Panthawi yomweyi ndinaganiza kuti: "Dziwani nokha, mubwere ndi nkhani yabwino chifukwa iyi yotsimikiziridwa ikuchititsa anthu kukhala osasangalala". Ndinachita nthabwala kwambiri ndikuwathokoza chifukwa cha mankhwalawa. Pambuyo pake, mmodzi mwa akuluakulu a bungwe la CEO adadza kwa ine ndipo anati gululi linali chete chifukwa anali osakonzekera msinkhu wokhazikika komanso wovuta mu nkhaniyi. Nayi nkhaniyi ndi maphunziro omwe taphunzira.
Mmene Ndathamangidwira
Si nthawi zonse uthenga wabwino pamene mutu wa HR umakuitanani ndikukupemphani kuti mudye chakudya chamasana. Ndinaphunzira kuti njira yovuta. Atachita zimenezo, sindinkadziwa kuti ndikuchotsedwa ntchito yomwe ndakhala ndikukhala kwa miyezi yosachepera 12. Ntchitoyi inali chitukuko chachikulu pazitsulo za kusintha kwakukulu kuntchito ina yamalonda. M'malo modzidalira pa luso langa, ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito yovuta. Bzinali lidayamba kwa zaka ziwiri. Ife tinali kumbuyo pa luso.
Ikadakhala khomo lokhala ndi anthu oyambirira omwe adakhala miyezi yosakwana 24. Kuthamangitsidwa kuntchito mu miyezi 12 kunali mbiri yatsopano! Mpaka pomwe, ntchito yanga sinali yophweka komanso yopititsa patsogolo zaka ziwiri, CEO recognitions, stock options. Kotero, ndithudi, izi zinadabwitsa.
Ayi, kukonzedwa, kunadabwitsa. Kwa munthu wapamwamba kwambiri ngati ine panali manyazi ambiri ndipo usiku wambiri wosagona ndikudabwa kuti "Ndapitako pati?"
Zomwe Ndimaphunzira Kuchokera pa Kuthamangitsidwa
- Kuthamangitsidwa kumapanga umunthu . Ndiyenera kuvomereza, sizodabwitsa kwa ego. Kusamuka kwanga mofulumira m'mabungwe omwe ndagwira nawo ntchito kunandipatsa kudzidalira kwambiri. Chimene sindinali kudzichepetsa . Ndinkaganiza kuti sindingathe kugonjetsedwa ndipo ndingathe kuthana ndi vuto lililonse, kaya ndilovuta kapena lozikika. Izo zinalibe kanthu kuti ine ndinalibe chidziwitso mu bungwe la bizinesi limenelo ndipo kupanikizidwa kunali kukwera pa kusintha kofulumira. Ndinazindikira kuti sindinali wokonzeka kuopsa komwe ndinatenga.
- Tiyenera kubwezeretsa utsogoleri . Nthawi zambiri timaganiza za atsogoleri ngati anthu omwe ali ndi luso, kupanga zosankha, kusintha zinthu patsogolo. Amatsogolera kuchokera kutsogolo, akuwonetsa masomphenya a zomwe zikuyenera kuchitidwa ndikupangitsa ena kuti achite. Chimene ndinaphunzira ndi chakuti izi ndizomwe zimapangitsa kuti utsogoleri ukhale wochepa kwambiri. Mwa kufotokoza kwina kolakwika kwa utsogoleri ine ndinamva kupanikizika kwakukulu kuti ndidziwe zonse, kusonyeza kufooka kulikonse kapena kusatsimikizika za mayankho ku zovuta zomwe ife tinakumana nazo, ndi kuvomereza kuti ine ndinali kulakwitsa. Sindinapemphe thandizo. Sindinagwire ntchito yabwino kuyang'anira zoyembekeza chifukwa cha malingaliro olakwika a udindo ndi kulimba mtima. Ndikukhulupirira kuti tifunika kupeza malo oti atsogoleri azikhala osatetezeka, kunena kuti sakudziwa pamene mayankho sakuwonekera kapena kuti zinthu zikuyenda mwamsanga. Zidzakhala bwino kutumikira mabungwe athu komanso ubwino wa zisankho zomwe timapanga.
- Kulephera sikukupangitsani kuti mulephere . Kuthamangitsidwa kunali kuyitana kofunikira kwambiri. Ndinaphunzira kuti kulephera ntchito sikunandipangitse kulephera. Patapita masabata angapo ndikuchita manyazi kwambiri, ndinaphunzira kuti ndidzapulumuka. Kampaniyo inandipatsa kusunthira kwina kumalo ena. Munthu yemwe analowa m'malo mwa ine anali mnzanga pa timu ndipo ndinaphunzira (ndi vuto lina) momwe ndingapezere zomwe zinkachitika m'mbuyomu kuti mupite ku tsogolo labwino.
Cholinga changa polemba izi ndikutilimbikitsa tonsefe kuti tiyankhule za zofooka zathu. Kuchita izi kumatikumbutsa kuti sitingagonjetsedwe. Amakula kudzichepetsa. Amaphunzitsa anthu otizungulira kuti zolephera sizimapangitsa mtsogoleri kulephera. Ndinkaopa kwambiri kulephera ndipo zinanditengera kanthawi ndikuvomereza kuti ndinali pakati pawo. Zimapanga chikhalidwe chovomerezeka kwambiri pomwe anthu angathe kukambirana zachangu poyera ndikulimbikitsa kulimbikitsa ndi kukonzanso kwakukulu .
Koposa zonse zimatikumbutsa kuti tikufunikira tonsefe, omwe akutsogolera kuchokera kutsogolo, omwe akutsogolera kumbuyo, omwe amachokera kumbali komanso kuti maudindowa sakukhazikitsidwa mothandizidwa ndi olamulira koma amatha kusintha malinga ndi luso ndizofunika kwambiri pazochitika ndipo ali nazo zomwe zimapezeka kupezeka.
Potseka, ndikuyembekeza kuti mutenga nthawi yofufuza zina mwa zolephera zanu ndikuzigawana ndi anthu omwe mumagwira nawo ntchito. Icho chinapanga kugwirizana kwakukulu ndi anthu mu chipinda tsiku limenelo kwa ine, ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti izo zikuchitikirani inu. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndizovuta kukopa anthu pokhapokha atamva kuti alumikizana ndi ife.
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Henna Inam ndi wokamba nkhani, wolemba bwino ndi CEO wa Transformational Leadership Inc. Buku lake Wired for Authenticity (May, 2015) limakhala ngati mwala wa atsogoleri omwe amafuna kuti zikhale zowona komanso zowonongeka pa malo ogwira ntchito ofulumira 24/7. Lowani ku blog yake pa www.transformleaders.tv kapena kulumikizana @hennainam.