Malangizo 9 awa Adzakuthandizani Kulimbana ndi Zosowa Zanu
Kodi mumadzimva kuti simunena za ntchito kapena nthawi yambiri? Kodi mumamva kulemedwa ndi kusowa mtima kwa antchito anzanu? Kodi mumagwiritsa ntchito zokambirana zomwe zikukuchititsani kukhala ndi chiyembekezo?
Ndipo, kodi mumadandaula ndi banja lanu za ntchito usiku uliwonse?
Panthawi inayake, muyenera kusankhapo: kutenga nawo mbali pazomwe mukusowa kapena kusuntha ndikudzipangira malo osiyana. Kodi mukufuna kukhala ndi chiyembekezo ndi maloto ndi maola makumi awiri pa sabata (kuphatikizapo nthawi yogawana chisangalalo ndi banja lanu ndi abwenzi kunja kwa nthawi ya ntchito) mukukhala osayanjanitsika?
Kapena, kodi ndinu wokonzeka kusiya mchitidwe wosayanjanitsika umene uli m'gulu kapena chikhalidwe cha gulu lanu? Kodi ndinu wokonzeka kuthana ndi zosavomerezeka zanu ndikupanga malingaliro osiyana?
Mutha kuima ndi omwe adasiya moyo wanu m'gulu lanu. Kapena, mungathe kuyanjana ndi anthu omwe amasankha chikhalidwe chabwino komanso omwe amathera nthawi yawo, mphamvu ndi malingaliro awo mosiyana ndi gulu la anthu ogwira ntchito.
Pano pali zomwe mungachite kuti musiye kutaya mtima ndikusiya mbiri yanu ngati wogwira ntchito yolakwika.
(Inde, ngati mwakhala woipa, mbiriyi imakhalapo - chisoni.)
- Dziwani kuti ndinu munthu ndipo nthawi zina mumakumana ndi zochitika zomwe muyenera kutsata zosankha zomwe simukugwirizana nazo. Simukufuna kuwonjezera pa kusayanjanitsika ndi mawu anu, zochita zanu, osati mawu, kapena mawu. Komabe, mukufuna kuchita moona mtima kotero kuti ndinu odalirika komanso odalirika.
- Dziwani nokha bwino kuti muzindikire mkati mwanu pamene mukukhala olakwika. Pewani maganizo omwe amachititsa kuti mukhale osayanjanitsika. Lekani kudandaula za zilizonse zomwe ziri m'maganizo mwanu zomwe zimakudetsa pansi. Sinthani malingaliro anu ku chinachake chomwe mumawakonda kapena kuyembekezera kuchita. Mwachizoloŵezi, mukhoza kuphunzitsa malingaliro anu kuganizira nthawi zabwino.
- Liwu laling'ono m'mutu mwanu likusowa kuphunzitsidwa, inunso. Ngati mumamva malingaliro oipa nthawi zonse tsiku lonse, muyenera kudzichepetsa modzikumbutsa kuti mwasankha kusintha nkhaniyo. Pamene liwu likuyamba kuyankhula molakwika, lizisintha kuti likhale mawu omwe amakulimbikitsani.
- Dziwani zochitika za ntchito zomwe mumapezeka mukukhala otetezeka kapena osasamala. Chifukwa chakuti mumawadziwa, yesetsani kuzindikira pamene mukuchita ndikupewa zomwe mukuchita. (Anthu ena amadziwa bwino momwe mungapititsire ndi kukankhira makatani anu otentha mwadala, kunena.)
- Tengani nthawi kapena kuchoka nokha pamene mwathana ndi vuto lovuta. Mphindi zowerengeka zokha zokha zingasinthe momwe mumamvera ndi kuyanjana.
- Mukapeza kuti mukunyalanyaza malangizo, chilengezo, ntchito, kapena kukambirana, ganizirani za zotsatira zanu zabwino . Simungathe kukhudza chisankhocho, koma mutha kupindula nokha ndi gulu lanu la ntchito. Dzifunseni nokha zomwe mungachite kuti mupange zotsatira zanu m'malo mogwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu kukana ndi kudandaula.
- Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yokha mukuganiza tsiku ndi tsiku za zinthu zabwino za ntchito yanu ndi moyo wanu. Simukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito nthaŵi yanu yonse poganiza molakwika. Ngati palibe chinthu choyenera kuganizira, yang'anani moyo womwe mukusankha.
- Yendani kapena muchite nawo masewera omwe mumakonda. Zochita izi zingakuthandizeni kuchotsa malingaliro anu ndipo amapereka maganizo osiyana maganizo anu.
- Dzichitireni nokha. Musadzipweteke nokha kapena kudziyesera nokha pa zosankha kapena zolakwika. Ndiwe munthu. Inu mumaphunzira; mukukula. Ganizirani pa chithunzi chachikulu; musagwedezeke tsiku ndi tsiku.
Dziwani kuti chinthu chokha chimene mumayesetsa ndi m'mene mumasankhira ndi kuchitapo kanthu pazochitika zilizonse zomwe mumalenga kapena kuzidziwa. Ndikukhulupirira kuti malingaliro awa adzakuthandizani kuthetsa kusayeruzika kulikonse kumene mumakumana nawo pamalo anu antchito.
Inu mumayang'anizana ndi kusasamala kwanu. Khalani nawo.