Monga izo kapena ayi, nthawizina njira yokha yogulitsa malonda yomwe imagwira ntchito ndi yovuta. Izi ndi maso ndi maso, mimba kumimba, musasonyeze mantha , mutengere mtundu wogulitsa. Nthawi zambiri zimagwirizanitsidwa (ndipo nthawi zambiri zimagwirizanitsidwa molakwika) ndi akatswiri ogulitsa magalimoto ogwiritsidwa ntchito, kutseka mwakhama sikusangalatsa kapena kusangalatsa. Ngakhale kukhala wokhoza kuyanjana kungakupangitseni kulemekeza kuchokera kwa ogwira nawo ntchito ogulitsa, sikungakuthandizeni kumanga ubwenzi wokhudzana ndi makasitomale.
Kutseka kolimba sikuli kwa aliyense ndipo ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito pokhapokha ngati mulibe luso lina lomaliza kapena palibe ntchito ina.
Zonse Zikamalephera
Pali makasitomala ena kuti mosasamala kanthu kuti mumamanga bwanji malonda anu kapena ntchito yanu, ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe ntchito yanu inadabwidwira poyera, sangathe kupanga chisankho. Ngakhale zikhoza kuwoneka zopweteka, nthawi ikhoza kukhala nthawi yoti mutulutsire Zovuta Kwambiri mu thumba lanu la zogulitsa. Chifukwa chake cholimba choyenera chiyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito pamene zinthu zina sizingatheke kuti kugwiritsira ntchito zolimba ndizo zonse kapena palibe. Ndi mitundu yambiri ya kutseka, ngati kasitomala akuti "ayi," mumakhalabe ndi mwayi kuyesa kutseka malonda nthawi ina. Koma mukamagwiritsa ntchito ntchito yolimba ndipo wogulayo akuti "ayi," mwinamwake mukuchita ndi wogula.
Pano pali chinyengo chofuna kusankha nthawi yoyenera kugwiritsira ntchito zolimba: Gwiritsani ntchito pokhapokha mutasowa kanthu.
Mkhalidwe Wanu Wa Maganizo
Ngati mwadziŵa kuti mulibe kanthu koti mutayikirane ndipo mwakufunsana mwakufunsani ndi wogulitsa wanu wogulitsa kapena wogulitsa bwino, wogulitsa malonda, ndi nthawi yolowa mu "maganizo ovuta". Asanalankhule mawu oyambirira, muyenera kusankha kuti musasiye kutseka mpaka mutapemphedwa kuchoka, chiyembekezo chanu chimawoneka chokwiya kapena mumamva makasitomala asanu.
Ogwira ntchito ambiri ogulitsa malonda komanso osagwira ntchito posunga kumbuyo pambuyo pa "no" woyamba akumva kuchokera kwa makasitomala awo. Chowonadi ndi chakuti malonda ambiri amafuna kuti mutenge 3, "Ayi," ndipo ena ambiri atengepo pang'ono. Ngakhale palibe malamulo a golidi, kuletsa kuyesayesa kwanu kutseka pambuyo pa 5 "No" ndi malamulo abwino a thupi. kukwiyitsa makasitomala komanso kuwapweteketsa mbiri yanu pazithunzithunzi zawo. Yesetsani kukumbukira mawu akuti, "Pitani ku asanu, kenako pitiyeni."
Kodi maitanidwe ena asanakhalepo akukonza mapu anu. Kudalira mwamsanga msanga ndi kuthekera "kuyendetsa" nthawi zambiri sikokwanira kuti mutsirize kukwaniritsa zolimba. Lembani zonse zomwe mungakonde kugula makasitomala omwe mungaganize ndi momwe mungayankhire pazotsutsanazi. Zonse zotsutsa-mayankho ayenera kutha ndi funso lomaliza. Kaya funso lotseka ndilo "kodi tingapite patsogolo tsopano?" kapena "kodi izo ziri zomveka kwa inu ?," ziribe kanthu kwenikweni. Chofunika ndi chiyani kuti muchotse zomwe otsutsawo akutsutsa, mmodzi ndi mmodzi, ndikupitirizabe kukana kutsutsa kapena funso lomaliza lomaliza?
Malingaliro a Otsatsa Anu
Kuphimba kolimba kumabweretsa nkhawa, mantha, mkwiyo, mkwiyo, komanso kukhumudwa kwa zinthu zina zosasangalatsa kwa makasitomala.
Iwo akudziwa kuti mukuyesera kuti muwatseke iwo ndikudziwa kuti iwo sakufuna kugula kuchokera kwa inu kapena sakukhulupirira kuti achite. Mukamayandikira pafupi, makoma awo amatha. Malingana ndi momwe amathetsera mavuto awo, iwo akhoza kukhala akuthwa kapena osokonezeka ndi maganizo awo.
Ngati iwo akukhala oganiza mwamphamvu, muyenera kukhala okhwima ndi owona kuti mwina simungathe kutsegula malondawo. Ngati, ngakhale, kuthekera kwawo kuganiza pa mapazi kumakhala kofooka, muyenera kuyankha mofulumira ndikugwiritsa ntchito yesero kutseka nthawi zonse momwe mungathere. Mfundo yofunikira kukumbukira ndi yakuti nthawi yoyandikana kwambiri, munthu yemwe ali ndi chidaliro chotsimikizika ndi wopambana adzapambana.