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Pano pali mau 15 omwe muyenera kuganizira nthawi zonse mukugwiritsa ntchito muzokambirana zanu; ndipo ngati mumayang'anitsitsa, mudzapeza kuti atatu mwawo ali pamutu wapamutu wa nkhaniyi.
15: UFULU
Palibe kukayikira kuti mphamvu ya mawuyi ndi yothandiza, koma yayendetsedwa mofulumira kwa zaka zambiri. Pamene chinachake chikumasulidwa, wogula adzakhala pansi ndikuzindikira. Komabe, masiku ano nthawi zambiri amatsatiridwa ndi asterisk yoopsa (*), kapena kuphatikizapo mawu ena (osasokonezeka kapena kuyesedwa kwaulere) omwe amachepetsa tanthawuzo. Komabe, zitsanzo zaulere, kutumiza kwaulere, kubwereza kwaulere, kugula-modzimodzi, ndi zina zotere zimapangitsa mawu awa kukhala wodzitetezera mphamvu pazandandanda.
14: SEX
Monga ngati ufulu, mawu ngati kugonana athandizidwa ndi mawu amtundu uliwonse. Palibe kuchoka ku "SEX!" Tsopano kuti tilangize, tiyeni tiyankhule za inshuwalansi. " Koma anthu ndi zolengedwa zogonana ndikuyankha mawu; Pambuyo pake, pali chifukwa chomwe zithunzi zolaula zimalamulira pa intaneti momwe zimakhalira.
Choncho, mukamagwiritsa ntchito mawuwo, kumbukirani zachindunji ndi nkhani. Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito zosiyana pa mawu, monga achigololo, kapena kugonana, koma nthawi zonse ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe magazini monga Cosmopolitan, Redbook, ndi seventeen amakhala ndi mawu ogonana pachiphimba chakumbuyo. Zimagulitsa.
13: TSOPANO
Kukondweretsa nthawi yomweyo n'kofunika kwa anthu, makamaka m'nthawi ino yachangu, kutumiza kwaulere, ndi maulendo atsopano a mafilimu ndi nyimbo.
Inde, utumiki waukulu wa Amazon tsopano umaphatikizapo mawu omwe ali pamutu. "Ndikufuna tsopano, ndipatseni ine tsopano." Apanso, muyenera kulemba kapena kutsekera ndi mawu monga tsopano. Ngati simungathe kupereka anthu chinachake tsopano, musalonjeze. Inde, pali kusiyana kosiyana, ndipo ndiko kupeza makasitomala kuti achite ZOCHITA. Mawu ali ndi mphamvu, makamaka pamene amalumikizana ndi chilankhulo chomwe chimapanga changu. Mwachitsanzo, "IZI pakali pano ndipo mutenga maulendo aulere komanso katundu wina waulere!"
12: EASY
Osati kokha ogula ngati zinthu mofulumira, amawakonda mosavuta. Pamene Mitch Hedberg adayankha, "Ndikufuna kuwona mankhwala omwe analipo chifukwa cha ndalama zitatu zosavuta komanso malipiro ovuta." Ndizoseketsa chifukwa, zenizeni, palibe-wina akufuna chirichonse chikhale chovuta. Pangani moyo mosavuta kwa wogula, ndipo gwiritsani ntchito mawu kuti muwone. Sizowoneka mosavuta, zimakhala zosavuta kukhala ndi moyo kamodzi mukakhala nazo.
11: BEST
Chinanso chimatsutsana kwambiri ndi mawu omwe amachitira nkhanza pa mndandanda wabwino. Pogwiritsidwa ntchito moyenera, monga "bwino mukalasi" kapena "wopambana ndi SUV yatsopano ya Car & Driver ya 2017" ili ndi mphamvu yeniyeni. Anthu amafunabe zabwino, ndipo ngati angathe kuzilandira pamtengo womwe angakwanitse, ngakhalenso bwino. Amafuna foni yabwino, TV yabwino, jeans yabwino, nsapato zabwino, ndi ulonda wabwino kwambiri.
Komabe, zabwino ndizokhalanso zovomerezeka mu malonda. "Khofi yabwino kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi!" Zoonadi? Anena ndani? Khalani okonzeka kubwezeretsa kugwiritsa ntchito mawu abwino ndi umboni weniweni, kapena wogula adzakunyalanyazani.
10: NEW
Tonsefe timafuna zatsopano, ngakhale siziri zatsopano zenizeni. Tikufuna foni yatsopano yotsatira foni (chifukwa chake mizere ya iPhone yatsopano (onani Miyendo ya Pafoni) imawoneka pambaliyi, ngakhale kuti ili ndi zochepa chabe). Tikufuna magalimoto atsopano, zovala zatsopano, nsapato zatsopano, zokonda zatsopano, fungo latsopano, ndipo tikufunitsitsa kulipira.
9: SUNGANI
Yesani ngati simukufuna kusunga nthawi kapena ndalama. Ndendende. Kusunga ndalama ndi zomwe 99% tikufuna kuchita. Ngakhale olemera kwambiri a olemera amafuna ntchito, iwo amangowatenga iwo pa kugula mtengo kwambiri. Ngati mungathe kulonjeza kupulumutsa munthu wina, mungakhale opusa kuti musatchule izi.
Inde, MMENE mumalankhula za izo ndi zofunika kwambiri monga zomwe mukuzinena. Kodi ndizolakwika, ndipo mudzapeza ngati mulu-wogulitsa-wotsika mtengo-wamalonda, kapena wosakhulupirika. Ndipo nthawi yopulumutsa, chabwino, nthawi ndi ndalama, zomwe zimabweretsa ife kubwerera ku chinachake chimene tonse tikufuna kuchipulumutsa.
8: SAFETY (kapena SAFE)
Tikufuna chitetezo ku katundu wathu. Tikufuna kudziwa kuti ndalama zathu ndi zotetezeka, kapena kuti ana athu akusewera ndi mayesero omwe amakwaniritsa miyezo yabwino kwambiri ya chitetezo. Timafuna chakudya chomwe chayendetsedwa, ndipo tikufuna kusankha bwino zovala ndi nsapato. Tsopano funsoli limakhala momwe tingalankhulire za chitetezo. Nthawi zina, chidzakhala chinthu chimene mwachibadwa chimabwera, monga zinthu za mwana kapena zinthu zomwe zimapangidwira chitetezo. Koma nthawi zina mawu akuti "otetezeka" sangakhale olakwika, chifukwa amachititsa kuti anthu aziona kuti palibe vuto. Mwachitsanzo, "burgers athu ndi otetezeka 100%." Chabwino, bwanji iwo sakanatero? Kodi ntchitoyi ndi yotani? Mukuti chiyani? Kotero, samalani ndi ntchito yake.
7: ZOCHITIKA
Mukakhala ndi chinthu chatsopano, osati chatsopano cha zinthu zomwe zilipo, pali phokoso limene mukufunikira kuti muthetse. Ndizoti "wogula samalani," chifukwa kasitomala akuchita zinthu zosadziwika. Akhoza kudikira kuti aone zomwe ndemanga pazogulitsa kapena ntchito, kapena angathe kufunsa abwenzi ndi achibale. Koma njira imodzi yodutsa apa hump ndiyo kupereka umboni wokha. Mwachitsanzo, kafukufuku wotchuka wa katsitsi kawirikawiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito "anthu 8 pa 10 omwe amagwiritsa ntchito makanda omwe amasonyeza kuti amakonda amphaka awo." Wowonjezera, 8 mwa khumi ayenera kukhala wabwino, zatsimikiziridwa. Ndiyesa. Mukamawonera pa TV mumagwiritsanso ntchito bwino izi, ndi ziwonetsero zamagetsi zomwe zimatsimikizira mfundo. Kotero, musati munene izo, kutsimikizirani izo.
6: CHIKONDI
Ameneyu ali ndi matanthauzo ambiri. Mungathe kukhala "m'chikondi" ndi chinachake (monga nsapato zatsopano) kapena mungathe "kukonda" momwe chinthu chimagwirira ntchito kapena kuchita - "Ndimakonda kuti oyera anga amera." Mwanjira iliyonse, chikondi ndi mawu amphamvu. Inde, muyenera kukhala osamala pogwiritsa ntchito. Ndi chinthu chimodzi choti "uzikonda momwe zimakhalira" poyankhula za mafuta onunkhira. Ndizowonjezera kunena kuti "mukondana ndi chimbudzi chathu." Zoonadi? Palibe yemwe amayamba kukonda ndi woyera wa chimbuzi (kupatula ngati, ndithudi, ndi gawo la ndondomeko ya malirime kwambiri). Kumbukirani, chikondi chimatha kugwira ntchito bwino, koma musachiyikire pazitali kwambiri. Ndiwo mphamvu ya chikondi.
5: SUNGANI
Kodi mwawona ichi pamutu wapamutu? Mwinamwake inu munatero, mwinamwake inu simunatero. Koma ndizofulumira zomwe otsatsa malonda amagwiritsira ntchito kunena, "kuti mutenge chinachake, muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi yopitiriza kuwerenga." Kapena pankhani yodula mankhwala, ndibwino kuyesa. Dziwitsani ndi lonjezo la chinthu china chomwe chikubwera. Monga kutsegula mphatso pa tsiku lanu lobadwa, nthawi zonse zomwe zimapezeka zimabweretsa chisangalalo komanso zosangalatsa. Ndipo nthawi iliyonse imene mumadzudzula, mumakhala wopambana.
4. KUKONZERA
Mawu awa ndi ukonde woteteza. Tangoganizani momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo mudzawona kuti ndi mphamvu. "Ine ndikutsimikizirani kuti ndidzakhala kunyumba 5pm" ndiyo njira yanu yochotsera kukayikira kulikonse. "Ndikukutsimikizirani kuti ndikubwezereni mawa" ndi lonjezo losalephera (ngakhale kuti sizimagwira ntchito nthawi zonse.) Mukulengeza, chitsimikizo ndi lonjezo limene bungwe limagwiritsa ntchito kwa wogula, ndipo likuwoneka ngati lolimba. Chilichonse chimene mungachite, kokha mugwiritse ntchito ngati mungathe kubwezeretsa chitsimikizocho, kapena kuti mukukhulupirirani. Zomwe mumabweza pa ndalama zimakhala zamphamvu kwambiri chifukwa mumachotsa chiopsezo poyesera mankhwala atsopano.Ndipo ngati mukudandaula za kupita, Musakhalepo Mwachidziwikire, ndi anthu ochepa okha omwe amakhumudwa ndi mankhwala omwe angapemphe kuti abwezeretse, ndipo nthawi yomwe imatumizira kutumiza uthengawo ndizovuta kwambiri.
3. UTHU
Izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mochuluka masiku ano, osati pokhapokha poyankhula za thanzi labwino. Mwinanso njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndizo "kukulitsa thanzi lanu lachuma," ndipo limagwira ntchito chifukwa tonse timadziwa thanzi labwino. Ngati mungathe kulonjeza thanzi labwino, khalani ndi chakudya, ntchito kapena zina, mukuchita bwino. Koma kachiwiri, musagwiritse ntchito molakwa mawuwo. KFC inachita izi polonjeza "nkhuku" yawo ya nkhuku yatsopano. Wogula ndi wokhumudwitsa nthawi zina, koma osati nthawi zambiri, osati kutero.
2. ZOCHITA
Mawu ena ogwiritsidwa ntchito pamutu wa chigawo ichi, zotsatira ndi mawu omwe amatanthawuza kupambana. Ndipo mawu awa ndi amphamvu chifukwa ndi lonjezo lomwe limakuthandizani kutsimikizira kugula. "O, chabwino ngati izi zitapindula, ziyenera kukhala zabwino." Ngati "mutsimikizira zotsatira" mwangoyamba kumene. Tonsefe timafuna zotsatira, kaya zimachokera kunyumba, woyang'anira banki kapena Purezidenti wa USA. Ngati apereka, mumakhutira. Ngati iwo sali, chabwino, musayembekezere kusankhidwa.
1. INU
Chiwerengero chimodzi pambuyo pa zaka zonsezi, ndipo ndi chifukwa chabwino, inu ndi mawu amphamvu kwambiri pa malonda pa zifukwa-ndizokha. Tiyeni tiyankhule za inu. Ndiwe wokondweretsa, ndipo umadzipeza wokondweretsa. Tiyeni tikhale owona mtima, pamene zifika kwa inu, ndinu nonse makutu. Ngati ndikulonjeza kuti ndikupangitsa anthu kukhala olemera, mukhoza kukhala ndi chidwi. Ngati ndikulonjeza kuti ndikulemereni, ndizosiyana. Ndiwe mawu omwe ayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito pokambirana ndi makasitomala anu, chifukwa ndi amene mukukulankhula. Ndipo pamene iwe uchita izo, iwe ukukamba za phunziro lomwe munthu amalikonda kwambiri. Ndi amphamvu kwambiri, olemba ambiri (makamaka kuyankha molunjika) sangagwiritse ntchito mutu wanu pokhapokha ngati muli ndi mutu wanu. Sindingapite mpaka pano, koma ndithudi ndi chinachake chimene muyenera kuganizira nthaŵi zonse.