Mmene Mungayankhire
Funsoli likufanana ndi funso lofunsa mafunso , "Nchiyani chimakupangitsani kukwiya?" Kwa mafunso onsewa, yankho lanu liyenera kukhala ndi zigawo ziwiri.
Choyamba, tchulani zomwe zinakukhumudwitsani, ndikufotokozerani momwe munayendera.
Pofotokoza momwe zinthu zilili, pewani mawu ofunda ngati "chidani" kapena "kukwiya." M'malo mwake, gwiritsani ntchito mawu ochepa pofotokoza mkwiyo wanu, monga "wokhumudwa" kapena "wokhumudwa." Izi zidzatsimikizira kuti simungathe kulamulira zovuta.
Komanso yesetsani kusankha zinthu zomwe sizikuphatikizapo abwana kapena abwana oyambirira, chifukwa izi zidzakuwonetsani kuti ndinu wogwira ntchito mosavuta. Mofananamo, ngakhale ndibwino kunena kuti mukukhumudwa ndi khalidwe la munthu wosapindulitsa kapena zovuta, musawononge nthawi yochulukirapo mlandu kapena kuwuza wina mu yankho lanu. Tchulani mwachidule khalidwe kapena chochitika chomwe chikukuvutitsani, ndiyeno pitirirani ku yankho.
Yankhani yankho lanu pofotokoza m'mene munayendera. Onetsetsani kuti mukugogomezera momwe mudathetsere vutoli mwakachetechete.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwakhumudwa ndi khalidwe la ogwira ntchito, afotokozani momwe mwakumana naye ndipo munapereka mayankho ogwira mtima omwe amachititsa kusintha kwa zochita zawo.
Njira ina yoyankhira funsoli ndi kunena kuti simukukwiyitsa ntchito - izi ziwonetsa kuti simugonjetsedwa kuntchito ndipo mukuzindikira kuti khalidweli siloyenera.
Komabe, mutatha kufotokoza izi, muyenera kufotokoza nthawi yomwe mudakhumudwa kapena kukhumudwa ndi ntchito, komanso momwe munachitira. Kukana kuti munayamba mwakhumudwa kungakuchititseni kuti muwoneke kuti ndinu wosayamika kwa wofunsayo.
Mayankho Opambana
- Ndiyesa kuyang'ana pa zochitika zonse kuchokera muzowonetserana, ndikusafuna kuti maganizo anga agwire ntchito zanga. Ndakhala ndi antchito m'mbuyomu omwe ntchito yawo yakhala yokayikitsa, ndipo ndani sanakwaniritse zofunikira za ntchitoyi. Pazochitikazi, ndapeza kuti ndondomeko yabwino kwambiri ndikukhala oona mtima pa nkhaniyi, ndikupereka njira zoyenera zowonjezera.
- Sindikuganiza kuti mkwiyo ndi malo ogwira ntchito. Ndakhala ndikukumana ndi zovuta zomwe ndinapeza zokhumudwitsa; Mwachitsanzo, ndinali ndi mnzanga amene ankagwira nawo ntchito kwambiri m'makalata ake olembera. Ndinkaona ngati ndikutsutsidwa nthawi zonse chifukwa cha zinthu zomwe sindingathe kuzilamulira. Ndinakhala naye pamodzi ndikukambirana njira zomwe zingatithandize kuti tizilankhulana bwino. Pambuyo pokambirana mokhutitsa, phindu, ubale wathu monga ogwira nawo ntchito unakula bwino, ndipo tinakhala ogwirizana pazinthu zopambana.
- Mkwiyo kwa ine umatanthauza kutaya mphamvu. Sindikulephera. Ndikapanikizika, ndimapita kumbuyo, ndikupuma, ndikuganiza mozama ndikuyamba kupanga ndondomeko. Mwachitsanzo, ndikapatsidwa mapulojekiti ambiri kuti ndikhale ndi nthawi yochepa, m'malo mokhumudwa, ndimabwera ndi njira yothetsera ntchitoyo mosasinthasintha, yomwe sichidzandipweteka.