Pa maliro ake, ndinayankhula ndi mayi yemwe anali mkulu wa ofesi ya ofesi yake pa ntchito yomwe inali yomaliza ntchito yake. "Pamene tinkakhala kulikonse," adatero, "ndipo adakumana ndi anthu omwe adamugwirira ntchito kale, iwo ankandiuza kuti" Ndiwe mwayi. Frank anali bwana wamkulu ! "Ndipo," Ndikulakalaka ndikanamuthandiza pa ntchito yanga yonse. "
Nchiyani chomwe chimalimbikitsa kukhulupirika kotere kwa ena? Kodi anaphunzira bwanji?
Nayi nkhani ya Frank.
Ntchito Yoyamba: Navy
Frank anali mwana wamba yemwe amakula mu mtima wa America. Mnyamata wanzeru, amene makolo ake anamupangira kuchita homuweki, ntchito zake zapakhomo, ndi maphunziro ake. Anamaliza maphunziro ake pamwamba pa sukulu ya sekondale. Atamaliza maphunzirowo, adachoka panyumbamo ku US Naval Academy ku Annapolis, Maryland panthawi yoyamba nkhondo yoyamba yapadziko lonse itangoyamba.
Kuwombera kwa Pearl Harbor kunapangitsitsa maphunziro a zaka zinayi ku Academy kwa zaka zitatu ndipo anapita ku nkhondo pa 22. Anapeza nyenyezi ya Bronze panthawi ya nkhondo, nkhondo yachiwiri yapamwamba ikugwedeza nkhondo za US Navy. Anandiuza kamodzi za ntchito yomwe azimayi a m'bwalo lake adawonetsa kuti adawapulumutsa ku ziwonongeko mobwerezabwereza. Iye sanatchulepo kuti adaphunzitsa amuna amenewo ndipo amamvetsa bwino ntchito yawo.
Nkhondo itatha, iye anatsalira ku Navy koma adabwerera kusukulu ndikupeza Masters Degree ku Petroleum Engineering.
Anthu ambiri m'ntchito yake anali ndi madigiri apamwamba pa nthawiyo, koma nthawi zonse ankakonda kuphunzira ndipo ankakhulupirira kuti zidzathandiza ntchito yake.
Pambuyo pa mgwirizano wa Korea ndi kubadwa kwa mwana wake wachinayi, Frank adasankha ntchito yomwe inalepheretsa mwayi wake kukhala Mzimayi, koma anamulola kuti azikhala ndi nthawi yambiri kunyumba ndi mkazi wake ndi ana ake.
Anandiuza kuti sadadandaule ndi zosankhazo. Atatha zaka makumi atatu, adachoka ku Navy monga mkulu.
Zitsamba Zatsopano ndi Zopanda Kudzikonda:
Atasamuka kuchoka ku Navy, adafuna chinachake choti achite. Anatenga makalasi ena ku koleji ya komweko ndipo adatha kuphunzitsa masamu kumeneko. Anatenga kalasi yopanga mapiri ku koleji ndipo, ali ndi zaka 55, anakwera pampando wa phiri la Rainier. Iye anapanga ascents asanu monga mtsogoleri wamtambo ndikukhala membala wa gulu lonse lodzipereka la Olympic Mountain Rescue. Ndimakumbukira nkhani ina yomwe adandiwuza za "ana" angapo omwe adatayika m'mapiri ndipo gulu lake linalowa kuti liwapeze. "Ana" awa anali ndi zaka makumi anayi, koma anali ndi moyo wabwino ndipo anali ndi zaka 20.
Ntchito Yachiwiri
Ali ndi zaka 30, adapeza mosavuta Professional Engineer license m'mayiko angapo ndipo anakhala zaka 15 zotsatira ngati injini yapamadzi. Amayi ambiri omwe amamulemba anali aang'ono. Ena ankadandaula kuti amatha kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano kapena kuyenda mofulumira. Iye mwakachetechete anatsimikizira kuti onsewo akulakwitsa. Ndipo adalandira ufulu wa US kwa umodzi wa malingaliro ake.
Ndinakondwera kuti ndimuyang'anire monga Engineering Manager wa makina opanga mapulani. Ngakhale kuti amuna awiri anali ndi udindo pakati pa ife, aliyense amene anali kumudziwa adakali ndi ulemu wapadera komanso wapamwamba kwa iye - kuchokera pulezidenti wa kampani kwa mlembi wake wakale.
Kupuma pantchito?
Kupuma pantchito kwa Frank sikunatanthauze kukhala pafupi. Anagwiritsa ntchito masewera ake a galasi, adanyamula masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndipo adakhalabe wolimbikira mu tchalitchi chake komanso m'deralo. Anapereka kafukufuku ndi chithandizo kwa mkazi wake polemba mabuku a mbiri ya Navy.
Pokhala Mtsogoleri wa ku Naval Museum, adakonza ndikuyendetsa kayendetsedwe ka nyumba yosungirako zakale zakale ku nyumba yosungirako zakale kupita ku malo atsopano. Zojambula zosakonzedwanso, kuchokera ku chipolopolo chophwanyika mpaka kunyozedwa kwa nsanja yosungirako nsomba, zinasuntha popanda kutayika. Kusuntha kunatsirizidwa pa nthawi.
Tamverani kwa Amayi Anu
Ulendo womaliza wa moyo wake wothandizira unayamba, mosasamala, paulendo wopita ku mapiri ndi mkazi wake. Ali panjira, iwo adayimika ku sitolo yachikale ndipo adawona cello. Anakumbukira maphunziro a cello amene adatenga ali mnyamata ndipo adadzifunsa ngati akadatha kusewera.
Iye ankachita, ankaphunzira, ndipo ankachita zina zambiri. Iye adafufuzira nyimbo yake ya symphony ndipo adapatsidwa udindo wachitatu wa cello. (Panali ochepa maselo atatu mu oimba aang'ono.)
Frank anachita nawo mbali kwambiri m'gulu la symphony, monga momwe anachitira ndi chilichonse chimene ankaganiza kuti n'chofunika kuchita. Anasankhidwa ku Bungwe la Atsogoleri ndipo potsiriza anakhala Purezidenti wawo. Pa nthawi yomwe ankasewera komaliza ndi symphony, adali atapambana kwambiri pomanga gulu la oimba lomwe anali kusewera cello yachiwiri.
Mwa zithunzi zomwe amakonda kwambiri, ali kale mu tuxedo yake ndipo amachita kaye kawiri kawiri; mdzukulu wake wamwamuna wazaka zitatu akukhala moyang'anizana naye ndipo 'akusewera' violin ya pulasitiki.
Utsogoleri
Kotero chinali chiani pa munthu wamba yemwe anamupanga iye mtsogoleri wamkulu chotero? Kodi iye anabadwa nawo? Kodi anaphunzirapo? Nchifukwa chiyani anthu, kwenikweni, amamutsatira kupita kunkhondo? Kodi adapeza bwanji ulemu ndi kukhulupirika kwa oyendetsa sitimayo? kuchokera kwa mlembi kwa pulezidenti wa kampani; Kuchokera kwa bwenzi la gofu kupita kwa purezidenti wa boarding school? Inu mumangogwira naye ntchito kamodzi kuti mudziwe kuti anali wapadera. Ngakhale omwe sanatsutsane naye adadziwa kuti anali wapadera komanso wapadera. Nazi zina mwa zinthu zomwe adazichita zomwe zinamuthandiza kupambana kutsogolera moyo wake wonse.
- Iye ankadziwa chimene iye ankafuna kuti achite. Zimakhala zovuta kuti ena achite zomwe mukufuna ngati simukudziwa zomwe mukufuna. Ngati mukuyang'anira malo operekera makasitomala, cholinga chanu kukhala ndi ntchito yotsika mtengo kapena kuyankha mafoni onse mkati mwa masekondi 90. Cholinga sichinali chofunikira monga kudziwa chomwe chiri.
- Iye anawauza anthu choti achite, osati momwe angachitire izo. Iye anali munthu wanzeru kwambiri, wophunzira kwambiri, koma iye ankadziwa kuti iye sanali wochenjera kuposa aliyense. Analimbikitsa anthu kuganiza, kukonza, kupanga luso. Iye sanavomereze mwakachetechete zomwe mwabwera nazo, koma akuyembekeza kuti mubwere ndi chinachake choyenera.
- Iye ankachita zolembapo. Asanayambe vuto latsopano, nthawi zonse amayesa kufufuza zomwe ena adayesa zomwe zinapambana kapena alephera. Iye anafufuza zopinga ndi otsutsa. Anayesetsa kudzipatsanso yekha mwayi wopambana mwa kuphunzira zambiri monga poyamba. Nthawi zonse anali kuphunzira komanso kuganiza nthawi zonse.
- Anatsogoleredwa ndi chitsanzo. Iye anakankhira anthu ake molimbika. Iye adawafunsa ambiri. Koma palibe amene anagwira ntchito molimbika kuposa momwe anachitira. Anali woyamba komanso womaliza kuti achoke. Ndipo iye anagwira ntchito mwakhama nthawi yonse yomwe iye anali kumeneko. Iye ankadziwa kusewera, koma adadziwa momwe angalekanitse ntchitoyo.
- Iye ankafuna kupambana , osati ungwiro. Ankayembekezera kuti mugwire ntchito molimbika monga momwe anachitira ndi kukhala wodzipereka ku cholinga chomwe anali. Iye sanayembekezere kuti muchite zambiri kapena momwe adachitira, komabe iye anaumiriza, kuti, muchite zambiri komanso momwe mungathere.
- Anasamalira anthu ake. Iye ankadziwa aliyense amene amamugwirira ntchito payekha. Iye ankadziwa mphamvu zawo ndi zofooka zawo, zolinga zawo, mantha awo. Nthawi zonse ankatsutsidwa kuchokera kunja kwa gulu, koma aliyense wa iwo atenge ulemerero chifukwa cha zomwe wapereka.
- Iye anali wodzichepetsa. Sindinamvetse chifukwa chake. Ndi zonse zomwe adazichita komanso zomwe adazichita m'moyo wake, nthawi zonse anali wodzichepetsa.
- Iye anali ndi khalidwe. Iye anali woona mtima ndi woona. Iye anali wodalirika. Pamene adakupatsani mawu ake, nthawi zonse mumadziwa kuti mungadalire. Iye sanachite chinyengo. Iye sanayese kupeza njira yosavuta yochotsera vuto. Iye sanadandaule pa mfundo zake. Iye sanali wopepuka, koma apo panali malire omwe iye sakanakhoza kuwoloka.
Mtsogoleri wabwino yemwe ndakhala ndikumudziwa posachedwapa anamwalira. Iye anali bambo anga. Ndimuphonya.