Pali malingaliro ochuluka olakwika okhudza akazi omwe amayendetsa mabwalo oyendayenda akuyenda kunja uko. Ndipo pamene phunziro la chiwerewere limakalamba kwa ena a inu, ilo likulinso kukambirana komwe ife tikuyenera kukhala nako. Chifukwa chakuti tonsefe tingakonde kukhulupirira kuti tikungomenya kavalo wakufa ndi zokambirana zazimayi zokhudzana ndi akazi akuyendetsa ndege, ena a ife timakhulupirira kuti ndilo vuto lomwe ndiloyenera kulingalira. Ndipo kuwerenga kwanga kumanditsimikizira kuti ndife kutali ndi mgwirizanowu ngakhale kuti kulipo kwake.
Ndimtima wabwino. Ndikufuna kukhulupirira kuti ndemanga zambiri zomwe zimaonedwa ngati zogonana ndi anthu ambiri sizitanthauza kuti ndizochita zachiwerewere, kapena zopanda pake, ndipo ndikupatsa anthu ambiri phindu lokayikira. Ndipo ndikufuna kuti ndikhulupirire kuti ine ndiri mu dziko louluka ngati mofanana ndi mnyamata wotsatira - kapena mtsikana. Kwa mbali zambiri, ndikuganiza kuti zikuwoneka kuti atsikana masiku ano akhoza kuchita chilichonse chimene akufuna kuchita. Ine ndidzakhala woyamba kunena kuti akazi sali, kwenikweni, oletsedwa kuti asalowe nawo mdziko la ndege. Ine, chifukwa chimodzi, sindinayambe ndauzidwapo kuti sindingathe kuwuluka ndege kapena sindiyenera kuwuluka. Koma kugonana kumakabebe, ndipo pali malingaliro ambiri olakwika ozungulira izo.
Ngakhale zikhoza kukhala zonyenga, kugonana kwabwalo kungakhale kosavuta, monga momwe ndangodziwonera posachedwapa pamene ndikugwiritsa ntchito maulendo a pa intaneti, tsamba lamasewero ndi ndemanga. Kusaka kwaposachedwa pa intaneti kufunafuna ziwerengero ndi maganizo pa akazi a ndege ndi zochitika zonse zomwe zikutsatirazi zinandichotsera.
Pozindikira maganizo a anthu osadziwika bwino okhudza akazi pa ndege, ndinazindikira mwamsanga kuti pali malingaliro ambiri kunja uko ponena za zovuta - kapena kusowa kwawo - kutsutsana ndi akazi omwe amagwira ntchito pa chikhalidwe cha amuna ngati ndege.
M'munsimu pali zochepa za malingaliro awa olakwika omwe ndinakumana nawo.
Zambiri mwazimenezi ziri ndemanga zenizeni za amuna ndi akazi zomwe ndapeza pa intaneti. Iwo mwina ndi odabwitsa kwa ena a ife, koma kenanso, mwina ayi. Sindinkayenera kuyang'ana kutali kuti ndiwapeze.
1. "Azimayi samakonda ndege ngati amuna."
Zikuwoneka kuti abambo ndi amai ali wired mosiyana. Timadziwa kuchokera ku kafukufuku kuti anyamata amakonda magalimoto ndipo atsikana amasankha zidole. Chimene sitikuchidziwa ndi kuchuluka kwa makhalidwe omwe timakhala nawo msinkhu wa moyo ndi zotsatira za chilengedwe chathu ndi biology ndi majini. Koma pakubwera kwa ndege, kuganiza kuti akazi samakonda ndege kapena kuti safuna kukwera ndege zingakhale zolakwika. Kodi mtsikana angakonde bwanji kapena sakonda za ndege? Ndani anganene kuti palibe atsikana ndi amayi kunja uko amene sanapeze ndege?
2. "Kupanga ndege kumatseguka kwa akazi. Palibe vuto. "
Inde, mungatsutse kuti kuyendetsa ndege ndi "kutseguka" kwa amayi. Koma kodi kwenikweni? Zimatanthauza chiyani? Inde, mkazi akhoza kuphunzira kuthawa ngati akufuna. Koma taganizirani ndi ine kwa mphindi kuti ndinu wazaka 16 yemwe akufuna kuphunzira kuuluka. Inu mumakhala olimbika mokwanira kuti mupite ku sukulu ya ndege yopita ku ndege kapena FBO , kumene mukulowamo ndipo palibe aliyense amene ali kutsogolo.
Mukudikirira, ndipo mawotchi amatha kuthamanga ndikuyenda pafupi ndi inu osanena mawu kwa inu. Ndiye, pamene wogwira ntchito wina amakuzindikira, angakuganize kuti ndiwe mkazi wa woyendetsa ndege, kapena kuti muli komweko kuti mutengeko chakudya, kapena kukonzekera galimoto yamtengo wapatali kwa wothandizila wanu, -pilot ntchito. Chifukwa simukugwirizana nawo, akuganiza kuti simuli woyendetsa ndege kapena simukufuna kukhala mmodzi. Osati malo ovomerezeka kwambiri a mkazi. Zinyama zingathe kupezeka kwa amayi, koma si malo abwino kwambiri azimayi.
3. "Akazi sayenera kudandaula. Iwo amalandira kale chithandizo chapadera monga maphunziro ndi maphunziro omwe amagwiritsa ntchito. Ngati zolinga ndizofanana, n'chifukwa chiyani phindu limeneli liyenera kupezeka kwa akazi okhaokha? "
Kawirikawiri, amai akuyendetsa ndege safuna kuti azichitiridwa mosiyana ndi amuna.
Sali kufunafuna zopereka kapena ndalama za maphunziro . Koma pali chifukwa cha "chithandizo chapadera" choterechi ndipo chikugwirizana ndi mbiri yakale ya ufulu wa anthu, kuphatikizapo Civil Rights Act ya 1964, yomwe ingalepheretse anthu kukana kulandira malinga ndi zaka, kugonana, chipembedzo kapena mtundu . Azimayi amalandira zokonda pa ndege nthawi zina chifukwa ndizoyesa kuyesa kukonzanso kusankhana, ndipo moyenera. Ndi zabwino zomwe tingathe kuchita. Koma sikumapeto kwa nkhaniyi. Tisaiwale kuti woyendetsa ndege ayenera kukhala woyenerera kuntchito, monganso woyendetsa ndege wina aliyense, ndikutsatira izi, adziwonetsere kuti ali m'gulu la anthu osakayikira amapepala, oyang'anira, komanso ngakhale okwera. Izi mwina zimadziwika chifukwa cha amayi, koma nthawi zambiri, kulephera kwa msinkhu uliwonse wa amai mudziko lolamulidwa ndi amuna ndi kusakhululukirana ndipo kumapangitsa kuti anthu asamangokhulupirira kuti amayi alibe njira zabwino ngati abambo. Choncho, ngakhale amayi atha kupatsidwa chithandizo chapadera nthawi zina, nthawi zambiri amawona kuti akufunikira kugwira ntchito molimbika, osati zovuta, kusiyana ndi mwamuna yemwe amakhala pafupi nawo, kuti apeze ulemu kwa anzawo ndi kuletsa kutsutsidwa kosayenera chochitika cha mphindi yofooka.
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4. "Azimayi samangokhalira kugwiritsira ntchito makina ndipo savutika kuphunzira."
Pali zofukufuku zotsutsana zokhudzana ndi luso la msilikali wamwamuna ndi makhalidwe ake motsatira luso la woyendetsa akazi ndi makhalidwe ake. Kafukufuku wina amasonyeza kuti akazi sachita chidwi kwambiri kuposa amuna, koma ngati izi ndi zotsatira za chirengedwe kapena kusamalira - pali umboni wa onse awiri - ndi funso lomwe palibe amene akuwoneka kuti angathe kuyankha molondola.
Ndipo ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri anthu amadziwika kuti ali bwino pamaphunziro ndi masewera, amayi omwe amatha kukhala ndi masamu ndi mavuto a m'madera amadziwika kuti akukangana pamlingo wofanana ndi anzawo amtundu wawo. Chinthu china choyenera kukumbukira ndi nkhani zomwe anthu amaganiziridwa kuti ndi zabwino kwambiri - masamu, machitidwe, ndi luso la malo - amaphatikizapo pang'ono chabe maluso ofunikira kuwuluka ndege; palinso kupanga chisankho, chiweruzo, kugwira ntchito limodzi, kuyendayenda, kuthetsa mavuto ndi kuyankhulana. Ndipo ngati ziri zoona kuti amayi ali bwino kumvetsera, mosakayika kuti achite mofulumira kapena mosasamala, ndipo ali bwino pamaganizo osiyanasiyana, ndiye kuti kumapangitsa lingaliro lakuti kuphunzira kuuluka ndi kovuta kwambiri kwa akazi okongola kwambiri.
5. "Kugonana sikukanakhala pandege ngati sitinayambe kukambirana nkhaniyi."
Mwatsoka, kugonana, monga chiwawa, umphawi, kusadziwa, ndi tsankho la mkangano uliwonse, sichimawonongeka chifukwa chakuti timasankha kunyalanyaza izo.
Kudziwa kumangokhala chisangalalo kwa omwe ali ndi mwayi, panopa.
6. "Palibe umboni uliwonse wosonyeza kugonana. Ngati akazi sakonda kulandira ndege, ndiye vuto lawo. "
N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti pali zitsanzo zambiri zokhudzana ndi kugonana masiku ano. Zomwe zilipo posachedwa - monga Air Canada ndi vuto la zithunzi zachikazi za amayi omwe akusiyidwa kumalo osungira ndege.
Ndipo, ngakhale lero, pali anthu ambiri omwe sali okhudzidwa ndi udindo wa woyendetsa ndege wamkazi pa sitima yoyendetsa ndege. Kugonana kulipo. Ndilo vuto. Pali chifukwa chake zokambirana zikupitirira.
7. "Ngati mkazi akukhumudwa ndi chithunzi chachikazi cha mkazi wina kapena nthabwala yonyansa, ndiye kuti alibe nkhawa ndipo sayenera kukhala woyendetsa ndege."
Kaŵirikaŵiri amati atsikana ena sangathe kutenga nthabwala. Mmene mkazi amachitira ndi ndemanga kapena nthabwala ndi anzako angapezeke ngati kutetezeka kapena ngakhale kutanganidwa nthawi zina, koma izi ndizo: Tonsefe tiyenera kukhumudwitsidwa ndi khalidwe lachiwerewere, kuponderezana, kuwopseza, kapena kukoma kokha.
Palibenso malo olakwika kapena okhumudwitsa mu malo odziwa ntchito (kapena ayi, kwenikweni) ndipo yankho la khalidweli silovuta; vuto ndi khalidwe lokha. Chachiwiri kwa izi, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti kukhumudwitsidwa ndi khalidwe loipa sikungayambitse ntchito ya munthu monga woyendetsa ndege. Kukhumudwa sikukutanthauza kuti munthu ndi wosakhazikika kapena wosadziŵa. M'malo ogwira ntchito monga malo oyendetsa ndege, ulemu uyenera kuyembekezera, osayang'aniridwa pakhomo.
Ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, kodi si mtundu wa munthu yemwe amaimirira mwansanje kapena khalidwe losayera kwenikweni mtundu wa woyendetsa ife tikufuna kuwuluka ndege yathu?
8. "Tikusowa akazi ambiri pa ndege."
Pali kukakamiza kwakukulu kulimbikitsa amayi ambiri pa ndege, pamodzi ndi mapulogalamu a STEM ambiri. Pali anthu ambiri omwe amakhulupirira kuti makampaniwa amafunikira amayi ambiri. Koma chifukwa chiyani? Kodi amai amabweretsa chithandizo chotani kumalo osungirako ndege omwe amuna samatha kapena sangabweretse? Ngati amai ndi abambo adzakhala pa masewero othamanga, ndiye chifukwa chiyani tiyenera kukhala osamalira amayi?
Zingakhale zomveka kunena kuti tikusowa anthu ochulukirapo. Pokhala ndi kusowa koyendetsa ndege ndi kayendetsedwe ka kayendedwe ka ndege, tikhoza kugwiritsa ntchito oyendetsa ndege ambiri. Ngati pali msika wosasinthika wa akazi kunja komweko-ndipo akufuna kutero-kukwaniritsa kuchepa kwa oyendetsa ndege komanso masewera panthaŵi imodzimodzi, bwanji osatero? Koma mwina sitikusowa akazi ambiri pa ndege kuti tipeze amayi ambiri.
Sitikusowa kuti tigulitse makamaka kwa amayi kapena kukopa akazi m'misewu - kapena ntchito ina iliyonse yomwe iwo akuyimira - chifukwa chakuti msinkhuwo ndi wofanana. Tiyenera kufotokozera atsikana mwayi kuti athetse mavuto omwe alipo. Ngati sitichita zosiyana ndi zimenezo, amai adzasankha kupita kumunda kumalo awo okondweretsedwa ndikukwera mmundawo kufika pa msinkhu wawo. Tikawulula atsikana ndi atsikana kuti apange ndege zogwirizana ndi njira yomwe anyamata ndi anyamata amalandira, ndizo kwa atsikana ndi atsikana kuti apite ku mbale - ngati akufuna.
Akazi sakufuna kuti apitirize kukhala ndi zokambiranazi, chifukwa chake ambiri a ife tipewa kukambirana za kugonana. Makamaka amayi omwe ali ndi magalimoto okwera kale amakhala amphamvu, akazi ozindikira omwe alibe nthawi kapena kukambirana za kugonana, mwina chifukwa chakuti awuka pamwamba pa njira zawo, kapena chifukwa chakuti sanadziwepo iwo okha, kapena mwinamwake chifukwa iwo amangokhala osayang'ana kwambiri pa nkhani za amuna. Koma monga momwe ndazindikirako, pali malingaliro olakwika kunja uko, ndi malingaliro ena omwe mwina mwanyengerera, amachititsa kuti pakhale kusowa kwa amayi omwe amayamba nawo magalimoto.
Ndi zoona kuti lero, kuposa kale lonse, msungwana ali ndi mwayi wopeza mwayi umene atsikana ambiri anali nawo kale. Ndipo nzoona kuti mkazi yemwe akufuna kulowa mu dziko la ndege sangakumane ndi zambiri, ngati zilipo, kukana. Koma pali zotsalira za kugonana ndi zolakwika zina zokhudzana ndi amai omwe akuyenda mlengalenga omwe akukhalabebe, ndipo amenewo ndi malingaliro olakwika omwe sayenera kunyalanyazidwa.