetsa khalidwe loipa la ochepa. Mungaganizire ndondomeko yomwe imaletsa oyang'anira kuti asamacheze ndi wantchito aliyense yemwe amamuuza mwachindunji kwa iye. Ndondomekoyi inganenenso kuti mukuyembekeza antchito kuti azichita mwanzeru mukakhala pachibwenzi.

Aloleni antchito anu adziŵe kuti mukuyembekeza chikondi, maubwenzi kapena zinthu zidzakhala zosiyana ndi malo ogwirira ntchito. Bungwe lanu silidzalekerera kugonana ndi khalidwe la kugonana kuntchito. Fotokozerani zotsatira ngati chikondi chimakhala ndi zotsatira pantchito.

Ngati Muli Pamalo Ogwira Ntchito Pamodzi

Mosasamala kanthu kuti bwana wanu ali ndi malingaliro a chikondi pa malo ogwirira ntchito, mukufuna kusunga ubale wanu kuntchito ya radar monga momwe mungathere. Ngati inu ndi mnzanuyo mukumacheza nthawi zonse, sungani katswiri wothandizira. Ndi khalidwe losavomerezeka lomwe limayambitsa mavuto.

Peŵani kuyankhula pambali kumakona kapena kumbuyo zitseko zitsekedwa, kudya chakudya chamadzulo pamodzi popanda ogwira nawo ntchito, ndi-pamwamba pa zonse zogwira. Lembani chiwerengero cha ogwira nawo ntchito omwe mumagawana nawo zachinsinsi izi.

Dziwani ngati mukufunika kuti muwonetsere kuti muli ndi HIV pachibwenzi. Musamasowetse antchito anu a HR. Angathe kukuthandizani ndi kuyankhula miseche komanso kumvetsetsa zomwe zikuyembekezeka komanso zoyenera kuntchito kwanu. Apatseni mwayi woti awathandize.