Nkhaniyi ikupereka malingaliro kwa abwana m'madera onse kulimbitsa luso lawo lothandizira msonkhano kuti athetse bwino zokolola.
Kumene Otsogolera Amalakwika ndi Misonkhano
Maofesi ambiri amaganiza kuti amadziwa momwe angathamangire msonkhano.
Amapanga zokambirana, amachita zonse zomwe akuyankhula, ndikupanga zofuna zonse. Ngakhale izi zingamveke zosavuta komanso zogwira ntchito kwa abwana, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosokoneza nthawi ya anthu, ndipo sizimagwira ntchito yothandizira timuyi. Ndipotu, zimakhala zosiyana ngati antchito amatha kusiya, kutsogolera kwa bwana yemwe akufuna kuti akhale woyang'anira.
Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe abwana samaphatikizapo antchito awo pamisonkhano, kuphatikizapo:
- Kuopa kulola kupita.
- Chikhulupiriro chonyenga chakuti chifukwa chakuti ali ndi udindo, amayenera kupereka mayankho onse.
- Kusadalira maluso kapena kuthetsa mavuto a antchito awo.
- Kusasowa kwa luso lotsogolera zokambirana.
Ngakhale zinthu zitatu zoyambirira ndizo khalidwe la azimayi osauka, omaliza, luso lothandizira, angaphunzire ndi kulimbikitsidwa ndi kuchita.
Kulimbikitsa Maluso Otsogolera Osonkhana
Mwakutanthauzira, njira zowonetsera, " Kuti pakhale zosavuta kapena zovuta; kuthandiza patsogolo . "Kuti mtsogoleri apange msonkhano (mmalo mochita izi), iwo ayenera kukhala okonzeka kusiya mphamvu zawo ndikukhala otseguka ku zotsatira ndi njira zosiyana.
Kukonzekera bwino kwa misonkhano kumaphatikizapo kupeza aliyense wogwira ntchito pakuzindikira ndi kuthetsa mavuto. Nthawi zonse magulu amalimbikitsa njira zowonjezera zowonjezera kuposa momwe aliyense woyang'anira angathe kukhalira komanso adzathandizira kukhazikitsa njirazo.
Nazi maluso asanu ndi anayi oyenerera kuti mukonzekere msonkhano, zonse zomwe zingaphunzire ndi kupindula ndi kuchita:
- Agenda kukonzekera. Msonkhano wothandizira umayamba ndi ndondomeko ya ndondomeko. Kusankha nkhani zomwe zimaphatikizapo kutenga nawo mbali, mwachitsanzo, vuto loti lidzathetsedwe ndilokhudzidwa kwambiri kuposa nkhani "zowunikira". Komabe, nthawi yochuluka iyenera kugawidwa pofuna kulowetsa gulu.
- Malo ndi nyengo. Zinthu zogulitsa! Pamene anthu sakuvutika, sangawonane, samva, kapena ali ndi njala, zotsatira za msonkhano zidzasokonekera. Phunzirani momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito zinthu monga njira yolimbikitsira kutenga mbali ndikuchotsani zopinga.
- Kufunsa mafunso. Mafunso akulu amachititsa kukambirana kwakukulu. Nkhaniyi, " Mafunso Oopsya a Coaching 70 pogwiritsa ntchito GROW Model ," imapereka zowonjezera zokambirana.
- Kumvetsera mwachidwi. Pamene abwana amalembera, amayang'ana kumvetsetsa, ndikufunsa mafunso otsogolera, amalimbikitsa kutenga nawo mbali ndikusunga zokambiranazo. Mu " Mmene Mungakhalire Omvera Wabwino ," Ndikugawana malingaliro pa kulimbikitsa luso lanu lomvetsera mwaluso.
- Kulingalira. Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti amadziwa kale momwe angaganizire. Komabe, nthawi zambiri samatero. Muzowonjezereka kwambiri, kupindula kwa kulingalira kumachepetsedwa ndi kusowa koyendetsa kayendetsedwe kake, mavuto akuluakulu a ndale kapena ndale ndi luso lophunzitsira bwino. Anthu ambiri sanaonepo mphamvu ya zokambirana zokambirana bwino. Onaninso " Njira 15 Zokugwa pa Gawo Lopanga Ubongo " zomwe simukuyenera kuchita - ndiye chitani zosiyana!
- Maluso omanga mgwirizano. Kugwirizana sikukutanthauza kuti aliyense ayenera kuvomereza ndi chisankho. Izi zikutanthauza kuti aliyense ali ndi mwayi wogawana nawo malingaliro awo ndi kukambirana maganizo. Kuwunikira moyenerera kudzawatsogolera gulu kuchoka ku lingaliro logawanapo pakukula kwa chisankho chogwira ntchito . Kufikira mgwirizano kumatenga nthawi yochulukirapo, koma nthawi zambiri amapeza kugula mwamphamvu kuchokera ku gulu lonse. Komabe, kumbukirani kuti mgwirizano si cholinga chachikulu. Chisankho chothandiza pa vuto lomwe liri pafupi ndizofunika kwambiri. Onani Chisankho Chogwirizana Chachisanu ndi chimodzi Cholinga Chokhazikitsa Zambiri pa momwe mungatsogolere gulu kupyolera mukugwirizanitsa zochita.
- Kusamvana kwa mikangano. Nthawi zonse pamene pali anthu ambiri ogwira ntchito pothetsa vuto, kusagwirizana sikungapeweke. Ndipotu, kutsutsana pa ntchito kapena nkhaniyi kumaonedwa ndi ochita kafukufuku wa timu monga gawo la kupanga bwino kupanga zisankho. A manejala ayenera kuphunzira momwe angagwiritsire ntchito mphamvu ya nkhondo mwa njira yabwino. Onani: "Kuthetsa Kusamvana kwa Magulu Amng'ono. "
- Maluso osalankhulana. Ngakhale kuti ochita kafukufuku amatsutsana zenizeni, ambiri amavomereza kuti zoposa 50 peresenti ya kuyankhulana sizowona. Mtsogoleri amayenera kuŵerenga liwu la chilankhulo ndi thupi la gululo kuti aone momwe alili, chikhumbo, ndi kudzipereka.
- Kujambula. Kuwongolera gulu la aluso kumaphatikizapo kudziŵa nthawi yopita ku tchati chapafesi kapena bolodi lachizungu kuti atenge zomwe anthu akunena. Kuchita zimenezi kumapangitsa anthu kumverera ngati malingaliro awo amamveka ndipo amayamikira, ndipo amatumikira ngati mbiri yamtengo wapatali yogwiritsidwa ntchito pokonza ndondomeko ndikutsata.
Mfundo Yofunika Kwambiri:
Nthawi ndi chinthu chamtengo wapatali pamoyo ndi kuntchito. Yesetsani kuyang'anira misonkhano kuti mukhale oyenera komanso ogwira mtima. Kuphunzira, kuchita ndi kugwiritsa ntchito luso lothandizira zisanu ndi zitatu zomwe zili pamwambapa ndi malo abwino kuyamba.
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Kusinthidwa ndi Zojambula Zochepa