Chotsani Pamphumo Mwanu Musakhale Whiner
Chimodzi mwa zozizwitsa za wogwira ntchito bwino ndi luso lothana ndi zochitika izi ndi luso. Zomwe zingakuvutitseni kuthetsa kukhumudwa ndiko kufotokozera bwino momwe mumamvera kwa anthu omwe ali pamwamba panu.
Kuti mupewe vuto la ntchito-kuchepa kwachinsinsi m'deralo, tsatirani malangizo awa pa kukhumudwitsa bwana wanu.
Onetsetsani Kuti Mumamvetsa Chisokonezo Chanu
Ngakhale malo ambiri ogwira ntchito ali opanda mphamvu monga momwe otsogolera angathetsere, ngakhale pakati pa anthu ambiri ochita zowonongeka, maganizo amatha kukwera. Mu malo alionse ogwira ntchito, pali zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mtima ukhale wolimba. Nenani kuti wina akuyamikira chifukwa cha ntchito yanu ndipo amachoka. Ziribe kanthu kaya muli ndi ntchito yanji, ndiko kuchitapo kanthu kokhumudwitsa kwambiri ndipo imayankha yankho labwino.
Ngati mwakhumudwa kuntchito, khalani ndi nthawi yochepa kuti mumvetse zomwe mukukumana nazo komanso chifukwa chake mumamva choncho. Kodi muli ndi mfundo zonse? Kodi maganizo anu amathandizidwa ndi mfundo? Kubwereranso ku chitsanzo chapamwamba, kodi ndinu wotsimikiza kuti wina adatenga ngongole? Mukudziwa bwanji kuti ndi zomwe zinachitika? Kodi ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zikusewera zomwe zingakhudze vutoli?
Musalole kuti maganizo anu ayambe kukumbukira.
Kumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika ndi momwe zikukhudzira maganizo anu.
Dzifotokozeni nokha momveka
Mawu ndi amphamvu. Chilankhulo chofunikira ndi chofunika, ndipo kufunika kwake kumawonjezeka pamene kukambirana kuli kovuta ngati pamene wogwira ntchito akuyenera kukhumudwitsa kwa bwana wake .
Mukakhumudwa, samalani pa mawu omwe mumasankha.
Pewani mwangozi kudzudzula wina chifukwa cha chinachake chimene iye sanachite. Mwachitsanzo, musamunene bwana wanu kuti achite chinachake chimene chikufunikira ndi ndondomeko ya bungwe. Ngati bwana wanu akuyenera kulembetsa vuto la kuvomerezana ndilo vuto, musamapatse bwana wanu mlandu chifukwa cha nkhani yomwe ikulembedwa mu fayilo yanu.
Zokambirana ziyenera kukhala zoganizira. Musatengeke kuchoka pa dandaulo kupita ku lina popanda kutero. Pamene kukambirana kukukwaniritsidwa, pang'ono ndizosamalidwa, ndipo ngati pali mankhwala ovomerezeka, iwo sangathe kuyankha mitu yoyenera.
Dziwani Zimene Mukufuna
Kukhumudwitsidwa ndi zithupsa kuti zisakwaniritsidwe. Inu munaganiza chinthu chimodzi chiyenera kuti chinachitika, koma icho sichinatero ndipo china chake chinachita.
Mukamapita kukambirana ndi bwana wanu za vutoli, dziwani zomwe mukufuna kuti mutulukemo. Kodi mumangofuna kuti mumveke ndipo mukuganizapo zogwirizana ndi zomwe mungasankhe? Kodi mukufuna njira yothetsera vuto lomwe mwakumana nalo? Kodi mukufuna kusinthidwa ndi chisankho chilichonse chimene chinakukhumudwitsani?
Kudziwa zomwe mukufuna kumakuthandizani kukonza ndi kuyambitsa zokambiranazo. Izi zingawoneke ngati zongogwiritsira ntchito, koma sizingakhale ngati simukufuna kuchita zinthu mwanzeru.
Mwinamwake muli ndi mfundo zofunikira zomwe mukufuna kufotokoza sequentially kuti mukhazikitse zomwe mukufuna kuchitika. Palibe cholakwika ndi kufotokoza momwe mukufuna kuti kukumana kukuwonetseni.
Khalani ndi Maganizo Oyenera
Mutha kulowa muzokambirana kuti mudziwe zomwe mukufuna kuti muchitike komanso mutatha kukambirana, koma khalani ndi maganizo omasuka. Chifukwa cha udindo wake wa bungwe, bwana wanu akhoza kukhala ndi chidziwitso pa nkhani yomwe mulibe. Malingaliro omwe mumapita nawo kuyankhulana nawo angapangidwe kukhala opanda pake kapena opanda ntchito ndizodziwitsa zatsopano bwana wanu amabweretsa zokambirana.
Khalani otseguka ku zothetsera, njira zina ndi zosokoneza. Malingaliro omwe abwana anu amabweretsa ku gome akhoza kukhala abwino kuposa anu.
Konzekerani Zotsatira za Kulankhula Pamwamba
Mu mabungwe abwino, anthu omwe amafotokoza za nkhaŵa mwaulemu ndi ofunikira kuti athetse vutoli.
Amachepetsa mwayi wokhala ndi kagulu kochepa. Mu mabungwe opanda thanzi, anthu omwe amalankhula amaonedwa kuti ndi osowa komanso zolepheretsa kupita patsogolo. Dziwani mtundu wanji wa bungwe lanu ndi.
Ngati mumagwira ntchito yolakwika, ganizirani ngati zotsatira zakulankhula ndizofunikira phindu lililonse. Nkhondo zina siziyenera kuchitapo kanthu ngati mukudziwa kuti mutaya.
Ngati mutagwira ntchito mu gulu labwino, tsatirani malangizo apa. Bwana wanu adzayesera kumvetsa maganizo anu ndipo adzafuna kuthetsa bwino kwa aliyense.