Kodi muli nawo limodzi mwa "No Whining!" Zizindikiro muofesi yanu?
Ngati ndi choncho, ndi chiyani chomwe chikuwuza antchito anu? Kwa aliyense koma iwe, umati: "Ingochita ntchito yako ndi kusunga pakamwa pako."
Pokhapokha ngati palibe maziko olimba a kuyankhulana ndi omasuka awiri, apa pali zinthu khumi ndi chimodzi zomwe simukumva kuchokera kwa antchito anu:
1. Ndikufuna ntchito yatsopano. Siziyenera kudabwitsidwa pamene wogwira ntchito akukupatsani maulendo awiri a sabata. Izi zikachitika, ndichedwa kuchepetsa-kupereka kuti mupitirize wogwira ntchitoyo. Panali chifukwa (kapena chifukwa) wogwira ntchitoyo anayamba kufunafuna malo atsopano. Chinsinsi cha kusunga antchito anu opambana ndikutsegula zitsimezo zosakhutira musanayambe kukhala osungunuka ndipo mukudzifunsa nokha kuti mukupitilirapo.
2. Sindinatanganidwa kwambiri ndipo ndikutha kugwira ntchito yambiri. Osati antchito ambiri akupita kukafunsa abwana awo kuti apeze ntchito yambiri.
Anthu ambiri adzapeza zinthu zoti achite kuti akwaniritse masiku awo. Monga mtsogoleri, ndi kwa inu kuti muwonetsetse kuti antchito anu akutsutsidwa, opindulitsa, ndipo ali ndi udindo wapamwamba, ntchito yowonjezera.
3. Muli oopsa pa ______. Aliyense ali ndi zofooka - komanso malo okhudzidwa - ndipo ndizoopsa kwa ogwira ntchito kuti aziwatsogolera kwa abwana awo.
Kupempha mayankho kumathandiza, komanso chofunika kwambiri, kuyankha mwa njira yopanda chitetezo kudzatsegula chitseko cha antchito anu kuti akuthandizeni kuzindikira zam'maso anu.
4. Mukuwonetsa okondedwa. Kodi ndinu "abwenzi" ndi antchito anu ena osati ena? Mungaganize kuti maubwenzi anu ndi antchito ena kunja kwa ntchito sakhala ndi mphamvu pa momwe mumawachitira, koma mwayi ndikulenga malingaliro omwe akukhudza maubwenzi anu.
5. Tikukhumba kuti mutuluke kuti tithe kumasuka ndikulekerera tsitsi lathu. Inde, ndi bwino kuti mulowe nawo ogwiritsira ntchito zakumwa pambuyo pa ntchito. Komabe, ndizofunikira kuthana ndi mfundo yakuti NDI bwana, ndipo antchito onse adzalankhula za abwana awo, ngakhale oyang'anira akuluakulu. Ponena za kusonkhana, tsatirani "kugula limodzi ndi kunja" lamulo la thupi.
6. Simukudziwa zomwe ndikuchita ndipo ndikuwoneka kuti sindikusamala. Ngakhale palibe wogwira ntchito akufuna ntchito ya micromanager, amayembekezera kuti abwana awo amvetse bwino zomwe akuchita. Chofunika kwambiri, iwo akufuna kudziwa kuti ntchito yawo ndi yofunika ndiyamikiridwa.
7. Wogwira naye ntchito akuchoka ndi kupha ndipo simukuwoneka kuti mulibe chidziwitso. Palibe amene amakonda kukonda anzawo ogwira nawo ntchito. Akanafuna kuti mtsogoleri wawo ali wochenjera kwambiri kuti adziwe yemwe akukoka kulemera kwawo ndi amene sali.
Onani momwe Mungagwirire ndi Ovuta Ogwira Ntchito .
8. Moni, ndikuyesera kulankhula ndi inu, ndipo simukumvetsera. Kodi mukupereka antchito anu 100%? Kodi muli pakanthawi? Kapena, kodi mumayang'ana maimelo, makina osiyanasiyana , kapena mumakumbukira zina? Antchito anu akuyenerera chidwi chanu, ndipo amanyansidwa ngati sakuganiza kuti akuchipeza.
Onani Mmene Mungakhalire Omvetsera Mwamvetsera .
9. Simukusangalatsa ngati momwe mukuganizira. Pano pali zovuta zowonongeka: chifukwa chakuti antchito anu akuseka kuseka kwanu kumaseketsa sizikutanthauza kuti ndinu oseketsa. Pezani nokha - ndizo zomwe timachita kuzungulira abwana athu.
10. Sindimakukonda. Amayi ambiri amafuna kuti azikondedwa ndi antchito awo, koma kufuna "kukondedwa" ndi cholinga chosayenera komanso cholakwika monga mtsogoleri.
Utsogoleri si mpikisano wotchuka - ndikofunika kwambiri kulemekezedwa.
11. Ndili ndi malingaliro apamwamba pa momwe mungapangitsire zinthu mozungulira apa - koma simukuwoneka kuti mukufuna kuwamva. Kodi mumadzitchinjiriza pamene wogwira ntchito amapereka lingaliro la momwe angakonzerere chinachake? Kodi mumayankha "tinayesa izo ndipo sizinagwire ntchito," kapena "si momwe timachitira zinthu mozungulira pano?" Ngati mutachita zimenezi nthawi zambiri, mwamsanga simudzatha kupeza malingaliro awo ndipo inu mudzadabwa chifukwa antchito anu sakulikonzanso kwambiri.
Onani Njira 11 Zotsogolera Otsogoleredwa ndi Ogwira Ntchito .
Mfundo Yofunika Kwambiri:
Ngakhale kuti padzakhala nthawi zonse wogwira ntchito malingaliro kuti bwino kukhalabe osadziwika, samalani kuti musatseke mosazindikira, kulankhulana momasuka, kotseguka, njira ziwiri. Zimene simumva zingakhale zovulaza ku thanzi lanu labwino.
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Kusinthidwa ndi Zojambula Zochepa