Phunzirani za Chilamulo Malo Otsitsimula

Ngati mumadziwa bwino ndi makampani alamulo, mwinamwake mumawadziwa ndi anzanu ndi abwenzi anu . Othandizana ali ndi mtengo wogwirizana pazitsulo ndikuyendetsa zinthu. Ogwirizanitsa amagwira ntchito kumeneko ndipo amaperekedwa ngati antchito. Ena, koma osati onse, amacheza nawo akufuna kuti akhale ogwirizana nawo, ndipo chikhalidwe cha BigLaw "chokwera kapena kunja" chikuwoneka kuti chiri ndi zosankhidwa zochepa kwa anzanu omwe sali opanga nawo anzake potsiriza.

Koma, palinso njira zina zomwe zingasangalatse, osagwirizana komanso "maudindo".

M'nkhaniyi, tikambirana za maudindo a uphungu.

Ndi chiyani chomwe mungadabwe kuti ndi "uphungu"? Apa ndi momwe American Bar Association ikufotokozera izi:

Tanthauzo:

1. Wothandizira nthawi yomwe amagwiritsa ntchito malamulo palimodzi ndi olimba, koma mosiyana ndi a amilandu ambiri omwe ali ovomerezeka. Nthawi zina akatswiri a zamalamulo omwe nthawi zina amagwira ntchito yamalamulo omwe asankha kusintha kuchokera ku nthawi yowonjezera, kaya ndi olimba kapena ena, mpaka nthawi imodzi, kapena amilandu omwe asintha ntchito, monga oweruza akale kapena akuluakulu a boma.
2. Wokondedwa payekha yemwe amagwira ntchito, ngakhale kuti sakuchita mwakhama, amakhalabe wogwirizana ndi olimba ndipo amapezeka pafupipafupi.
3. Loyera yemwe kwenikweni ali wothandizana naye: kawirikawiri woweruza amalowetsedwa mu khola limodzi ndi kuyembekezera kukhala wokondedwa pambuyo pa nthawi yochepa.

1. Kukhala ndi moyo pakati pa anthu omwe ali nawo ndi oyanjana nawo, kukhala ndi umoyo wabwino, kapena chinachake chapafupi, ndi kusowa icho cha kuyembekezera komwe kungakweretsedwe ku chiyanjano chathunthu.

_{Gwero: Maganizo Ovomerezeka 90-357 a American Bar Association}

Mwachitsanzo, mukunena kuti muli ndi woweruza payekha yemwe ali ndi luso lapamwamba, koma zomwe zimakhala zopanda phindu (malo ogulitsa ndi malo omwe ndiwowonekera).

Otsatsa anu nthawi zina amafunikira luso la woweruza, yemwe ali wapadera kwambiri koma sakufuna kulipira tani la ndalama ndipo sakulifuna nthawi yochuluka. Simukufuna kutumiza makasitomalawa kumalo ena, chifukwa cha mpikisano, koma simukufuna kulipiritsa malipiro omwe ali pamgwirizano wapamtima. Zoyenera kuchita? Mupange iye-wochenjeza ndi kumulipira iye kuposa wothandizira, koma osachepera ndi mnzanu. Ubwino kwa woweruzayo ndi chitetezo cha ntchito - amadziwa kuti amayamikiridwa ndi olimbitsa thupi ndipo sangathe kuthamangitsidwa kumapeto kwa zaka zingapo (monga oyanjana omwe sagwirizana nawo nthawi zambiri adzakhala).

Kukhala ndi uphungu, osati wokondedwa, ndichinthu choyenerera kwa alangizi amene amasankha ndondomeko yowonjezereka, yochepa kwambiri. Kwa ambiri, tradeoff yazitali (koma komabe ndipamwamba pamtundu uliwonse) malipiro a maola ochepa ndi abwino. Anthu amtundu uwu akhoza kukhala ndi mabungwe omwe akubwerera ku khola pambuyo pa chibwibwi mu boma, akuluakulu a zamalamulo akudalira kuti pang'onopang'ono amachepetse ntchito zawo, ndipo makolo kubwerera kuntchito omwe akufuna ntchito yabwinoko yothetsera moyo kusiyana ndi wokhala naye payekha.

Cholakwika cha udindo wa uphungu

Pali zifukwa zingapo zomwe zingatheke kukhala wophungu osati wokondedwa.

Chowonekera kwambiri ndi malipiro ochepa. Atumwi omwe ali ndi uphungu nthawi zambiri amapanga malipiro apamwamba, mosiyana ndi apamwamba omwe ali nawo phindu. (Amayi apamtima omwe amacheza nawo nthawi zambiri amakhala osachepera, koma kuthekera kwa kukhala wokondedwa pa nthawi ndikumwamba kuposa kukhala wothandizira-uphungu.)

Palinso kutchuka kukugwera kukhala uphungu. Ngakhale izi zikhoza kuthetsedwa ndi kuchepetsa kugwira ntchitoyi, kunena kuti ndiwe wokondedwa pa khama lalikulu la malamulo chabe limangowoneka lochititsa chidwi!

Kwa alangizi ambiri, komabe ubwino wokhala ndi uphungu woposa uphungu, ndipo ndi kusakaniza kwabwino kwa moyo wothandizana ndi ntchito yokhudzana ndi chitetezo cha mgwirizano.