Mafunso amayankhidwa pa zovuta ndi ntchito yanu
Q. Ndinawauza abwana anga kuti ndiyenera kutengera mwana wanga ku dokotala ndipo adandiyang'anitsitsa. Kodi mungathetse bwanji vutoli?
A. Ndizoopsa kuganiza kuti mukudziwa chifukwa chokhalira maso, choncho funsani zomwe akukumana nazo ndi pempho lanu.
Ndiye, ndipo iyi ikhoza kukhala gawo lovuta, mvetserani zomwe iwo ayenera kunena popanda kutetezeka. Kuthandizira, yang'anani pazokambirana iyi ngati cholinga chopeza.
Kumvetsera mwachidwi kudzakuchititsani kudutsa maso. Kuwonetsa maso ndi chitsimikizo chodziwika kuti meneja wanu ali ndi vuto koma samva ngati ali ndi malo oti agawane nawo nkhawa zawo, choncho apatseni malowa. Mudzapeza bwino za abwana anu patsogolo ndi kumveka bwino .
Pamene mwafunsa mafunso ambiri momwe mungathe kufunsanso, "Kodi pali china chomwe mukufuna kugawana?" Kenako khalani chete. Pa nthawiyi adanena mtendere wawo ndikuwapatsa mpata woganizira zonse zomwe adagawana zingatulutse zambiri za golide.
Pomaliza, zikomo chifukwa chogawana malingaliro awo. Inu tsopano muli ndi chinachake choti mugwire nawo ntchito! Palibe chifukwa choganizira chifukwa chodziwa zomwe akuganiza (mbali zambiri).
Nenani kuti mukufuna kutenga nthawi yoganizira zomwe zanenedwa komanso kuti mubwerere ndi maganizo anu masiku angapo.
Q. Mbuye wanga akukonza misonkhano nthawi ya 4:30 PM pamene ndiyenera kuchoka pa 5 PM kuti ndikatenge ana anga kuchokera kusamalira, ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?
A. Kodi mungayankhe bwanji malire omwe muyenera kuchoka pa 5PM?
Dziwani omvera anu.
Ngati mtsogoleri wanu akulamulira ndi ntchito yake yongolerani zenizeni mu malire anu ndikusiya maganizo anu (anu ndi a mwana wanu) kunja kwake .
Kodi zoona ndi ziti?
- Munalembera mgwirizano ndi zosamalira zamankhwala kuti mutenge mwana wanu pa 5PM. Mukufuna kulemekeza nthawi ya wothandizira wa tsiku ndi tsiku komanso osapereka malipiro am'mbuyo.
- Kuchedwa kumasokoneza ndandanda ya banja lanu madzulo.
- Mumayamikira ntchito yanu koma mumayamikira banja lanu.
- Zimamvetsa chisoni mwana wanu akamakhala womaliza.
- Kuthamanga kwanu ku chisamaliro chamasana kungakhale kosasamala chifukwa cha kuthamanga ndipo muli odzazidwa ndi nkhawa ndi kudziimba mlandu.
Ngati mtsogoleri wanu ali ndi anthu ambiri komanso omwe amakonda kuganiza mozama, onetsetsani kuti mumagawana malingaliro anu koma pewani kupuma. Mukaika malire amenewa ndi bwino kuti muzichita nawo maso ndi maso. Yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito chitsanzo cha AEIOU kuti muthandize mfundo yanu kudutsa.
Q. Posachedwapa ndakhala ndikusauka ndikuyankhula ndi bwana wanga za vuto la mwana. Bwana wanga sangapeze mavuto a m'banja!
A. Ili ndi funso lalikulu ndi loyamba nthawi zambiri. Ndi bwino kunena momveka bwino za zosowa zanu ndiyeno kuzipereka patsogolo, nthawi zonse. Dzifunseni nokha kuti chofunika kwambiri choyamba kubwera chifukwa chiyani?
Yerekezerani izi zomwe mumaziika patsogolo pa ntchito zanu. Kodi mungapereke chiyani komanso zomwe simungathe?
Mukadziwa mayankho a mafunsowa mumamva bwino kwambiri ndipo mukhoza kudzifotokozera bwino.
Izi zimapitanso chimodzimodzi! Pamene ntchito zofunika kwambiri ziyenera kubwera poyamba, mwachitsanzo mukutsatira cholinga chachikulu, dongosolo lanu lothandizira liyenera kukhala tcheru.
Ikani chiyembekezero ndi iwo kuti mudzakhala mukuchita nthawi yochuluka ndi mphamvu kuti mugwire ntchito kuti muwone zinthu ndi zomwe mukufuna kuzidalira.