Joe Girard, yemwe amagulitsa malonda kwambiri padziko lonse monga Guinness Book of World Records, amavomereza kuti apambana ndi chizoloŵezi chake chotumiza makadi olembedwa pamwezi uliwonse kwa makasitomala ake onse.
Girard anatumiza makadi oposa 16,000 mwezi uliwonse, ndipo chifukwa chake, anakhala mtsogoleri wogulitsa galimoto padziko lonse kwa zaka 12 mzere. Koma simukufunikira kutumiza makadi zikwi mwezi uliwonse kuti mukwaniritse zotsatira zochititsa chidwi.
Musaganize kuti kutumiza imelo kapena kalata ya fomu kudzachita zomwezo. Mfundo yakuti anthu ochepa omwe amavutitsa kutumiza makalata ndi makhadi olembedwa pamanja adzakupatsani mphamvu zoposa. Anthu amawona makalata olembedwa pamanja ndipo amatha kuponyera makalata opangira molunjika. Makalata oterowo sayenera kukhala aatali, mwina. Makhadi otchuka a manja a Girard adanena mwachidule, "Ndimakukondani." Zinali zovuta kuti atumize makhadi awo mwezi uliwonse zomwe zinakhudza makasitomala ake, osati mauthenga ovuta kapena ovuta .
Ndemanga yoyamikira ndi njira yamphamvu kwambiri yofikira munthu wina. Simukungosonyeza kuti mumayamikira zomwe adachita, koma mumasonyezanso kuti ndinu wokonzeka kutenga nthawi yolemba uthenga wanu nokha ndikutumiza.
Chifukwa cha zokoma zazikulu, monga mawu oyamba omwe amatsogoleredwa ku malonda aakulu, kuphatikizapo mphatso yaing'ono ikhoza kukhala yoyenera - koma sizofunikira.
Zomwe Ziyenera Kuphatikiza M'kuthokozani Kwakuzindikira?
Zolemba zanu ziyenera kuphatikizapo kutchula zomwe munthuyo wakuchitirani ndipo ayenera kulimbikitsa zotsatira zabwino za zochita zake.
Ngati mutakumana ndi munthu pa chochitika kapena pa msonkhano, omasuka kunena kuti zinali zosangalatsa bwanji kuti mukumane naye. Mukhozanso kuyamikira momwe mumayamikirira khama limene munthuyu adapita kuti akuthandizeni. Ngati simukudziwa momwe mungayambitsire, yesani kutsegula kalata yanu ndi chinachake monga, "Ndinayenera kukuthokozani pang'ono kuti ndikuthokozeni chifukwa cha chidwi chanu [kutumiza, kufalitsa, ndi zina zotero]."
Ndibwino kuti mutseke poyankhula za momwe mukuyembekezera misonkhano yotsatira kapena kukambirana ndi wopindula wanu. Mndandanda wochuluka kwambiri kapena kalata ikhoza kutsekedwa ndi "Zopindulitsa zabwino," "Zikomo kwambiri," kapena "Zowonongeka," malingana ndi momwe mumadziwira bwino munthu amene mukumulemba. Ngati mukulemba ndemanga yosavuta kapena kukwaniritsa khadi, simukusowa kugwiritsa ntchito njira yoyenera.
Pamene Wina Akukutumizirani Mphatso
Pamene wina akutumizani mphatso - mwachitsanzo, pa maholide - muyenera kuyankha ndi ndemanga yoyamikira. Ndimalingaliro abwino kusunga mndandanda wa anthu omwe adakupatsani mphatso kuti mutha kubwezeretsanso chaka chamawa. Ndemanga zothokoza zoterezi ziyenera kutchula mphatso yapadera imene munalandira, momwe mumakhalira okondwa kukhala nayo, komanso momwe mukufuna kukaligwiritsira ntchito. Mwachitsanzo, ngati kasitomala akukutumizirani khadi la mphatso ku malo odyera, mungathe kunena kuti mumakonda bwanji chakudya pamalowo ndi momwe mukufunira mwamuna wanu kumeneko usiku wonse kuchokera kwa ana.
Nthaŵi ina yayikulu yoyamikira zikalata zanu ndi tsiku la makasitomala. Ngati muli ndi kasitomala amene akugula kuchokera kwa inu chaka chonse (kapena zaka zingapo), onetsetsani kutumiza kalata kumthokoza chifukwa chokhala wodalirika . Makasitomala otere ayenera kulimbikitsidwa kuti akhalebe okhulupirika, ndipo ndithudi adzayamikira kuti munazindikira kuti akhala ndi nthawi yayitali bwanji.