Kulemba Bwino Poyamba Kuima
Mutu ndilo lingaliro lalikulu kapena malingaliro omwe amafufuzidwa ndi ntchito yolemba.
Vuto ndi kutanthauzira kotereku ndikuti sizomwe zili zenizeni kapena zothandiza pamene mukubwera ndi mutu wa ntchito yanu. Zimayambitsa kufotokozera zofooka monga malingaliro kapena maganizo monga "imfa," "chilungamo," kapena "chikondi." Kulongosola mutu wanu mwanjira imeneyi ndi wosamvetsetseka kwambiri.
Nanga bwanji zazing'ono monga "anthu onse ndi abodza," kapena "anthu ali abwino?" Iyi ndi sitepe yoyenera komanso yothandiza kwambiri. Vuto ndi mawu awa monga mitu ndikuti iwo ali chabe malingaliro. Iwo alibe mphamvu.
Tengani Chiyimire
Njira yina yowonera mutu, yomwe ndinakumana nawo koyamba m'buku labwino la Chilengedwe! ndi John Vorhaus, akufotokozedwa motere:
Langizo, lofotokozedwa mwamphamvu ngati chofunikira, ndilo mutu wa nkhani.
Palibe amene angatsutse nkhani zazikuluzikulu, zosaiwalika zili ndi mitu yamphamvu. Ndipo mitu yamphamvu ndi malangizo . Zimaphatikizapo kuyitana kuchitapo kanthu . Kugwiritsira ntchito mawu olakwitsa sikutanthauza funso lanu.
Chomwe chimasiyanitsa mutu wamphamvu kuchokera ku malingaliro ndi malingaliro pamwambapa ndikuti zimatenga mbali . Mutu waukulu umauza anthu momwe angachitire ndi kuchita ndi ulamuliro: Landirani kusintha! Khalani Olimba! Pewani Zoipa!
Kulemba mwatsatanetsatane kumapangitsa kuti kulembera kwanu kukhale kosavuta komanso kopambana. Mukadziwa zomwe mukufuna kunena, zimapanganso kulemba mosavuta.
Kumbukirani kuti kulemba ndi mndandanda wosawoneka wosatha wa kupanga chisankho. Ngati mukumvetsetsa zomwe mutu wanu ukuchita ndiye kuti zovutazo sizili zovuta.
Nthawi iliyonse yomwe muli ndi chisankho chochita, sankhani njira yomwe ikuthandizira mutu wanu ndipo mukumanga nkhani yamphamvu, yogwirizana.
Kodi Ichi Sichidzalalikira?
Chifukwa chakuti mukusankha mutu wamphamvu, wophunzitsira umatanthauza kuti mukulalikira. Kukhala ndi mutu wokamba bwino umene ukukhazikika sikutanthauza kuti mukulemba chilembo, kapena "kubisa" uthenga wamakhalidwe anu m'nthano zanu.
Mutu wanu suyenera kukhala wozama kuti ukhale womveka komanso wamphamvu. Sichiyenera kusonyeza cholinga "chokwanira" kapena kuyesa kuthetsa mavuto a dziko lapansi.
Taganizirani filimu yosangalatsa yokondweretsa ngati Yokha . Mutu wake ndiwo "Tetezani kwanu!" Ndizoyera, zamphamvu ndipo zimayima popanda kulalikira. Pali zosangalatsa zosangalatsa zambirimbiri za mutu wakuti "Funafunani Kubwezera!" zomwe sizomwe zili ndi uthenga wamakhalidwe abwino.
Kodi Mutu Ungasinthe?
Mutu umene mumasankha kuyambira sikuti nthawi zonse mumatha. Ngati izo zisintha monga momwe nkhani yanu ikupita patsogolo, ndiye omasuka kuisintha. Koma poyambira ndi mutu wamphamvu mu malingaliro, iwe udzakhala wosasintha kubwereranso ngati kuli kofunikira.
Njira imodzi yobweretsera mutu kumayambiriro kwa ntchito yolemba ikuchokera kwa John Vorhaus. Iye akupempha kudzifunsa nokha, "Ngati iwe ukhoza kuphunzitsa munthu wina pa dziko chinthu chimodzi, kodi chinthu chomwecho chikanakhala chiyani?" Yankho la funso limeneli ndi mutu wanu.
Kusankha Kusankha
Kumbukirani kuti ngati mumasankha mutu kapena ayi, nkhani zanu zidzakhala ndi imodzi. Zingakhale zofooka, mwina sizingakhale zomwe mumalingalira mfundo ya nkhani yanu , koma idzakhalapo. Ndipo owerenga adzakwera pa izo.
Ngakhale kuti mwatsatanetsatane wa nkhani yanu idzafalikira moganizira maganizo a wowerenga, mutuwo umakhala ndi anthu. Choncho mwatsatanetsatane kusankha mutu umene mukufuna kusiya ndi owerenga anu m'malo mousiya mwangozi.
Kotero nthawi yotsatira mukamangoganiza za nkhani , yesetsani kuyamba ndi mutu wamphamvu, wophunzitsira ndikuwona zomwe zimachitika. Inu mukhoza kudabwa.