Mwachitsanzo, m'madera ambiri a ku America (ndipotu, padziko lonse) amalingaliridwa ngati mwambo ndipo amafunikiranso kuti amayi adziwitsidwe kwa amuna (mmalo mwa amuna akuwululidwa kwa akazi).
Koma pamene akazi akukwanitsa zofanana zambiri malamulo awa akusintha, makamaka ku US bizinesi.
Makhalidwe Amene Makhalidwe Oyambirira ndi Amalonda Ndi Omwewo
Muzinthu zonse zamalonda ndi zamakhalidwe, nthawi zonse muyenera kufotokoza:
- Achinyamata kwa anthu achikulire
- Junior apamwamba akatswiri kuti apamwamba apamwamba akatswiri
- Boma amalumikizi ndi antchito kwa makasitomala
- Odziwana okha ndi achibale anu kwa akatswiri amalonda mukapita ku bizinesi
- Alendo ku malo awo
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ngati chiwonetsero cha ulemu chimayambitsa omwe ali ochepa kwa omwe ali apamwamba ngati izo zikutanthauza chikhalidwe cha anthu kapena akatswiri. Zomwe zakhala zosagwirizana ndi zosalungama monga izi zingamveke, lamuloli loyambitsa anthu likulingaliridwa kuti ndilovomerezeka (komanso likuyembekezeredwa) ku US ndi mayiko ena ambiri.
Kusiyanasiyana Mogwirizana ndi Zosankha Zotsutsana Sizo Zisonyezero Zachikhalidwe
Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti musagwiritse ntchito malamulo oyambirira kuti mutanthauze anthu a mtundu wina, mtundu, chipembedzo, kapena chilakolako chogonana ngati wina wa malo ochepa.
Kuchita zimenezi kungakhale kosayenera komanso kusankhana.
Cholinga cha mawu oyambirira "okonzedweratu" ndi kulemekeza chikhalidwe chomwe chimagwirizana ndi udindo kapena zochitika, komanso kuti asayese kapena "kugawa" anthu ena kukhala otsika.
Pulogalamu ya Pulogalamu ya Anthu Yowunikira Anthu mu Makhalidwe Abwino
Muzinthu zamalonda, nthawi zonse muwafotokozere anthu mwa kutchula dzina lawo ndi dzina lawo lonse poyamba, ndiyeno tsatirani ndi chidziwitso chachidule chokhudza anthu omwe mukuwawuza.
Mwachitsanzo, mukamayambitsa Sally Rider, mmodzi wa osamalira malonda ndi malonda anu, kwa Dr. Jennifer Wilkins, wothandizira bizinesi, awonetse Sally (wogwira ntchito pansi) kwa akatswiri apamwamba (pa nkhaniyi, wotsatsa):
"Dr. Jenkins, uyu ndi Sally Rider, yemwe ndi mkulu wathu wotsatsa malonda komanso omwe amalonda amalonda omwe adzalandire akaunti yanu. Sally, uyu ndi Dr. Jennifer Wilkins, yemwe akutsogolera dera la maphunziro a amayi ku Advanced Institute for Business Women. Wilkins akufuna chidwi ndi njira zatsopano zogulitsa mapulogalamu awo kwa amayi. "
Ngati munthu amene mukumupatsa alibe udindo, simukudziwa mutu wake, kapena zingamveke bwino kwambiri, mungapereke dzina lake choyamba, komabe mukutsatira ndi zomwe akuchita.
Mmene Mungayankhire Kumayambiriro
Wina atangouzidwa kumene, yankho lanu liyenera kukhala loona, lalifupi, komanso losavuta. Muyeneranso kubwereza dzina la munthu kumapeto kwa moni wanu.
Kubwereza dzina la munthu yemwe mwangomulangizira kuti mutumikire zolinga ziwiri: zimasonyeza ulemu wolemekezeka ndipo zimakuthandizani kukumbukira dzina la munthuyo. Mungathe kuwonjezera ndemanga mwachidule ponena za munthuyo (osati za inu nokha):
Mwachitsanzo:
- "Ndi zabwino kwambiri kukumana nanu, Dr. Wilkins. Ndatsatira ntchito yanu kwa zaka zambiri ndikuchita khama kwambiri. "
- "Ndizodabwitsa kuti potsiriza kukumana nanu, Dr. Wilkins. Ndikuyembekezera kugwira nawo ntchito. "
Mmene Mungayankhire pa Choyamba Ngati Simukudziwa Winawake
Ngati wina akudziwitsani popanda kutchula udindo wawo (mwachitsanzo, Dokotala, Bambo, Akazi, Akazi, etc.), muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito njira yodziwika bwino poyankha. Yankho lanu liyenera kuganizira chifukwa chake mukudziwitsidwa. Kodi mawu oyambawo ndi ovomerezeka kapena akufuna kukugwirizanitsani ndi cholinga chokhazikitsa ubale watsopano?
Kawirikawiri, mauthenga monga chikhalidwe cha anthu amangofuna yankho lomveka bwino (kugwiritsa ntchito mayina ndi mayina otsiriza), pamene mawu oyamba opanga maubwenzi a malonda pakati pa anthu ofanana nawo angathe kukhala omasuka.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukudziwitsidwa ndi munthu yemwe mungagwire naye ntchito kapena wothandizana naye kapena wina yemwe ali ndi chikhalidwe chofanana kapena aphunzitsi mungagwiritse ntchito dzina lawo poyankhira kwanu: "Ndizosangalatsa kukumana nanu, Margaret."
Ngati mukudziwitsidwa ndi bwana watsopano kapena wina yemwe ali kapena wamkulu wanu, khalani okonzeka kwambiri ndi kuwonjezera mutu wawo: "Ndizosangalatsa kukumana nanu, Mayi Dixon."
Ngati mukuyika kukayikira, kapena mawu oyambirira akuperekedwa monga mwaulemu kapena mwakhama nthawi zonse awonjezere mutu. Izi zimasonyeza kulemekeza ndi kulola munthuyo kuti adziwidwe kusankha ngati akufuna kukhala ndi dzina loyamba ndi inu.
Mmene Mungayankhire Kuti Mukhale Mwamakhalidwe Amuna Amuna Amalonda
Kungowonjezera "Bambo" patsogolo pa dzina lawo lomaliza. Mwachitsanzo, ngati John Smith akudziwitsani, yankho lovomerezeka lingakhale, "Ndi mwayi kukumana nanu, Bambo Smith."
Mmene Mungayankhire Kuti Mukhale Mwachizoloŵezi Kuperekedwa kwa Amalonda Akazi
Nthawi zonse muzipita ndi "Ms." ngati simukudziwa kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi ali ndi udindo wotani. Kugwiritsa ntchito molakwika "Akazi" kumapweteka akazi ena, pamene kuyitana mkazi "Ms." (ngakhale pamene sakugwiritsidwa ntchito molakwika) sikumangopweteka.
Musayambe kutchula mkazi aliyense ngati " Amayi" pokhapokha atakuuzirani mwachindunji "Miss."