Osati Groan, Tsiku Usiku Umakhaladi Wokwatirana Wokondwa
Ngati mutenga mphindi zingapo tsiku lililonse kuti mukhale osangalala, aliyense adzakhala bwino - kuphatikizapo inu.
Usana Usiku Ntchito
Ndilo uphungu wakale kwambiri pa chifukwa - tsiku lausiku kumathandiza kuti banja lanu likhale losangalala.
Simukusowa kukhala ndi mwana wobatizidwa Lachisanu usiku uliwonse, monga Barack ndi Michelle Obama, koma nthawi zonse mumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi imodzi kwa mnzanuyo.
Ntchito yolerera ana ndi kuthandizira banja imadya. Ziri zophweka kuti banja lanu likhale lachangu. Mukakhala ndi nthawi yokhazikika, mumakakamizika kumanga kugwirizana.
Ngati mumakhudzidwa ndi mtengo wa chisamaliro cha ana kwa mlungu uliwonse wausiku, pangani kulenga. Kodi mungapemphe mnzako kuti azikhala mnyumba mwanu pa Loweruka masana kuti mutuluke kofi ngati banja?
Kapena ganizirani kukhala ndi mmawa wokhazikika - chakudya cham'mbuyo mukatha kubwerera ku sukulu ya basi. Mungathe kukambirana maola ochepa ogwira ntchito kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yofika mochedwa. Monga bonasi, mudzakhala osamala komanso mwatsopano. Mwinanso mungapeze kukambirana mosavuta ndipo muli ndi mphamvu zambiri kwa mnzanu poyerekeza ndi chakudya chamadzulo kumapeto kwa sabata.
Ganizirani za Wokondedwa Wanu Choyamba
Tangoganizani ngati m'mawa uliwonse mudadzuka mukufunsa kuti, "Ndingatani kuti tsiku la mwamuna wanga likhale lapadera komanso losangalatsa?" Ndipo ngati iye anawuka akufunsa funso lomwelo? Mudzadatsimikiziridwa kuti ndinu banja losangalala.
Tsopano ndikuzindikira kuti sizochitika tsiku ndi tsiku. Nthawi zambiri timadzuka tikamaganiza kuti, "Kodi ndi nthawi yanga yowonetsera mpira?" Koma ngati mungayese kuika mzanu kapena mnzanu poyamba, ndipo amachitanso chimodzimodzi kwa inu, mudzakhala patsogolo.
Ndipo nthawi zimenezo pamene inu aliyense mumaganiza za winayo poyamba? Ndili mphindi yokongola powerenga mbiri ya O Henry.
Kulankhulana Ndi Mawu
Banja losangalala lingakhale losavuta ngati tonse titha kuwerenga maganizo. Mwamwayi, mwamuna wanga amalankhula momveka bwino mwakumva mawu omwe ndikulankhula. Ine ndikugulitsa wanu nayenso.
Musaganize kuti mnzanuyo alingalire chifukwa chake mwakwiya kapena kudziwa zomwe zingakuthandizeni. Muyenera kupempha zomwe mukufunikira, kaya ndi nthawi yokha kapena kukumbirani kwakukulu kapena kuti atenge masokosi ake osayera kuchokera pansi.
Khulupirirani ine, iye akuthokozani chifukwa cholemba yankho la zovuta zanu. Amakukondani kuposa wina aliyense padziko lapansi - akufuna kuthetsa vutoli.
Mukamapempha zomwe mukufunikira, kaya ndi chithandizo chamumtima kapena ntchito zapakhomo, zimathandiza kugwiritsa ntchito njira zomwe amayi adakuphunzitsani. Pempho lomwelo limachokera mosiyana kwambiri ngati lakwanitsa ndi kumwetulira ndi kukumbatirana, mosiyana ndi nkhope yoyera kapena nkhope yamwano.
Nena Zikomo ndi Sorry
Ndipo pamene ndiri pa mutu, ambiri a banja apulumutsidwa ndi kupepesa kwabwino. Ngakhale ngati simukuganiza kuti mwachita cholakwika, simungathe kunena moona mtima kuti mukupepesa kuti muwone wokhumudwa kwambiri?
Wokondedwa wanu atakwiya kapena kukhumudwa, chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndikumva mkwiyo wake.
Musadziteteze ndikufotokozerani. Muuzeni kuti mumamvetsera mwa kupereka mphatso ya chifundo. Sichikupha iwe kunena "Pepani," ndipo kungangotenga mphepo kuchokera mumsewu wake. Ndithudi, zimamulola kuti avomereze kuti nayenso anali wolakwika.
Ndipo pamene mwamuna wanu amakuchitirani chinthu chapadera, ngakhale mutapempha, chitsimikizani kunena kuti zikomo. Palinso njira zowonjezera zambiri zopindulitsa munthu, kotero ganizirani chimodzi mwa izo.
Gwiranani Mmodzi
Izo zimatibweretsa ife ku chipinda chogona. Inde, moyo wokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi gawo limodzi la mabanja ambiri okondwa. Koma chofunika kwambiri ndi kukukumbatira, kukupsompsonana ndi kukhudza zomwe zimakukumbutsani za nthawi yomwe mudakumana ndi chikondi. Pamaso pa ana, musanatenge ngongole, musanayambe kulipira ngongole.
Pamene mukulerera ana ndi ana aang'ono, zofuna zawo zakuthupi zingakhale zovuta, makamaka kwa amayi.
Kotero muyenera kupanga chisankho chodziwikiratu kuti musunge mphamvu zina zogwirizana ndi mwamuna wanu - ngakhale zitatha kusiya zovala kapena imelo kapena zolemba zikomo tsiku lina.
Mwina simungakhale ndi maganizo. Mwinamwake simungamve bwino ndi thupi lanu la pambuyo pake. Koma ngati mutayamba kulola moyo wanu kugonana, mungathe kukhala osagwirizana kwambiri ndi munthu amene poyamba anali chikondi cha moyo wanu. Ndipo mungapeze kuti mutangoyamba kukondana komanso kukondana kachiwiri, mumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yoyamba.
Tengerani Malingaliro Abwino
Gulu lathu limayang'ana kwambiri pa zodandaula ndi kudandaula. N'zosavuta kuti ukhale ndi nkhani yomwe ili m'mutu mwako ponena za zomwe wamunayo walakwitsa komanso momwe akuyikira.
Kusunga ndondomeko ya zolakwa ndi njira yeniyeni yochitira sewero ndi chisokonezo m'nyumba mwanu. M'malo mwake, yesani kulingalira chifukwa chabwino chimene angakhale nacho chochita momwe adachitira.
Mwinamwake anaiwala kutenga ana pa tsikucare chifukwa anali kugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti athandize banja lanu. Mwinamwake sananyalanyaze malingaliro anu apongozi anu okhudza amayi akugwira ntchito chifukwa sanamve. Mwinamwake iye anali kupita ku mbale zonyansa mukakamira ana atagona, kenaka anakhumudwitsidwa ndi bili.
Kufotokozera kwanu sikungakhale koyenera, koma kulingalira kupyolera mwa njira zina kumakupatsani mpata kulingalira kuti pali zifukwa zomveka za zochita zake. Gawo lotsatira - mufunseni zomwe zikuchitika. Mukhoza kukhala ndi zokambirana pa tsiku lausiku!
Mukufuna kupeza bwino kwa moyo wa ntchito, kuthandiza makolo kapena ntchito yowonjezera? Pitani pa tsamba la Ntchito ya Amayi kunyumba.