Kuchita ndi zinthu zothandiza pamene mubwerera kuntchito
Kaya mumabwerera kuntchito pamene mwana wanu akuyamba sukulu ya sukulu, sukulu yasukulu, kapena koleji, mudzakhala ndi zisankho zambiri zomwe mungachite panthawiyo. Kodi mungagwire ntchito nthawi zonse kapena nthawi imodzi?
Ndani angasamalire ana atapita kusukulu, pa maholide a sukulu, masiku a theka, kapena ngati akudwala? Ngati mwana wanu akudwala kapena kuvulaza kusukulu yemwe angamunyamule? Kodi mungabwerere kuntchito yomwe mwasiya X nambala zapitazo? Ngati sichoncho, kodi mungasankhe ntchito yotani? Kodi mukufuna kapena muyenera kubwerera ku sukulu?
Momwe mungaganizire za mafunso akuluakulu
Izi ndi mafunso aakulu ndi mayankho omwe amafunika kulingalira mozama ndi mosamala. Kaya mwasankha kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse kapena nthawi yapadera ndi chisankho chanu, chofanana ndi chomwe munapanga chokhala kunyumba. Inu ndi banja lanu muyenera kupanga chisankho mogwirizana ndi zosowa za aliyense wogwira ntchito. Mungasankhe kuti kugwira ntchito pa nthawi ya sukulu kapena pamene wokondedwa wanu alipo ndiye kusankha kwanu bwino. Mungasankhe kulumphira ndikugwira ntchito nthawi zonse. Ndiye muyenera kuganizira za kusamalira ana kusukulu. Mukhoza kulandira wogwira ntchito payekha kapena kulembetsa mwana wanu pulogalamu ya kusamalira ana kusukulu.
Kotero tsopano kuti masiku a sukulu nthawi zonse amasamalidwa, muyenera kudziwa zomwe mudzachite pa maholide a sukulu ndi masiku a theka. Inde, mungathe kusamalira masiku amenewo pazomwe zilili, koma sikungakhale bwino kuti mudziwe zomwe mudzachite pasadakhale. Mungathe kukonza ndondomeko yanu ya ntchito panthawi ya mwana wanu.
Mwinamwake muli ndi masiku anu omwe mungagwiritse ntchito kapena mwinamwake mungagwiritse ntchito masiku a tchuthi ngati abwana anu atsopano alola. Mungathe kukonzekera ndi mnzanu kapena wachibale wanu.
Ngati chirichonse chimachitika monga mwakonzekera inu mutha kukhazikitsidwa. Koma kodi zimenezi zimachitika kangati? Ana amadwala nthawi ndi nthawi (zambiri "tsopano" zikuwoneka kuti "ndiye"). Kaya mumadziwa kuti mwana wanu akudwala musanapite kuntchito kapena ngati akudwala kusukulu, muyenera kukonzekera nthawi yomaliza. Mabwana ena akhoza kukhala ogwirizana ndipo amakulolani kuti mutenge nthawi. Olemba ena amakhalanso ndi masiku odwala am'banja omwe amapatsa makolo masiku kuti asamalire mwana wodwala. Olemba ntchito ambiri, mwatsoka, sizinasinthe.
Konzani zosayembekezereka. Mungathe kukonzekera kuti wina athe kupezeka mwana wanu wodwala, zomwe zingaphatikizepo kumunyamula kusukulu. Kapena, ngati simungapeze munthu woti achite izi, konzekerani ndi bwana wanu kuti mutha kuchita nokha. Mwina bwana wanu amakulolani kuti muzigwira ntchito panyumba kapena nthawi iliyonse mumasowa chifukwa cha matenda a mwana wanu.
Mukupita kuti?
Mutatha kuganizira zinthu zonse zothandiza, ndi nthawi yoganizira komwe mukufuna ntchito yanu. Kodi mudzabwerera ku zomwe munkachita kale kapena mutayambanso?
Tiyeni tiwone zomwe zikuchitika motsatira.
Mukasankha kuti ndi nthawi yoyenera kubwerera kuntchito muyenera kusankha ngati mukufuna kubwerera kuntchito yomweyo. Anthu ambiri amachita, pamene ena amaganiza kuti ino ndi nthawi yabwino yopanga ntchito . Kaya mwachotsa zaka zisanu kapena khumi ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri muli mwayi wabwino kuti mwakhala mukusintha m'munda mwanu kuyambira mutagwira ntchito. Kodi mwasintha ndi kusintha kumeneku? Kuwongolera ndi 20/20 pamene akunena, koma mwina zikanakhala bwino kuti mupitirize ndi munda wanu. Ngati inu simunachedwe. Ngati mwasankha kupitiriza ntchito yanu yakale, muyenera kufufuza pang'ono kuti mudziwe zomwe zasintha ndi zomwe mukufunikira kudziwa kuti mupikisane ntchito ndi omwe sanasiye kapena ngakhale omwe akuyamba kumene. Mungasankhe kutenga chaka chimodzi kapena kupitako kukaphunzira.
Mwinamwake simukuganiza kuti ndibwino kuti mupeze nthawi yophunzitsira kuti mupitirize ntchito yanu yakale. Mwinamwake mwapeza zofuna zina panthawi yanu ya hiatus ndipo mukufuna kuyang'ana ntchito ina. Kapena mwinamwake mwayi wanu wopeza ntchito kumunda wanu wakale ndi wochepa chifukwa cha kusintha kwa msika. Zikatero, muyenera kusankha chomwe mungasankhe kuchita.
Mwamwayi, pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuchita zimenezo. Mungathe kukumana ndi akatswiri a ntchito yopititsa patsogolo ntchito yawo omwe adzadzipenda okha zomwe zikuwoneka pazinthu zanu, zofuna zanu, luso lanu, ndi umunthu wanu kuti mudziwe ntchito zomwe mukufuna. Pakati panu mudzaona njira izi ndipo potsirizira pake mudzabwera ndi ntchito yanu yam'tsogolo.
Mukakhala ndi mndandanda wa ntchito zomwe mungathe, mukhoza kuyamba kuzifufuza , pogwiritsa ntchito zofalitsa zosindikizidwa komanso mafunsowo . Kuyankhulana kwachinsinsi kumaphatikizapo kuyankhulana ndi anthu omwe amagwira ntchito m'munda umene mumawakonda.
Pambuyo pake, mutaphunzira zambiri za njira zosiyanasiyana, mungasankhe imodzi. Muyenera kupeza digiri kapena titifiketi, phunzirani maluso atsopano, ndi kusakaniza pa ena achikulire musanalowetse m'munda wanu osankhidwa. Mwapatula nthawi kwa banja lanu, tsopano ndi nthawi yoti muchite nokha. Zabwino zonse.