Gawo Lachiwiri Kuchokera ku Mndandanda wa Ntchito Zogwira Ntchito
Monga kholo latsopano, mukhoza kukhala ndi nkhawa kuti kugwiritsa ntchito chisamaliro cha ana osamalidwa kungawononge kukula kwa mwana wanu. Mungafune kholo limodzi kukhala kunyumba, koma mwina sangathe kulipira kapena kudandaula kuti kutenga nthawi kumakhudza ntchito yanu. Kapena simungafune kupuma pa ntchito yanu.
Palibe chisankho cholakwika kapena cholakwika, koma muyenera kudziŵa kuti ngati mutasankha kukhala pakhomo kapena kholo logwira ntchito, mwana wanu adzakhala bwino.
Mu 1991 National Institute for Health and Human Development (NICHD) inayamba kuphunzira komwe poyamba idatchedwa Phunziro la Early Child Care (SECC). Mutuwo unasinthidwa ku Phunziro la Kuyamwitsa Ana ndi Kukula kwa Achinyamata (SECCYD). Ochita kafukufuku adawona za ubale pakati pa zochitika za ana, zosamalira ana ndi zotsatira za chitukuko cha ana ndipo anapeza kuti ana omwe amasamaliridwa ndi amayi awo sanasinthe mosiyana ndi omwe amasamalidwa ndi ena "(Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of Kusamalira Ana ndi Kutukuka kwaumunthu, NIH, DHHS (2006). Phunziro la NICHD la Kuyamwitsa Ana ndi Kukula kwa Achinyamata (SECCYD): Kupeza Ana kwa zaka 4 1/2 (05-4318) Washington, DC: US Government Printing Office).
Izi ziyenera kuyika nkhawa zanu kuti mupumule.
Kodi mumapeza bwanji chisamaliro cha mwana wabwino?
Kodi mungadziwe bwanji mtundu wa chisamaliro cha ana? Amayi ena omwe amagwira ntchito amayi ndi abambo amamva kuti ana awo adzapindula mwa kuyanjana ndi ana ena ndipo choncho sankhani malo osamalira ana kapena gulu lina. Ena amakonda chidwi chokha chimene mwana amachilandira kuchokera kwa mwana wobisalira yekha kapena wachibwana yemwe amawonera ana a banja lawo okha.
Kusankha pakati pa mitundu ya chisamaliro cha ana ndilo lingaliro loyamba limene muyenera kupanga. Pambuyo pake, muyenera kuyesa munthu wina, kaya ndi munthu kapena malo osamalira ana.
Kusamalitsa banja ndi ntchito
Mosasamala kuti ndi gawo liti lomwe muli nawo mu ntchito yanu, monga amayi kapena abambo omwe mukugwira nawo ntchito, mungayesetse kupeza bwino pakati pa ntchito yanu ndi banja lanu. Amayi nthawi zambiri, koma nthawi zonse, amakhala ndi zovuta kuposa abambo chifukwa amatha kugwira ntchito zambiri zapakhomo. Izi zingachititse kukhumudwa ndi kutopa.
Kugwira ntchito tsiku lonse ndikubwera kunyumba kwa mwana wamng'ono kungakhale kovuta. Mwaika mphamvu zanu zonse kuchita ntchito yanu bwino-kuyankha kwa abwana anu, ogwira ntchito, ogwira ntchito, komanso ntchito za ogwira ntchito. Chinthu chotsiriza chomwe mungamve ngati mukuchita ndikuyankha kwa mwana wanu. Komabe, malingalirowa amangokuchititsani kumva kuti ndinu wolakwa. Kodi mumathetsa bwanji izi? Njira imodzi ndi kudula maola anu ndi kugwira ntchito nthawi yochepa ngati mungathe kulipira. Mungayang'anenso ntchito yapanthawi yomwe ingakuthandizeni kusankha pamene mukufuna kugwira ntchito. Kumbukirani kuti zosankhazi zingathe kuthandizani kuti mupitirize ntchito yanu , kapena simungathe kupeza ndalama pa banja lanu.
Mukhoza kufunsa abwana anu ngati mungathe kugwira ntchito yowonjezera yomwe ingaphatikizepo masiku anayi a maola 10 mmalo mwa masiku asanu ndi asanu ndi atatu kapena nthawi yoyamba ndi yotsiriza yomwe imakulolani kuti mupewe kuthamanga maola ola limodzi. Mukhozanso kudziwa ngati mungathe kugwira ntchito kuchokera kunyumba ngati telefoni masiku angapo pa sabata.