Zizindikiro zochepa ndi kuchiza mwamsanga kuti matendawa asangalatse
Kapena kodi?
Nchifukwa chiyani sitingathe kudziletsa kuti tisangalatse ena?
Zingakhale zovulaza momwe tidzathandizira ena koma tisatenge nthawi ndi mphamvu kuti tidziyang'anire tokha! Tikufuna kuti ena akhale osangalala kwambiri kuti tiike kudzikonda kwathu, zofunika, ntchito, kapena maloto kumbali. Timakhulupirira kuti ngati tikhoza kukondweretsa ena ndiye tidzakhala okondwa.
Izi ndi zomvetsa chisoni, ndipo zowona. Ichi ndi matenda oti musangalatse.
Kodi mukufuna kudziwa kuti mukudwala matendawa kuti mukondweretse. Nazi zizindikiro zochepa (ndipo ndimakonda kumva anu pa tsamba langa la Facebook!):
Chizindikiro # 1 - Mukuti "Inde". pamene mukufuna kunena "KUSANKHA!"
M'malo moika zinthu zoyamba patsogolo , zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri, mumayika wina. Mukukhulupirira ngati mutayesa kusangalatsa, mosasamala za zomwe mukuchita, mudzaonedwa ngati othandiza, okondedwa, odalirika, komanso okondedwa anu onse.
Kuchedwa mwamsanga: Pamene mukuti "palibe NJIRA!" Ndi mawonekedwe akuti, "Ndimakukondani. Ndimakhulupirira mwa inu. Mukhoza kuchita (nokha). "
Chizindikiro # 2 - Zolemba zanu sizinatsatidwe kapena kuzilingalira.
Musanadzipereke kuti musangalatse inu musapange nthawi yoganizira momwe inde inde idzakhudzire moyo wanu. Pamene ena akudziwa kuti muli ndi matenda oti musangalatse amadziwa kuti mwakukulunga chala chawo chaching'ono ndipo musanyalanyaze mapulani anu chifukwa chakuti nthawi zonse ndizofunika kwambiri.
Palibe amene angayimire zochitika zanu kupatula iwe .
Kuchiza mwamsanga: Dzifunseni mafunso musanachite monga, "Kodi kunena kuti inde kumatanthauza maola ochuluka ku ofesi? Kodi kunena kuti inde kumatanthauza kuti sindikumaliza zomwe ndikufunikira kuchita? Kodi ndinganene kuti inde ndikugulitsa chinthu chimene sindingathe kuchipeza? "
Chizindikiro # 3 - Pamene aliyense akusamalidwa ndi inu mudzasangalala (ndipo mukhoza kupuma).
Ndi chisonyezo ichi chimamveka ngati wina akusowa thandizo ndipo palibe mpumulo kwa otopa.
Ndipo UTHANDIZA aliyense. Mukukhulupirira kuti ngati ali osangalala ndiye kuti mudzasangalala. Muli wotanganidwa kwambiri kusamalira ena omwe simukuganiza za boma lanu lokhazikika kapena osakhala ndi mphamvu kuti muchite zinthu zabwino. Zomwe mukufuna, mutasamalira aliyense, ndi bedi lanu.
Kuchiza mwamsanga: Dzipatse chilolezo kuti muime. Musamayembekezere kuti wina akuuzeni pang'onopang'ono. Gwiritsani ntchito mantra monga "Ndasiya. Ndinebe. "Pokhala pansi.
Chizindikiro # 4: Mumataya mau anu.
Nazi nkhani yowona. Ndinapita nditatha kuwaika ana , koma ana sankagona. Bambo amauza ana, "Amayi amapanga zikondamoyo za chakudya cham'mawa mukamagona." Amapita kukagona (ndithudi). Ndidzuka poyamba ndi ana ndipo amandiuza zomwe abambo adanena. Sindifuna kupanga zikondamoyo. Sindikudziwa ngati ndili ndi zowonjezera. Ndinamva chisoni koma sindinauza anawo mapepala. Ndinawauza kuti ndatopa, sindimangokhalira kuphika, bambo angafunikire kufufuza nane, ndipo ngati akufuna mapakeka, pitani kukafunsa bambo.
Koma nthawi zina mumawopa kunena zomwe mukufunadi kunena chifukwa mukuwopa kuti sizidzasangalatsa ena. Mmalo mwake mumapita ndi kuthamanga ndipo mkati muli achisoni inu simukupeza zomwe mukufuna.
Ngati mungapeze mau anu!
Kuchiza mwamsanga: Khalani olimba pakuzindikira malingaliro anu. Kenaka ugawane nawo. Auzeni mokweza. Ndicho chiyambi chachikulu. Loweruka lija mmawa ndikudziwa kuti ndinali ndi mphamvu zochepa ndipo sindinali wokonzeka kusamba zala ndi nkhope. Ndinauza anawo mmene ndimamvera. Izi zinawaphunzitsa chikhulupiliro komanso momwe mawu akuti "kuponya munthu pansi pa basi" amatanthawuza.
Monga Ntchito Mayi, ganizirani za anthu onse m'moyo mwanu kuti muyesetse kukondweretsa monga ana anu, ena apadera, abwana anu, ogwira nawo ntchito, anansi anu, osamalira ana anu, PTO komanso amene ali ndi vuto tsiku. Kodi mungaganizire za nthawi yomwe munadwala matendawa kuti mukondweretse? Kodi pali machiritso mwamsanga omwe mungagwiritse ntchito kuti muchoke?