Pezani Zosowa Zanu Zopanda Chidziwitso Kuti Mupeze Bwino, Ogwira Ntchito Oyenerera
Koma, monga Pressner akufotokozera, anali ndi chilakolako chosadziŵa kanthu. Adazindikira izi pamene adazindikira kuti adayenera kufunsa pempho la mwamuna wake kuti ayang'ane malipiro ake mosiyana ndi pempho lofanana ndi pempho la amayi omwe akugwira ntchitoyo.
Iye nthawi zonse ankaganiza kuti iyeyo ndi wothandizira amayi mu utsogoleri koma anazindikira pa nthawi imeneyo kuti amachita zinthu mosiyana ndi momwe iye ankaganizira. Mwinamwake, ndinu ofanana ndi zosakondera.
Kodi Chikhalidwe Chosazindikira N'chiyani?
The Equality Challenge Unit imatanthauzanso kusasamala kanthu motere:
"Ubongo wosadziwika kapena wosadziwika umachitika ndi ubongo wathu kupanga ziweruzo mofulumira komanso kufufuza kwa anthu ndi zochitika popanda ife kuzindikira. Zomwe timakonda zimakhudzidwa ndi chiyambi chathu, chikhalidwe chathu, ndi zochitika zathu. Sitingazindikire ngakhale malingaliro awa ndi malingaliro awo, kapena tidziwa za zotsatira zake zonse ndi zofunikira. "
Aliyense amabwera patebulo ndikusowa kanthu, ndipo amatha kusintha kwambiri momwe mumagwirira ntchito ndi kubwereka, popanda kudziwa kuti zosakhudzidwa izi zimakhudza zomwe mumasankha.
Mmene Zisamaliro Zachidziwitso Zimakhudzira Kuwunika Zowonjezera
Ambiri olemba ntchito amawononga nthawi yosachepera mphindi imodzi asanayambe kuyambiranso kapena kusankha kuti apitirize kuphunzira.
Kufufuza kofulumira kumeneku kukutanthauza kuti zosokoneza zathu sizikusewera.
Phunziro lapadera la 2003 lotchedwa "Kodi Emily ndi Greg More Ogwira Ntchito Oposa Lakisha ndi Jamal? Munda Woyesayesa Kusagulitsidwa kwa Msika wa Ntchito "anapeza kuti anthu omwe ali ndi mayina a" Black "sakanatha kupeza yankho la kubwereza kuposa munthu yemwe ali ndi dzina loyera.
Koma kale, kale, zinthu zasintha. Iwo ali, koma osati motsimikizika. Kafukufuku wa 2016 anapeza kuti kusiyana kumeneku kunali kutayika, koma pali mpanda wamphamvu: anasintha maina oyambirira mu phunziroli. Anagwiritsa ntchito Washington ndi Jefferson kukhala mayina omaliza kwa Otsatira a Black, Anderson ndi Thompson kwa oyeramtima a White, ndi Garcia ndi Hernandez kwa ofuna ku Spain.
Koma, mayina oyambirira a Oyera ndi Otsatira anali mayina otchuka mumtundu wa White (Megan ndi Brian kwa White candidates ndi Chloe ndi Ryan kwa Otsatira a Black).
Kotero, kodi kukonda kwenikweni kunatha , kapena anthu sakudziwa kuti 90% ya "Washingtons" ndi 75 peresenti ya "Jeffersons" ndi Amtundu? Komabe, anthu a ku Spain anali ndi mayina oyambirira a ku Spain: Isabella ndi Carlos. Phunzirolo silinapezeke aliyense akuyambanso kusankhana kwa anthu a ku Spain, poyerekeza ndi ofuna ku White.
Koma, sizinthu zokhazokha zomwe mumaziwona mosadziwika . Zaka ndi chikhalidwe zimagonjetsedwa ndi zosadziwika zathu .
Wosankhidwa amene ali ndi zaka makumi atatu ndi zitatu omwe adawalemba payekha ayamba kukhala wamkulu kuposa wofunsayo amene ali ndi zaka zisanu. Munthu yemwe ali ndi digiri ya koleji kuchokera mu 1982 amakhala wamkulu kuposa mmodzi ndi digiri kuchokera mu 2013.
Jennifer ali pafupi kutsimikiziridwa kukhala mkazi pamene Steven ali wotsimikizika kukhala wamwamuna. Ngakhale opanda masiku, mungathe kuganiza kuti Jennifer ndi wamkulu kuposa Emma, chifukwa cha kutchuka kwa dzina nthawi zosiyanasiyana.
Zosamvetsetsa Zopanda Kufunsa
"Mnyamata, ali wokwiya kwambiri, si choncho?"
"Iye ali ndi chidaliro pa luso lake! Ndinkakonda mmene ankatipanikiza! "
Mungathe kufotokozera mau awiriwa okhuza awiri omwe amachita mofananamo, koma mungayembekezere zinthu zosiyana ndi amuna ndi akazi.
Pamene wokhala nawo abwera mkati ndipo mwachiwonekere akulemera kwambiri, kodi mumadabwa ngati ali waulesi?
Ngati wokhala nawo akubwera ndi njinga ya olumala, kodi mumadabwa momwe angapitirire ndi kayendetsedwe kanu kofulumira?
Zosokonezeka zanu zimakhudza momwe mumawonera ndi kutanthauzira chirichonse chomwe wokamba nawo akunena kapena amachita.
Muyenera kuganizira munthu amene akukhala patsogolo panu osalola kuti mbiri yanu ndi zochitika zanu zisokoneze chiweruzo chanu.
Kodi Mungakonze Bwanji Zosowa Zanu Zopanda Kumvetsa?
N'zosatheka kudzichotsa ku mbiri yanu ndi chikhalidwe chanu , komabe kuzindikira kuti mukusowa kwanu ndi sitepe yoyamba. Press inabwera ndi yankho lomwe liri lothandiza kwambiri. Amachitcha kuti "Flip it to test it."
Ngati mutaitana mkazi yemwe ali wodandaula kuti apeze ndalama zambiri, aziwombera kuti muyese ngati mungapereke malingaliro omwewo kwa mwamuna wovuta. Ngati mukuganiza, "mnyamata yemwe akulemera kwambiri ayenera kukhala waulesi," flip kuti ayesere. Ngati simungaganize kuti munthu wansangala ndi waulesi, ndiye kuti ndizosakondweretsa.
Ngati munena kuti, " Tiyenera kulemba akazi ambiri " ndikulemba kuti "tikuyenera kuitanitsa amuna ambiri." Ngati mawu omalizawa amveketsa kugonana, mukudziwa kuti mawu oyamba ndi ogonana.
Chiyeso chimenechi sichikukhazikitsidwa pazosiyana zachikhalidwe komanso zachiwerewere. "Wokondedwa uyu ayenera kukhala wabwino kuposa wina chifukwa adapita ku Harvard ndipo winayo anapita ku Ohio State." Flip that and think about it.
Inde, mukudziwa kuti munthu amene wapita ku Harvard anali ndi maphunziro ochepa koma sadziwa ngati wovomerezeka wa Ohio State ali ndi ziyeneretso zofanana ndikuphunzira. Simunadziwe ngati ziyeneretso za maphunziro, madigiri, kapena chisankho cha bungwe zimapangitsa wokhala bwino kukhala pantchito yomwe mukulipira kuti mudzaze.
Ngati mutalola kuti zosokoneza zanu zisokoneze maganizo anu, mumasowa anthu ambiri omwe mukufunayo ndipo mumayesetsa kupeza ngongole yogwira ntchito yomwe imayang'anitsa mabokosi anu onse oyenerera koma sangathe kugwira ntchitoyo.