Pamene mutenga udindo pa moyo wanu, mumakwaniritsa maloto anu
Koma popanda kutenga udindo, mumakhala ndi mwayi wowonera ntchito yanu ngati kulephera chifukwa mwalola mphepo iliyonse yakukupizani kukuwombolani, nthawi yonseyi ndikudzudzula mphepo momwe zinthu zinayambira.
Mukasiya kulephera kutsogolera malangizo anu ndi zotsatira, mumayambitsa maziko a moyo wosasangalatsa-moyo umene sumakwaniritsa malingaliro anu ndi zolinga zanu.
Musapange zifukwa
Zifukwa zoperewera, zifukwa zokhudzana ndi zosankha zanu m'moyo, zotsutsa zomwe mumamva kuti mwakwanitsa-ndi zomwe mulibe - kuganiza zovuta kugwiritsira ntchito komanso zotsatira, zosayenera ndi makhalidwe.
Kupereka zifukwa m'malo mwa kutenga udindo wa zana pazochita zanu, malingaliro anu, ndi zolinga zanu ndizozizindikiro za anthu omwe amalephera kupambana pazochita zawo komanso miyoyo yawo.
Mbali ya mphamvu yakukhala ndi udindo pazochita zanu ndikutseka mau osalankhula , osamveka . Mukamagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yolingalira pochita bwino ndi kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu , m'malo mochita zifukwa, mumamasula malo omwe mumakhala nawo chifukwa cha kusagwirizana.
Izi ndizowona makamaka ngati mau olakwika mumutu mwanu adzatengera matepi opanda chisangalalo ndikuyambiranso zochitika zoipa, zosakhutiritsa mobwereza bwereza-malonda.
Nthawi yotsatira mutadzipangira nokha chifukwa chake, kaya cholinga cha polojekitiyo, cholinga chosagwirizana, kapena ntchito yomwe mwasankha kugwira ntchito, pang'onopang'ono muzidzikumbutsa-palibe zifukwa.
Sakanizani tepi yosasinthasintha yomwe ikusewera m'maganizo mwanu ndikusiya kuyankhulana ndi zokambiranazo. Gwiritsani ntchito malingaliro anu nthawi yokonzekera bwino.
Maganizo abwino amakhala chizolowezi chothandiza. Zimapangitsa mafuta kulephera.
Momwe mungatengere udindo wanu
Anthu omwe amatenga udindo wawo pa moyo wawo amakhala osangalala komanso olamulira. Amatha kupanga zosankha chifukwa amadziwa kuti ali ndi udindo pa zosankha zawo.
Inde, ngakhale pamene zinthu zomwe simukuzilamulira zimakhala zovuta, mungathe kudziwa momwe mungayankhire pazochitikazo. Mukhoza kupanga zochitika zoopsa kapena mungathe kuzigwiritsa ntchito ngati mwayi wophunzira ndikukula.
Chofunika kwambiri pa kutenga udindo pa moyo wanu ndikuvomereza kuti moyo wanu ndi udindo wanu. Palibe amene angakhale moyo wanu chifukwa cha inu. Ndiwe wotsogolera. Ziribe kanthu kuti mukuyesera bwanji kuimba ena mlandu pa zochitika za moyo wanu, chochitika chilichonse ndicho chifukwa cha zisankho zomwe munapanga ndi kupanga.
Mukufuna kuyenda? Ndiye, pitani. Si ntchito yanu, mnzanu kapena mnzanu, mtengo, kapena nthawi yomwe imakulepheretsani kukwaniritsa maloto anu. Ndiwe. Mukufuna kuyeza chiwerengero cha mapaundi? Kenaka, idyani ndi kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ngati munthu amene angayese kulemera kwake.
Mukufuna kutengezedwa ku malo oyang'anira ? Kenaka, chitani ngati, ndikuwoneka, ndikuchita zomwe ma kasitomala opambana akuwonetsera mu gulu lanu, Pangani chikhumbo chanu, kuti simudziwe cholinga chanu ngati mukuchibisa .
Wapita kangapo? Funsani zomwe mukufunikira kuchita kuti mutenge kukwezedwa. Zidapitirirabe? Fufuzani ntchito yatsopano kuti mupitirize kukwaniritsa maloto anu.
Koposa zonse, mvetserani mawu aang'ono amenewo mumutu mwanu. Ndipo, dziwonetse nokha mukuyankhula ndi anzanu akuntchito, mamembala anu, ndi anzanu. Kodi mumamva nokha kutenga udindo kapena kuyika mlandu?
- Chotsani cholakwa, chotsani zifukwa. Ngati mwatsatanetsatane kapena phokosolo limasewera mobwerezabwereza m'maganizo mwanu, mukusintha udindo wanu pazochita zanu ndi moyo kwa ena.
- Mvetserani nokha mukamayankhula. Mukulankhulana kwanu, kodi mumamva nokha kuti mukuimba mlandu ena pa zinthu zomwe sizikuyenda momwe mukufunira? Kodi mumadziona kuti mukulozera zala za anzanu akuntchito kapena zomwe munakulira, mphamvu ya kholo lanu, ndalama zomwe mumapanga, kapena mnzanuyo? Kodi mukupangira zifukwa za zolinga zopanda malire kapena ntchito zomwe zinaphonya nthawi yawo? Ngati mungathe kumvetsera milandu yanu, mukhoza kuimitsa.
- Ngati munthu amalemekeza zopereka zomwe mumapereka zowonjezera ndikudzudzula ena chifukwa cha mavuto anu, tengani yankho lanu mozama. Pezani zochita zanu zotetezeka ndikufufuza zitsanzo ndikukulitsa kumvetsa kwanu kwa mnzanu kapena mnzanu. Anthu omwe amaganizira moyenera amayankha zambiri.
Mukufunikira
Khalani ndi moyo tsiku lililonse ngati kuti mumachita chiyani-chifukwa zimatero. Kusankha kulikonse komwe mumapanga; chilichonse chimene mumatenga-nkhani. Zosankha zanu ndi zofunika kwa inu ndikupanga moyo umene mukukhala. Zosankha zanu ndizofunika kuntchito , nanunso. Mukusankha njira ya zokolola ndi zopereka kapena, mumasankha njira ya wogwira ntchito pamtunda.
Zomwe mukuchita zimakhudza momwe bungwe likuyendera mwa njira imodzi kapena ina. Inu nthawizonse mumapanga kusiyana. Musiyeni kusiyana uko kusuntha dziko patsogolo. Mukufunikira. Ndipo, maganizo anu ndi ofunika, nanunso.
Maganizo ndi nkhani
"Ife timakhala zomwe timaganizira kwambiri." Kukamba kwabwino kwa Earl Nightingale kwa mphamvu ya malingaliro anu ndi chimodzi mwa mawu ofunikira kwambiri omwe anapangidwapo. Taganizani za izo. Maganizo anu amakhala ndi inu nthawi zonse.
Ndipo, amayamba kusewera mobwerezabwereza m'mutu mwanu. Zikhoza kukuthandizani kuti muganizire ndikuchita zabwino kapena zosiyana. Maganizo anu amatsutsa kapena amathandiza kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu.
Mvetserani mawu mu malingaliro anu. Inu mukudziwa kubowola. Maganizo oipa ndi ovuta kwambiri ndipo amatha kulamulira maganizo anu masiku. Koma, momwe mungathere ngakhale, momwe mungayankhire kapena kusintha zinthu zomwe zachitika kale, kapena momwe mungapangire zifukwa kapena kutsutsa ena sizamphamvu, kuganiza moyenera.
Pamene malingaliro anu ali oipa kapena osalimbikitsa chimwemwe chanu ndi kupambana, muyenera kusintha maganizo anu. Modzichepetsa-musadzipunthitse nokha-yongolerani kuganiza kwanu ku malingaliro omwe angakuthandizeni kuti mupambane ndi chimwemwe chanu. Maseka, ngati mungathe, mukamaganizira za nthawi imene mumaganizira zinthu zomwe zakutha.
Malingaliro anu amalamulira kupambana kwa kuyanjana kwanu. Maganizo anu ndiwo nyali zowunikira njira yanu mumdima. Nthawi zonse amatsogoleredwa ndi inu ndi zochita zanu. Saidingale, "Malingaliro amatsogolerera kutsogolo kwa malingaliro athu omwe akuwonekera tsopano." Mukhulupirire iye.